giffyted:

I had my baby 2 weeks to my 17th birthday.

giffyted:

I didn't experience morning sickness, spitting and all those other first signs of pregnancy. At 5 months, i was already lactating. I remember the heart burns, my God, nothing quite like it. Didn't start ante natal till pregnancy was around 7months plus. And then it was a teaching hospital so had to go in for tests every week since it was considered a high risk pregnancy because i was really young. I hated needles, but they became my companions then; i did all the tests imaginable, scans, etc. I started feeling some contractions and went to the mat. home where i had her, but was told it was false labour. I remember i had cravings for yogurt and boiled eggs; and that was what i ate for 3months straight. The day of the labour, i woke up feeling really energetic, cleaned the whole house, went to the market, cooked food i never ate, washed even clean clothes, mopped the whole house, cleaned windows, iin short i was really feeling like super woman till i suddenly felt one sharp pain, there's nothing that can ever describe the pains of contractions; i started walking, running, jumping, crying, dancing, i was in a frenzy like a mad woman. When the pains became super duper unbearable after my waters broke, i was praying for death and just laid on the floor with my tummy, to cut a long story short, the labour lasted for about 6hrs. I pushed and pushed and with one final push, my baby popped out or rather flew out, screamed with all her lungs and put all four fingers in her mouth; i don starve d babe because i had not eaten for nearly 48hrs before her delivery. Well, that was 13years ago, but i still remember it like it was yesterday. Yeah and i remember the stitching up of the incisions made down there, the pains were so bloody unbearable i didn't allow them stitch everything up-for real. I refused, clamped shut my legs and so out of four incisions, only 2 were stitched. I thank God because she was a very healthy baby, though funny enough she didnt really like breast milk, but preferred feeding bottles, maybe because i had sores all around my nipples, so i used 2 do do a lot of extractions-very painful, force breastfed her for 3months because my breast milk ran like a tap, am sure i would have easily breastfed sextuplets with the way the thing used to flow out. All my cloths, no matter the breastpads or foam bras i used were everly soaked and after going through all that for 3months, i just decided to stop breastfeeding and faced the bottle. Well, i am seriously looking forward to having more kids and pray my kids will be like my daughter. She's such a joy- full of life, beautiful, still very healthy, playful and you name it- i know i am mightily blessed. I love kids a whole lot, pregnancy is an interesting stage in a woman's life. You see different changes, You don't know what to even expect from yourself the next day. My skin glowed when i was pregnant, i was really beautiful, hair and nails grew longer and i didn't really have a big bulge so was surprised when i had a big baby. I know i am not following any sequence in my writing, i just dey write as e dey flow and as i remember things. Yeah and the advantage of having kids early, when i go to see my daughter in school, her classmates argue, no she aint ur mom, and she's always like yeah i know my mom is a babe can u beat that? )

Ebony-Silk:

I am not here to rebuke you lol, but damn!! Tenn Love. . . .were you still in high school or freshman at a uni?
Lol@Ebony-Silk, My dear let's say it was puppy love or d result of too many mills and boon novels. I actually got preggy d 1st time i had sex@16, in my final year in high school.

Ok, that was scary!!
Awww, the gift of a child. . . .mind if I ask if the father of the baby was present?

Ebony-Silk:

I am not here to rebuke you lol, but damn!! Tenn Love. . . .were you still in high school or freshman at a uni?
Ok, that was scary!!

Awww, the gift of a child. . . .mind if I ask if the father of the baby was present?

giffyted:

Lol@Ebony-Silk, My dear let's say it was puppy love or d result of too many mills and boon novels. I actually got preggy d 1st time i had sex@16, in my final year in high school. Shocked Shocked Shocked Lips sealed Lips sealed
The father of the child was very absent and didn't see his daughter till a week later. If u think that's bad enough, 13 years down the line, he hasn't seen his daughter in years-but that's another story. Fact is I'm very grateful to God for blessing me with a wonderful child and being with me all through for sincerely God has never failed; He has been with me all through and meets me @ every point of my needs; let's say I am God's Special project. Suffice it to say i won't trade my daughter or my relationship with God 4 anything in the world! Grin Grin Grin

Ebony-Silk:

awww, it's okay darling. As long as the baby and you are alright.
Some men are not worth a drop of tears. It's best if we stand up and dust ourself.

B.T.W, did you get to finish school?
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yes i finished school. I grad 4rm uni abt 8yrs ago. Planning on doing my masters.

yes i finished school. I grad from uni about 8yrs ago. Planning on doing my masters.

Ebony-Silk:

Wonderful, you work on that.
Atleast when things gets tough, you know you're not only doing it for yourself.
I wish you the best of luck in everything you do. . . .

hannydarl:

for me o any symptom of pregnancy on the book I had from mornning sickness that took me to the hospital for drip/infussion to big nose and lips to baaaad heart burn,indigestion,extreeme nausea,loss of appetite, weight loss,spitting,tiredness I also had progesterone problem so I was on the injection every 3 days for 3 weeks then moved to the tablet till week 24(refused to stop at week 16 when dr gave the order because after 4 MCs i was afraid that if i stoped too soon i might lose this one too) i had all these problems for 9 months and then baby did not turn he was transverse so i had to get a CS in all pregnancy did not treat me well but my boy is worth it all.

hannydarl:

@omofala
getting preggy needs targeting your fertile days o I have a phone that calculates mine and i never missed anytime i want to get PG my only problem was keeping the pregnancy but thank God i have a son now.
count 14 days from the fist day of your last period and start doing the "BABYDANCE" two days before the 14th day for 5 days (this will make sure you catch the pea if ovulation occurs early that month and doing it for 5 days after the 14th day will ensure you catch the pea if ovulation happens late)if all is well and you ussualy have your period on regular days and you ovulate too you wont miss the target.
So have a fun filled time.

giffyted:

Thanks Ebony. With God by my side and determination, I know that nothing at all is insurmountable in my life. Tnx 4 ur encouragement. God bless u!

hannydarl:

@Ebony-silk
Na hormone o.I remember I used to laugh at women who's noses and lips get big durring pregnancy but when the thing come jam me my mouth heavy I no fit laugh myself.
I hope my next pregnancy will make me glow and pweeetyyy sha

hannydarl:

@Ebony-silk
I am thinking of giving m sammy a brother or sister in future but the thought of going through pregnancy scares me because the fear of misscariage is deeply entrenched in my mind and for me pregnancy is full of uncertainty and nervouseness but I think in 3 or 4 years time I will forget all that and try again

hannydarl:

for me o any symptom of pregnancy on the book I had from morning sickness that took me to the hospital for drip/infussion to big nose and lips to baaaad heart burn,indigestion,extreeme nausea,loss of appetite, weight loss,spitting,tiredness I also had progesterone problem so I was on the injection every 3 days for 3 weeks then moved to the tablet till week 24(refused to stop at week 16 when dr gave the order because after 4 MCs i was afraid that if i stoped too soon i might lose this one too) i had all these problems for 9 months and then baby did not turn he was transverse so i had to get a CS in all pregnancy did not treat me well but my boy is worth it all.

hannydarl:

@Arlington
my sister at first i too was praying and hoping for the best the second one got me looking for help but the lady my aunt took me to was a trado medicine doctor and she asked for 250thousand naira from me i refused and decided to go see a gyneacologist I dint know that it was progesterone problem and just 1500 naira per per pack of progesterone pill a month for 4 months will do the trick but the trouble is not all doctors support the use of the hormone so some women who need this therapy don't get it if their doctors don't support it .

hannydarl:

@Ebony-silk
I got married and pregggy after my youth service but the university I schooled in don't chase away pregnant female students I think its one of these private universities here called convenant university that does not allow preggy students or cell phones on the campus.

baby123:

For me the nine months was easy no vomit, spitting , the only stress i got was , i feel irrittated easily . my husband is a medical doctor but i will never allow him to perpate me i rather wait for me clinic day .
to cut my story short on the d day , he was on call when labour pain started i had to ask my sister to do the calling and before u know it i was naked already i couldnt bear the pain he came in and saw me. ( before i continue am the type that can not take pain ), i beg him to please check i don't know what is happening and he suggested i wait for my clinic day ,.
Thank God he was afar when he said that and i had to start apologizing and said please u can perpate , do whatever u like all i need is a relived , he monitored me when i ws fully dillated , he drove me to the powerful room were i make my first son .
this is me that swore never to go back there ,now i have them three .and am done . any way is a beautiful experience and i pray every woman will go through it .

hannydarl:

@Ebony silk
I think they say students may use it to view pornography or call up boyfriends and girlfriends which the school believes is immoral so no student is allowed to owen a phone while on campus they want to produce saints as graduates

hannydarl:

@Eboni-silk
One could download short nude scenes from movies or get a photo of nude people uing camera or video enabled handset.

mohawkchic:

~I was lucky not to have any strechmarks on my tummy,I was really wooried about that, soOo i made dam sure NEVER to scratch my tummy no matter how strong the temptation when it itches !!-i use to apply the cocoa butter for pregnant women every  time i had an itchy tummy & massage . . I'd like to think me not scratching my bump is the reason i didnt get any stretch marks but i seriously doubt it 

mohawkchic:

*I went thro breast pads like no body's bizness-when i had to leave baby home w/ dada to go do shopping or just get some air,My heavy dripping breast will lead me home faster than i'd anticipated!!There was this one time when i ended up having patches on my Top even w/ breast pads on!!I didnt even realise or know how long i'd been walking with two patched wet spots on my Top till my hand brushed against the wet patch & i was like soOoo  [/color]

mohawkchic:

~Only had to endure that on D-Day!!& The midwife checking how far i was dilated when i thought i was in Labor-

Busy_body:

Wow, didn't know one was not supposed to scratch, I loved scratching myself so much, infact, I'd say that was one of my best experience of being pregnant Another thing I did was hold my wee for hours trying to be superwoman, now looking back, it was no wonder that I had several UTI's throughout the pregnancy.

~Lol,tell me about it,i know how sweet scratching can be . . Holding pee was a bad habit i had before preggy,but once my bump got bigger,the laughing/sneezing unexpectedly . . .made me pee as often as i can!! there was no telling when or where i was going to laugh/sneeze!

Ha remember some days that I would go out, but forget to take breast pads, and have to clutch my bag to my chest, or my jacket to cover the wet patch, lol

~ ooh Dear!!

Went for loads of checks probably due to the numerous urine infection. remembered once a scruffy looking guy came into the room I was in, and pulled the covers off my body, and went out, I put it back on, the guy came in again and did the same thing, I put it on again, then he came back and said he was the mid-wife who was going to be checking me out that he sees over 100 vaginas a day so I should stop covering mine, I nearly died of shame The most annoying part is that one can never tell a Doctor apart from a nurse or a midwife or an auxilliary because they all wear the same stuff

~LMAO ,Reminds me of my m8's delivery . . she consented to have a male student midwife in the delivery room,he nearly fainted when the baby was coming!!I figure by now,he would have seen 100 vagina's & be saying the same to some woman!!

hannydarl:

@Ebony-silk
you wan know about adult stuff?confirm your age first before I alow you enter the site