agrovick:

oya come and tish me how to be daring

eiyahes, search guuglu

SkinnyDude:

how? please elaborate.

for instance, their default nervousness makes most of them assume that their listeners are instantly disgusted or unimpressed by how they speak rather than showing a genuine interest in the substance of what they're saying. others go out of their ways to be psychical and interprete their listener's body language as being patronisingly sympathetic, which injures their ego or self esteem and have them become passive aggressive or reclusive or resort to blatant temper tantrums


if it's how to use the tool of humour u were asking, then you should learn to take a joke at face value. don't assume any ulterior or hidden meanings to funny comments when u hear them, cos at least the joker wasn't bold enough to come straight. u can then own them from there and pretend your didn't catch the hidden drift of their suggestive remarks. use distractions while maintaining your composure and attention to topic. smile. laugh heartily if occasioned to.

missberrypop5:
eiyahes, search guuglu

guuglu said 'ask Millie'

agrovick:

guuglu said 'ask Millie'

ok. www.askmillie.com

missberrypop5:
ok. www.askmillie.com

cyrus or berrypop5? Dis ur name be sounding like someone wants to throw a salute

agrovick:

cyrus or berrypop5? Dis ur name be sounding like someone wants to throw a salute

yup. Unique. No be duplicate.

missberrypop5:
yup. Unique. No be duplicate.

taaaaa! make i hear word. Av u noticed something?

If i seeing a gurl that is very beutifuing, I shall shy to talked to ha o because i was very bold like bold 5.

agrovick:

taaaaa! make i hear word. Av u noticed something?

no, what?

spotit:
for instance, their default nervousness makes most of them assume that their listeners are instantly disgusted or unimpressed by how they speak rather than showing a genuine interest in the substance of what they're saying. others go out of their ways to be psychical and interprete their listener's body language as being patronisingly sympathetic, which injures their ego or self esteem and have them become passive aggressive or reclusive or resort to blatant temper tantrums


if it's how to use the tool of humour u were asking, then you should learn to take a joke at face value. don't assume any ulterior or hidden meanings to funny comments when u hear them, cos at least the joker wasn't bold enough to come straight. u can then own them from there and pretend your didn't catch the hidden drift of their suggestive remarks. use distractions while maintaining your composure and attention to topic. smile. laugh heartily if occasioned to.

seems like you are a Psychologist, cos' you just explained everything. i assume my listeners are disgusted with the way i speak, and i feel bad and ashamed. but am not aggresive.
after speaking with my new female friend this evening, i paused and asked myself "i no know wetin this babe go dey think of me now, i hope say i no dey disgust her with my 'Hard starting'".

missberrypop5:
no, what?

we have a knack for derailing treads

agrovick:

we have a knack for derailing treads

lol, it's good na. Na you deh cause am. Good night jare. I'm off.

SkinnyDude:

seems like you are a Psychologist, cos' you just explained everything. i assume my listeners are disgusted with the way i speak, and i feel bad and ashamed. but am not aggresive.
after speaking with my new female friend this evening, i paused and asked myself "i no know wetin this babe go dey think of me now, i hope say i no dey disgust her with my 'Hard starting'".

lol...hard starting... no, ur not a piece of machinery that needs a new choke/plug/ballast.

i didn't say ur aggressive, look up 'passive aggressive' on googł.. it means something along the lines of being quiet in a dangerous way...using indifference and nonco-operation to make a strong statement..

Have read and read many write ups on shyness but it seems am getting worse daily..just wondering how u would defend my project...

missberrypop5:
hmmm, i used to be shy. Still have little traces.
#following.

Lol. Is that why you won't return my call?

@post, I overcame my shyness mostly by being seen with the finest girls in class. It does something for your ego.
That also helped me see that the prettiest girls are always the nicest. Just walk up, smile and say 'Hi, I like you'. Easy-peasy

missberrypop5:
lol, it's good na. Na you deh cause am. Good night jare. I'm off.

one of these days, somebody will break our heads. Welcome to a brand new day

agrovick:

one of these days, somebody will break our heads. Welcome to a brand new day

lol, i go use you do helmet. Thanks. You too.

missberrypop5:
lol, i go use you do helmet. Thanks. You too.

i don dey know my enemies, that your eyes wey be like my own

agrovick:

i don dey know my enemies, that your eyes wey be like my own

lol, my eyes big pass ya own jawe. But na true o. You sure say our eyes no be twins? You don deh derail this thread again o

missberrypop5:
lol, my eyes big pass ya own jawe. But na true o. You sure say our eyes no be twins? You don deh derail this thread again o

tah! So u xef like beta tin, see as she dey famz my eyes. I go begin station bouncers for any thread wey i feel say u go like... Whats for breakfast, my tummy is spitting rap lyrics

agrovick:

tah! So u xef like beta tin, see as she dey famz my eyes. I go begin station bouncers for any thread wey i feel say u go like... Whats for breakfast, my tummy is spitting rap lyrics

your tummy can be wizkalifah. I no go give you my food

missberrypop5:
your tummy can be wizkalifah. I no go give you my food

me xef no go shop wetin go make me shit. I dey go read, come dey blow me breeze

op kudos

Gut one ques: could being an introvert lead to shyness or the other way around.??

Thou i wnt say im shy, i dnt just really like been around peeps m nt comfortable wit i tend to be choosy wit d kind of peep i roll around wid.

follows

codedmax:
op kudos

Gut one ques: could being an introvert lead to shyness or the other way around.??

Thou i wnt say im shy, i dnt just really like been around peeps m nt comfortable wit i tend to be choosy wit d kind of peep i roll around wid.

An introvert isn't a shy person but being shy can lead to being an introvert.a shy person can still be an extrovert @heart but after just overcomin shyness

Hahaha!! Odiegwu! See badt guys dey form shyness
I feel apprehensive talking to girls because my blockos always charges no matter who she is (so far we're not related) or where we are (even church). This is a big deal (pun intended) because I have a huge *cough* banana plantain.
It's so embarrassing, the last episode was when I was talking to pastor's wife! She just kept gaping at my crotch in horror.
So how do I overCUM (I crack myself up) this hard issue?

BlackStallion:
Hahaha!! Odiegwu! See badt guys dey form shyness
I feel apprehensive talking to girls because my blockos always charges no matter who she is (so far we're not related) or where we are (even church). This is a big deal (pun intended) because I have a huge *cough* banana plantain.
It's so embarrassing, the last episode was when I was talking to pastor's wife! She just kept gaping at my crotch in horror.
So how do I overCUM (I crack myself up) this hard issue?

Damlesky:
If i seeing a gurl that is very beutifuing, I shall shy to talked to ha o because i was very bold like bold 5.

TROLLS

Heebucun:

TROLLS

Lol. I guess that makes you Fiona (an ogress)
Don't segue pls, what's the solution??

Am not shy but the reason am concerned with syhness is there is this male friend of mine.the only gf he had was tru a joke on bbm and even after that the girl took him so much for granted all in the name of SHYNESS.he spends for her and he couldn't even complain if the girl was doin wrong.
Above all she took him for a fool all because he was shy.I know shy guys are not stupid so that's y am against being shy tho being shy can somtimes be cool but not STUPID

nice.

I LOVE U op