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Re: Do Women Really Forgive And Forget by otukpo(f): 7:21pm On Oct 11, 2014
chaircover:
Forgive . . .with great difficulty
Forget . . Never
. . . and things will never be quite the same again as I will see him in a totally different light.
The trust is gone forever and every penny and every oppourtunity from that point on will be for me and my kids alone.
Emotional detachment is inevitbale.



Gbam!!!

I baffles me to hear that some women care less as long as the husband still comes back home.

They must be a different breed of women.

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Re: Do Women Really Forgive And Forget by AmazeBalls(f): 7:53pm On Oct 11, 2014
This is exactly my state now.my hubby has been cheating on me for a couple of months now.I have forgiven him but I can never trust him again.He has been trying to his best to change the situation in d home.my heart is so broken.

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Re: Do Women Really Forgive And Forget by soonest(f): 7:53pm On Oct 11, 2014
Forgive, may be but Forget, never.
otukpo:
And more importantly, what he would have said to her.
How do I get this thought out of my head. This is one of the reasons why forgiveness wil be far fetched.

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Re: Do Women Really Forgive And Forget by beeevan: 8:05pm On Oct 11, 2014
I can't forgive nor forget infidelity, might consider forgiveness only when you have served a penance. Only his pain and misery will pacify the hurt caused by his infidelity.


Once it's gone, its gone forever.

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Re: Do Women Really Forgive And Forget by otukpo(f): 8:17pm On Oct 11, 2014
AmazeBalls:
This is exactly my state now.my hubby has been cheating on me for a couple of months now.I have forgiven him but I can never trust him again.He has been trying to his best to change the situation in d home.my heart is so broken.

Take heart dear, maybe one day he will be able to convince you
But its not going to be easy.

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Re: Do Women Really Forgive And Forget by otukpo(f): 8:19pm On Oct 11, 2014
soonest:
Forgive, may be but Forget, never.

How do I get this thought out of my head. This is one of the reasons why forgiveness wil be far fetched.

I wish men can know this.

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Re: Do Women Really Forgive And Forget by gidjah(m): 8:39pm On Oct 11, 2014
Odilafta:
Forgive,yes.
Forget,no.
Like they say,"to err is human and to forgive is devine"

I can whole heartedly forgive you but trust me,"Remember that I forgave you" will be an anthem for a long time tongue

If I forget,how would I learn to be concious? How would I learn to avoid such stories that touch the ear?

To me,only fools forget..


Note: Strictly my opinion
WOMEN HARDLY FORGIVE TALKMORE OF FORGETTIN!SO TO FORGIVE and forget no dey them dictionary o!

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Re: Do Women Really Forgive And Forget by Nobody: 10:34pm On Oct 11, 2014
Forgive, yes. ✓
Forget, yes.✓

My particular school of thought involves both. I'm, of course, referring to the school of: "I'll forgive, and forget you".

Does that count, OP? cheesy

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Re: Do Women Really Forgive And Forget by Kanwulia: 11:08pm On Oct 11, 2014
Yes!
No one is worth my stress!
Too busy h-enjoying life to dwell on NONENTITIES! kiss

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Re: Do Women Really Forgive And Forget by cococandy(f): 11:48pm On Oct 11, 2014
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Re: Do Women Really Forgive And Forget by otukpo(f): 3:31am On Oct 12, 2014
EnlightenedSoul:
Forgive, yes. ✓
Forget, yes.✓

My particular school of thought involves both. I'm, of course, referring to the school of "I'll forgive, and forget you".

Does that count, OP? cheesy

Irrespextive of whatever he says?

What if you've had kids for him?

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Re: Do Women Really Forgive And Forget by chesterlee(m): 7:44am On Oct 12, 2014
missberrypop5:
understand wetin? Why you no understand? Sho, as you fine reach, there's a possibility that you'll surely cheat on me. grin
Hehehe...
I won't cheat jare, I'm a one lady guy though.
But it mainly depends on the lady.
Re: Do Women Really Forgive And Forget by chesterlee(m): 7:49am On Oct 12, 2014
otukpo:




If he was seduced and he could not hold himself, that means he can still be seduced another time.

And mind you, that situation might be worse, cos a lady that wants to have a child can seduce him and get that from him.
Dear,its not as easy as you think

It takes a lot of grace to fight off some temptation!
Re: Do Women Really Forgive And Forget by chesterlee(m): 7:51am On Oct 12, 2014
SAMBARRY:
mr man my role model said this so there's nothing like falling into temptation. Same way you can't tempt a person who's not hungry with food Same way you can't fall into temptation of what you hadn't had in mind to do


My brother, Once you have blood flowing in your veins....

Anything can happen!!!
Re: Do Women Really Forgive And Forget by destante(f): 8:05am On Oct 12, 2014
strangely for me, if I "forgive and forget" a cheating partner that I have something serious with, its a worse thing for him. angry

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Re: Do Women Really Forgive And Forget by EfemenaXY: 8:09am On Oct 12, 2014
chesterlee:
Honestly, it won't be an easy decision to make...I fit forgive u if na hearsay

But if to say I catch the manchi bleeping you! Allah, E go hard oh!!!

Why?

Why would it be hard to forgive and forget what you've seen live, before you? Abeg explain...

Kanwulia:
Yes!
No one is worth my stress!
Too busy h-enjoying life to dwell on NONENTITIES! kiss

Lol! I get where you're coming from K, kiss kiss but for the benefit of those guys on here who don't, would you mind breaking it down further for them pls?
Re: Do Women Really Forgive And Forget by chesterlee(m): 8:34am On Oct 12, 2014
EfemenaXY:


Why?

Why would it be hard to forgive and forget what you've seen live, before you? Abeg explain...




Lol...seeing another guy bleep my wifey live and direct would be like taking 10 years off my life. It would haunt me forever. Anytime I see her face, I would surely remember that moment. It won't be easy to forgive, talkless of forgetting!!!

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Re: Do Women Really Forgive And Forget by EfemenaXY: 8:43am On Oct 12, 2014
chesterlee:
Lol...seeing another guy bleep my wifey live and direct would be like taking 10 years off my life. It would haunt me forever. Anytime I see her face, I would surely remember that moment. It won't be easy to forgive, talkless of forgetting!!!

But what if she's truly remorseful? And gave in to temptation in a moment of weakness?

And if you've got kids, shouldn't this be another valid reason to forgive and forget, for their sake?

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Re: Do Women Really Forgive And Forget by Nobody: 8:58am On Oct 12, 2014
Forgive: No!
Forget: NO!
Endure: Maybe
Love: Earth No!


Darling husband had better not cheat on me...I'm a great fan to lose.

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Re: Do Women Really Forgive And Forget by Nobody: 9:33am On Oct 12, 2014
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Re: Do Women Really Forgive And Forget by Nobody: 9:34am On Oct 12, 2014
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Re: Do Women Really Forgive And Forget by Nobody: 9:42am On Oct 12, 2014
prettythicksme:
I will forgive but forget until i cheat on him too,50/50
And you think you've solved the problem, ba?
Re: Do Women Really Forgive And Forget by Nobody: 9:52am On Oct 12, 2014
With the girls are commenting on this thread, it looks like a "women empowerment programme".

Cheating is difficult for both partners to swallow, one mistake can shatter the whole relationship.

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Re: Do Women Really Forgive And Forget by SAMBARRY: 10:50am On Oct 12, 2014
chesterlee:
My brother, Once you have blood flowing in your veins....

Anything can happen!!!
indeed

Re: Do Women Really Forgive And Forget by Nobody: 11:04am On Oct 12, 2014
Eewh sambarry shocked cheesy
Do u want some people to commit lookery? cheesy
Haba!
Show mercy cheesy

Women intimidating men since d first century tongue cheesy


But on a serious note, who be that?
Na artificial be that abi real one?

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Re: Do Women Really Forgive And Forget by SAMBARRY: 11:06am On Oct 12, 2014
As real as ya boyfriends dheec wink
moca:
Eewh sambarry shocked cheesy
Do u want some people to commit lookery? cheesy
Haba!
Show mercy cheesy

Women intimidating men since d first century tongue cheesy


But on a serious note, who be that?
Na artificial be that abi real one?

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Re: Do Women Really Forgive And Forget by greedie1(f): 11:14am On Oct 12, 2014
chesterlee:
But it mainly depends on the lady.

No!!! it's all on you. That excuse that wifey pushed you to cheat is lame at best. there are very many ways to handle whatever without allowing ur 3rd organ think and act for u.

chesterlee:
My brother, Once you have blood flowing in your veins....
Anything can happen!!!


Another lie . Really how does anything happen? A colleague, junior staff or client waltzes in, strips and seduces you at gunpoint?

Or an internet friend wannabe materializes into your private space and again has her way with you at gunpoint?

Perhaps the lady that owns the joint where you and the guys unwind after a hectic day slipped sleeping pills into ur drink and carted you away to her personal rendezvous while ur helpless friends looked on?

Maybe males run on blood and females on water?

My friend, you cant get drowned if you don't go near a waterbody. Stop blaming the devil or ur pulsating member, you alone are responsible for your actions.

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Re: Do Women Really Forgive And Forget by destante(f): 11:43am On Oct 12, 2014
softsparkyy:

I can imagine.
Lol abi. happy sundai
Re: Do Women Really Forgive And Forget by Nobody: 11:50am On Oct 12, 2014
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Re: Do Women Really Forgive And Forget by destante(f): 11:53am On Oct 12, 2014
softsparkyy:

Wish you the best nne, you don dey carry me enter different threads now ooo.
lol nwokem, that's how it is with you tew o.
Re: Do Women Really Forgive And Forget by samflex(m): 12:00pm On Oct 12, 2014
chinziaski:
With the girls are commenting on this thread, it looks like a "women empowerment programme".

Cheating is difficult for both partners to swallow, one mistake can shatter the whole relationship.

Lmao at women empowerment programme
Re: Do Women Really Forgive And Forget by Nobody: 12:02pm On Oct 12, 2014
samflex:


Lmao at women empowerment programme

The ladies were just commenting the same thing.

Men don die be dis grin

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