i feel sharing my
story here will go a long way. Read my story and regret
ever using pills, stop using it or keep the bundle of joy
waiting to see the sunrise. This is my true life story i
usually don't tell friends this but lets see where it'll
take us to.It all started like the way it had been
beginning with other girls, mum
got pregnant for me, still tender and on the wrong side
of twenty (below twenty). My emergence as a foetus in
her lovely womb posed a threat to the family. I
appeared
like a bad omen, so they felt. From all account mum
was so scared, she was the last child and so the baby
of the house. Almost every decision are made for her.
Uncles insisted terribly that i must be aborted (i love
my uncles so much,
they're the best family i've ever had). They said the
baby (me) must be removed. They had their reasons
according to my grand mother she told me the story, i
understand their fears. I'm not angry with them, it was
a considerable reason. But dad refused, i guess he
managed to convince mum. But the heat was hot, my
grandma revealed. My uncles were so adamant on
aborting me. In fact it was almost done. It was just by
a stroke of a tiny luck i survived. Mum was too young,
and smiling with such an embarrassment would be
soul destroying. In fact she felt terrible, it's okay, no
one would be happy in such a situation. I understand
her panic and i'm sorry for her now i came that way.
He tommy was a little bigger and it showed terribly. A
little girl, not twenty having a child in the eighties when
life was more decent. Imagine the humiliations she
must have received. Besides mum was a people
person, she was as strong as a man and so really had
some aggressive times with her age mates. I'm sure,
they must have mocked her, gossip her and
even see her as a wayward kid. It's okay, good things
don't come easy. But, those people who i believe
mocked her now love me being around. Finally, nine
months arrived. It took so long. I guess mum got tired
of waiting. Doctor said i'm too fat in her womb. You
won't believe it, i'm slim, but where's the fats? And so
she was operated on. She showed me the needle lines
some time ago. While the
operation was going on. Another woman in another
ward who had goiter(swelling of the thyroid gland-the
big ball we sometimes see on people's neck) was
undergoing surgery as well, exactly the same time with
me. We both survived and right there in the hospital
she gave me a special
name-Obokoho meaning nothing is impossible
for God to do. This name took over, my childhood
friends, family members called me this name. Nobody
wanted the name mum and dad gave to me. And so
not everyone call me that name, it's special. Because a
story is behind it. It's
only those who know me from a tender age call me
that name. That's how i love it to be. And right now, i'm
the only son of my mum, the only reason she smile.
She called me one certain time and said she just want
to hear my voice. I'm the only brother to my sister. I've
great friends that touched my life as well as i touched
theirs. My uncles love and care for me. My dad is
proud of me. I'm on facebook. I just sent my story to
sex in 9ja. I've falling in love once. It was the best
feeling ever. I've a best meal. I love music. I love life,
i'm enjoying it. I love my best friends like crazy. They
miss me almost every minute. One of the called me
and told me that he is grateful for the money i sent
him but there's just one problem his missing me. What
a true friend. I survived to see a black rule America.
My baby cry gave me the privilege to be a christian. I
dream to be a philantropist someday. I give arms to
beggars always. I've helped friends. I've been there for
people. I've touched lives. People have touched mine.
I've tasted tears and pain, i've felt the walls of a cell.
I've enjoyed peace and immense happiness. So much
have happened in my life. I've been a thing of joy and
happiness to people. Where ever i go, i impress
people. They want me around, cos
when i'm around i turn things around to favour them.
Imagine i was aborted, you won't be reading this. So
much wouldn't have happened. And this explain why i
couldn't date a girl or indulge into sex cos i can't get a
girl pregnant when it's not time. Abortion don't exist in
my own world. Are you pregnant? And ashame of it?
Don't be. That child will be a miracle. Keep it. Someday
you'll be happy you did like mum. I'm her only son.
Her shelter when it rains. Her eyes, her breath, her
smile. My sister i'm sure is so happy
about it. She sometimes cries 4 me. Atleast, i'm there
for her. My grandma love me so much. My family
does. I'm a thing of love to them. So discard the pills,
keep the joy in your womb. Give it a chance to bring
you love. I'm so sorry, the story is a long one. I hope i
touched your life. Anyway life goes on...CHEERS!

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Sorry

Cha!!! It is well.

Too long to be on FP abeg.

Nice some of us find our self in dis situation
We all hv purpose of coming to dis world

may you fulfill GOD's purpose for your life in jesus name

Richardjemedafe:
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Yes ooo, seconded. Anyone who tinks otherwise, I wil go back in time and abort d person.

Its so touching. Since u ar not aborted, u shall leave long nd ur mum will enjoy u..........

great story and touching small o.... u don't have to tell us what u do Na. biko!

anyway, this story is same with a good friend of mine I met while at the university of Abuja. he was conceived just two months after his mother gave birth to his elder sister and everyone wanted him aborted due to d fact DAT the pregnancy myt poise a threat to his mother's health. they actually did everything needed to be done to remove him but miraculously, he survived.. on the last day for him to b aborted, while on their way to d hospital, his uncle came from another state to stop that move,and today d guy is great guy. extremely brilliant, courageous, stubborn, intelligent and fun to b with. I forgot to say how good looking he is. during exams, if anyone around him didn't know anything, dis guy would single handedly feed him or her with answers, no matter the crowd around him who didn't know what to write. he hates to to see someone in pain or need. he can give his last kobo to put a smile on someone's face irrespective of tribe.. he was a man , sorry, student of d students..lol!
as a port Harcourt guy, he loves women and alcohol as I do, so we clicked well.
and like OP, dis my friend HATES abortion with passion.

marieolae:
Sorry

why are you being sorry?

marieolae:
Sorry

Sorry about what

jaeyoh:
Its so touching. Since u ar not aborted, u shall leave long nd ur mum will enjoy u..........

Amen....Tenx bro

Richardjemedafe:



Sorry about what

thts the only thing tht I cud think of

Nice one op...... abortion ain't the way