topemirates:
Shy and introvert guys get angry so easily and can be a temperamental, all i can say!!!

Medunah:
Very true, i love reserved guyz, dey talk only wen they need to, they re calm, quiet nd so on

ifeoluwa05:

Thot being shy and introvert are d same thing. You cant be shy and also be extrovert? I stand corrected .

Qoigord:


Yeah... right, then you lock 'em up in the friend zone innit?

kraftykc:



Frankly I find this topic rather demeaning to all "shy" and introvert men.

What law of nature makes shy men NOT smoke, cheat and gain education? I didn't bother reading the rest of the article cos I already guessed where it was heading.

Ladies if you go seeking a shy guy thinking you'll get all what the OP promised not only will your stupidity be exposed but you will learn the lesson of generalizations being bad, firsthand.

lachill:
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iceberylin:

ÁM ŃŐŤ ŶŐÚŔ baby

ggrin:
ur annoying

Toonfreak:
Arva,you are 200% correct. I'm a shy guy too and I'm loving it. Let me add more points to your list. A shy guy is a lone ranger: He goes home alone. A shy guy loves his privacy: Take this away from him and he's dead. A shy guy select who will be his friend: He does this based on his interest. A shy guy is surrounded by lots of females: 99.9% of a shy guy friends are females. A shy guy takes his time before making a call to a girl: He does this by compositing his thought in his head or on paper before making a call to a girl. A shy guy rarely make phone calls: His phone can be domant for a whole year. He's not bothered though. Sometimes he make a phone call only if it is important. A shy guy sometimes or all the times hide his shyness by smiling or laughing.

THAINDIVIDUAL:

If you have a problem with me, tell me. Don't insult me next time, ok.

You can join in the argument bro

iceberylin:

Ĩ ĎŐŃŤ ČÁŔĔ

Arva:

You can yawn forever and go and sleep forever. Shy guys are the best. If ur an extrovert, I'm sorry I might not date you because just have a look at the post where I said shy guys are willing to listen and don't disrupt conversation.. Ur actually doing the opposite. Extrovert guys like you will keep on yawning at every single converation I hold with them. Only shy guys will be willing to listen to a lady. Become a shy guy today and I might date you. Change ur status from extrovert to introvert.

BlackHuman:
I'm an Introvert....because of my nature different people form different opinions of me-...I've once heard someone say to me; "you're too proud"- I don't mix and talk with everyone like most extroverts would expect...infact, in church today; after service I sat quietly in my seat waiting for the workers' meeting to begin. When my unit leader came to tell me to stand and just talk and mix with people,- in my mind I was like- "what d 4**k am I supposed to say"?,"is it necessary?"...i don't like talking except there's somtin important to say, i'm not d kind dat talks "just to make d place lively",i don't mind long silences, Infact we can travel from lagos to Ibadan together in a vehicle and I won't even mutter a word.....and also i'm tired of hearing friends and family tell me- "hey u no fit even call person since all dis dayz"-In my mind i'm like-"call u for what?"....in my phone there are numbers i've not called since like 3yrs ago...I'm not d kind of guy dat calls "just to sat hi"...it's not like I'm proud, or a dullard, it's just not part of my character.....but I don't have anything against the extroverts, infact I love them, they're entertaining eventho, they could somtimes say downright odd and things like dry jokes, and pointless statements.

kashere:
U just describ my husband! When we started dating,anytime he comes to my room he wil just sit dr without sayin anytin to me. I had to tell his frds b4 he change alittle. My mum stil complains dt anytime he comes to her house after greetin and few words, he wil just sit dr readin his news papers.we are almst 9yrs into our marriage but HE is the best husband/frd I can ever hope for.

esmeralda1:
Some shy and introverted men are also very abusive physically and emotionally, their shy natures will not let u suspect they are as such.

richt75:
So true my dear. Not bold enough to confront babes of my choice for marriage since last year I came in from Asia. I only got girls to chat with online (Badoo ) anyway, I love myself because I save more money by not drinking and smoking or womanizing.

Acidosis:

Adenuga is a typical introvert.

havilla:
I love my man very confident with a bit of a rough edge. Sorry to say but I feel shy and introvert guys can't really make it in Nigeria. It's a jungle out there

Arva:
I have so many reasons why I should date a shy and introvert guy which I believe many of you forumites will agree to. Usually we ignore the shy and introvert guys, and date the confident, thug looking, rich, tall and ugly guys. The latter kind of guys are not usually the best in my opinion. Have you ever thought about dating a shy guy? There are so many different benefits and you'll be glad you did.

1. They are less intimidating
Confident and extrovert guys can be so intimidating because they surrounds themselves with all kinds of girls and bad manners. Shy guys are less intimidating. They are very gentle and meek and are less likely to reject you. This is one big reason to start rolling along with a shy guy. You'll love them.

2. It’s easy to make them blush
Shy guys have the tendency to blush easily with the slightest of compliments. Just compliment them about their looks and appearance and you'll see the magic of their blush. That really melts my heart a lot unlike the confident and rough guys who will only say a "thank you". That's even if they say it at all. Try dating a shy guy today. You'll love 'em

3. Shy guys won’t cheat on you
Shy guys will never cheat on you. Relationship cheating is what many girls hate and shy and introvert guys will never stoop so low to have another girl behind you but reverse is the case for confident and extrovert guys. They like to explore anything they see with boobs and big behinds even if its not human . Confident and extrovert guyz are just so awkward. You'll never like them. I prefer the introvert guys. They'll always stick to you.

4. They are so true, real and genuine
Me loves these set of guys because they are so true to themselves. They will never deceive you. They are just so charming and will never lie to you.

5. They are good listeners.
Shy and introvert guys are just awesome for one thing. They are extremely good listerners. Never will they counter you in any discussion or disrupt the flow of the discussion. All these adorable guys do is listen, listen, listen and listen. Unlike the extrovert guys who will just keep shouting to the extent that other people around you will hear the content of your discussion . Shy guys will never stoop so low to that extent. They are always very quiet and meek.

6. They don't party, drink nor smoke.
I'm begining to convince you that shy guys are cool right ? Another reason you should date a shy guy is that they don't engage in party, alcohol or weed. They being an introvert will not even allow them such bad manners. Reverse is the case for the confident guys. They'll make sure they engage in all sort of party. They being an extrovert makes them to boast about the latest and most expensive wines and alcohols they've tasted, they amount of weed the smoke daily and the number of girls they've had sex with from funmi to funke to fumilade to fumilayo That's crazy isn't it ? Shy guys are just so cool to themselves. They don't need to brag about anything. Whatever happens never leaks out.

7. Shy and introvert guys are very educated and very intelligent.
This is very true. Shy guys are very educated and very intelligent. They being very intelligent leaves them with no time for social activities. They are so charming. Date an introvert today and you'll be glad you did. I had one as a boyfriend and I wish I had him back.
Feel free to add yours.

Where to find a shy guy.
1: Shy guys are very easy to find. If you are still in the university, you can find them at the back seat of your classroom. When others are gones after a lecture, shy guys always remain alone, sitting down, alone with their thought. This is always your best time to approach them. Just compliment him on anything and watch him blush. They are very friendly.

2: During your NYSC.
During your service year, you'll find many of them at the orientation camp. I had sweet experiences with one during my NYSC days. He was so sweet and charming. You'll always find them at the back of the crowd doing almost nothing. They just stand there and clap for others engaging in one task or the other. They are very gentle set of people so don't mind them for not partaking in activites. They don't want to look rough like the extrovert guys. Those of you going for NYSC batch c come november 2014, watch out for the shy guys. You'll love them.

3: During church service
These awesome set of beings are easy to find during church service. They always sit at the back, rarely dance when its time for offering and they rarely come out to give testimonies because they are shy. Isn't that cool ? Unlike the extrovert guys that will even go the awkward length of dancing shoki and skelewu during church service . Shy guys will never do this . Oh how can I even forget the way they blush when you ask them questions during sunday school. They are so adorable.
Feel free to add yours.

How to know if a guy is shy and an introvert.

Its very easy to spot these sweet guys. They will always blush at every single thing you say. Another way to spot them is to monitor their movements. Never will you see a shy guy going out unnecessarily. They are always indoors and only come out with their charming self at night. These people are just so cool. Date one today and you'll be glad you did. I can testify to this. We dated for years and sweet memories still ring in me.
Feeel free to add yours.

Source: myself and written for nairaland forum members and guests.