My gf can be so annoying atimes..... Instead of telling me whatever is troubling her mind, she puts up a moody attitude expecting me to detect the problem from her body language.
She is not dumb but it seems she prefers communicating with the body/sign language than saying it out. And I'm not that good at decoding this behaviour and most times it can be frustrating.
The relationship is almost on the brink due to this singular issue. She thinks I'm just being insensitive while I'm beginning to feel that she's creeping me out.
Recently She told me that her silence is saying a thousand words but I don't care to listen. And I replied " Do I look like a mind reader to you, if you have anything to say, go straight to the point".
If you are in this kind of relationship, how do you decode and understand her body language.

I'm in this type of relationship too , I think some comments will help me too

Pamper,treat her like a goddess and watch her subconsciously saying all that is in her mind

edozie04:
Pamper,treat her like a goddess and watch her subconsciously saying all that is in her mind

You mean trick her into spilling the beans

yes ;Dyes

helica:
yes ;Dyes

what do you mean by this.... As do you also indulge in this kinda acts

....Whats the essence of body language when I have mouth to speak the direct language......


...Ladies do it.....Yeah, I think I do it once in a blue moon......I always love speaking my mind.....I ll say whatever thats bugging my mind to my nigga....

Look op,it's not easy in that kinda relationship as it's.Ur gal is the shy type and therefore immature to me(sorry for that if offended),hence,if u see the following signs,take the following steps therefore:
1.When she puts on short/mini shirt to ur apartment,she needs hot s.ex.
2.When she rolls frm one direction of ur bed to another or she touches her stomach frequently,then she's hungry.
3.When she puts on a dirty cloth or probably a semi-torn cloth,she needs u to take her out for shopping.
4.When her hair itches her or it's rough or better still,when she packs it with a 'ruberring',it's unkept and as such u don't need a prophet to tell u what 2 do.
5.If she doesn't call u,or she usually sends u call me back sms,then u need to recharge her phone sometimes.

Lots more signs,these are just a few jare.

edozie04:
Pamper,treat her like a goddess and watch her subconsciously saying all that is in her mind

This guy is talking 4rm an experience i guess!

Swizdoe:

You mean trick her into spilling the beans

Exactly

izaray:
This guy is talking 4rm an experience i guess!

Sure

edozie04:
Sure

U try den!

Swizdoe:
what do you mean by this.... As do you also indulge in this kinda acts

yes sometimes I just don't know how to express myself. u are suppose to know wen she is not happy with u, so all u have to do is play with her ask her why she is acting that and she will tell u everything u need to know.

helica:
yes sometimes I just don't know how to express myself. u are suppose to know wen she is not happy with u, so all u have to do is play with her ask her why she is acting that and she will tell u everything u need to know.

I get your point...... But the moment she's is unhappy with me is actually the hardest time to find out what the problem

edozie04:
Exactly

Thanks bro

ebenezer4o2:
Look op,it's not easy in that kinda relationship as it's.Ur gal is the shy type and therefore immature to me(sorry for that if offended),hence,if u see the following signs,take the following steps therefore:
1.When she puts on short/mini shirt to ur apartment,she needs hot s.ex.
2.When she rolls frm one direction of ur bed to another or she touches her stomach frequently,then she's hungry.
3.When she puts on a dirty cloth or probably a semi-torn cloth,she needs u to take her out for shopping.
4.When her hair itches her or it's rough or better still,when she packs it with a 'ruberring',it's unkept and as such u don't need a prophet to tell u what 2 do.
5.If she doesn't call u,or she usually sends u call me back sms,then u need to recharge her phone sometimes.

Lots more signs,these are just a few jare.

Lol..... Bros e never reach this stage

temigracie:
....Whats the essence of body language when I have mouth to speak the direct language......


...Ladies do it.....Yeah, I think I do it once in a blue moon......I always love speaking my mind.....I ll say whatever thats bugging my mind to my nigga....

Yes it varies among the ladies but her behaviour is becoming too much.... What do you think a guy in this situation should do

Swizdoe:

Lol..... Bros e never reach this stage

Which stage e don come reach then?Besides,if u never see any of the above signs,u never start 2 date in that relationship @all as u talk say she be the quite type of gal.Maybe u people are still ordinary friends then I guess!

Women who prefer body language to verbal communication are shy and always need their spouse to force words out of their mouth.

In a case such as this, all you need do is very little.
Try to calm her down and make her feel comfortable, do not nag or shout at her for her behavior as this will aggravate her mood, pamper her and play wild guessing games to figure out the problem and when she is tired and feels you sincerely want to know, then she'll open up.

All she needs is your attention and playing MUTE always work fine for ladies.

ebenezer4o2:


Which stage e don come reach then?Besides,if u never see any of the above signs,u never start 2 date in that relationship @all as u talk say she be the quite type of gal.Maybe u people are still ordinary friends then I guess!

nope we are not ordinary friends.. She's not that dumb... I've not experienced 3 and 4...... Insead of wearing dirty cloths or packing her hair, she puts up a sad countenance instead of telling me what's wrong

adepiero:
Women who prefer body language to verbal communication are shy and always need their spouse to force words out of their mouth.

In a case such as this, all you need do is very little.
Try to calm her down and make her feel comfortable, do not nag or shout at her for her behavior as this will aggravate her mood, pamper her and play wild guessing games to figure out the problem and when she is tired and feels you sincerely want to know, then she'll open up.

All she needs is your attention and playing MUTE always work fine for ladies.

Tanks bro

Swizdoe:

Tanks bro

am glad I could be of help

ebenezer4o2:


Which stage e don come reach then?Besides,if u never see any of the above signs,u never start 2 date in that relationship @all as u talk say she be the quite type of gal.Maybe u people are still ordinary friends then I guess!

Bros! ur encyclopedia is meant for hungry girls(No offence intended) but how can a girl be rolling on the bed and you assume she is hungry! what happened to menstrual crams and must one experience all this your signs to know you are in a relationship? the answer is capital NO!!!

Follow the the comments, it might be helpful to you too

Swizdoe:

You mean trick her into spilling the beans

And all this is about getting the beans? How i wish a lady could just remove the beans and place it on your bed like a signpost so that u will stop seeing her just as someone with beans and start learning to appreciate her as a person and reciprocate all that she feels for u and and how she holds u in high esteem. Taking an analogue from the book of life " seek her first and every other thing about her shall be added unto u" Its a pity when gentlemen spend time hunting beans. No matter how much beans you colonise,you cant even finish it all my dear...life is a turnaround and your daughter or grand daughter will be born. Dont let the chase for beans darken the good person you were meant to be.

edozie04:
Exactly

oh like seriously! I need a glass of water...am choking!!! ;>

Oohhhh guy is true cos I gat one also but still no matter what I gat her tricked to open up cos for me no matter how high d IQ of the girl we still be the best. Na God give us

Confession14:
And all this is about getting the beans? How i wish a lady could just remove the beans and place it on your bed like a signpost so that u will stop seeing her just as someone with beans and start learning to appreciate her as a person and reciprocate all that she feels for u and and how she holds u in high esteem. Taking an analogue from the book of life " seek her first and every other thing about her shall be added unto u" Its a pity when gentlemen spend time hunting beans. No matter how much beans you colonise,you cant even finish it all my dear...life is a turnaround and your daughter or grand daughter will be born. Dont let the chase for beans darken the good person you were meant to be.

Cut me some slack woman........ Its obvious you can't comprehend what I meant by that sentence cause you are saying a different thing entirely....... Am very sure it was the word "trick" that got you on heat........... *modified*

ebenezer4o2:
Look op,it's not easy in that kinda relationship as it's.Ur gal is the shy type and therefore immature to me(sorry for that if offended),hence,if u see the following signs,take the following steps therefore:
1.When she puts on short/mini shirt to ur apartment,she needs hot s.ex.
2.When she rolls frm one direction of ur bed to another or she touches her stomach frequently,then she's hungry.
3.When she puts on a dirty cloth or probably a semi-torn cloth,she needs u to take her out for shopping.
4.When her hair itches her or it's rough or better still,when she packs it with a 'ruberring',it's unkept and as such u don't need a prophet to tell u what 2 do.
5.If she doesn't call u,or she usually sends u call me back sms,then u need to recharge her phone sometimes.

Lots more signs,these are just a few jare.

I don't think this is the body language op is talking about.... If I'm not wrong op, some language like I'd she's angry, distressed blah blah blah

ebenezer4o2:


Which stage e don come reach then?Besides,if u never see any of the above signs,u never start 2 date in that relationship @all as u talk say she be the quite type of gal.Maybe u people are still ordinary friends then I guess!

Bros you're dating a glutton!!!!

Swizdoe:
....... Am very sure it was the word "trick" that got you on heat........... And dragging my unborn daughter and granddaughter into this derogatory remark shows how uncouth you are

Its such a gud thing that u urself refer to the word that might have made me spark...well sorry if the word granddaughter and the likes annoyed u ok...actually the "you" i used is the plural...i was writing to men in general but i quote u cos ur questions got the disturbing idea some men takes to plunge into a girls life...sorry that it sounded personal. Lastly am not a saint but the word uncouth does not fit anywhere in my life if u knew me in person...happy sunday

Confession14:
Its such a gud thing that u urself refer to the word that might have made me spark...well sorry if the word granddaughter and the likes annoyed u ok...actually the "you" i used is the plural...i was writing to men in general but i quote u cos ur questions got the disturbing idea some men takes to plunge into a girls life...sorry that it sounded personal. Lastly am not a saint but the word uncouth does not fit anywhere in my life if u knew me in person...happy sunday

Happy sunday to you too...... All I meant was trying to devise means to make her open up to me and nothing else..... About the word 'uncouth', am sorry about that. Imma edit it straightaway.... Stay blessed