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Is He A Near Perfect Man? by farano(f): 12:57pm On Oct 20, 2014
A friend of mine asked me if her partner is "the one"- husband material. He possesses the following qualities:
- Good looking
- Selfless
- Faithful not only to her but also to God
- Respects her and her family
- Satisfies in bed
- Loves her flaws
- Hardworking
- Displays intelligence
- He is humourless and dull
- Extremely protective
Re: Is He A Near Perfect Man? by Nobody: 1:02pm On Oct 20, 2014
When you say dull,what do u mean? Is he an"Olodo"? Clarify pls
Re: Is He A Near Perfect Man? by adepiero: 1:09pm On Oct 20, 2014
He is not perfect! being over protective makes him a jealous lover

being humorless means that he is not fun to be with and I sense he might find it difficult sharing his secrets
In the long run the relationship will bore you because he is fake! trying to please your parent just to get on their good side, his true nature will be revealed either in marriage or months after courting

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Re: Is He A Near Perfect Man? by Nobody: 1:09pm On Oct 20, 2014
farano:
A friend of mine asked me if her partner is "the one"- husband material. He possesses the following qualities:
- Good looking
- Selfless
- Faithful not only to her but also to God
- Respect her and her family
- Satisfies in bed
- Loves her flaws
- Hardworking
- Displays intelligence
- He is humourless and dull
- Extremely protective

There is actually nothing like a near perfect man.
What you so much like about someone today may seize to tickle your fancy as your own needs and perspective about life changes.
A perfect relationship is borne out of maturity.
A maturity in that you are able to stick to a choice you have made to date/ marry someone. It's a responsibility.
One thing we should however look for is someone we feel good about and not a concept of near perfection.
My opinion.

Our friend should take her time, see if the guy is someone she feels good about, pray about it and after marriage, work hard at making it work.

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Re: Is He A Near Perfect Man? by farano(f): 1:11pm On Oct 20, 2014
Jennimma:
When you say dull,what do u mean? Is he an"Olodo"? Clarify pls
Lacks liveliness
Re: Is He A Near Perfect Man? by Nobody: 1:14pm On Oct 20, 2014
farano:
Lacks liveliness
i can smell the boredom from here. I think she should take adepiero's advice

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Re: Is He A Near Perfect Man? by englishmart(m): 1:15pm On Oct 20, 2014
There are no perfect humans

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Re: Is He A Near Perfect Man? by dre11(m): 1:15pm On Oct 20, 2014
NairaMode:


There is actually nothing like a near perfect man.
What you so much like about someone today may seize to tickle your fancy as your own needs and perspective about life changes.
A perfect relationship is borne out of maturity.
A maturity in that you are able to stick to a choice you have made to date/ marry someone. It's a responsibility.
One thing we should however look for is someone we feel good about and not a concept of near perfection.
My opinion.

Our friend should take her time, see if the guy is someone she feels good about, pray about it and after marriage, work hard at making it work.

Take her time when he has being serving her punny



To the topic
There is not perfect man.. .. Our imperfections makes us unique
A perfect man will bore a relationship..... But the imperfections that u can manage makes the relationships interesting and spicy
Re: Is He A Near Perfect Man? by Jerrick(m): 1:18pm On Oct 20, 2014
Not near perfect man. According to your aforementioned characteristics, he's lacking something very important,




























Money. angry
Re: Is He A Near Perfect Man? by Nobody: 1:19pm On Oct 20, 2014
dre11:


Take her time when he has being serving her punny



To the topic
There is not perfect man.. .. Our imperfections makes us unique
A perfect man will bore a relationship..... But the imperfections that u can manage makes the relationships interesting and spicy

Serving her punny has got nothing to do with my point.
If she doesn't take her time, you mean she should just go ahead because he already served her punny?
Enlighten me more bro.
Re: Is He A Near Perfect Man? by dre11(m): 1:21pm On Oct 20, 2014
farano:
A friend of mine asked me if her partner is "the one"- husband material. He possesses the following qualities:
- Good looking
- Selfless
- Faithful not only to her but also to God
- Respect her and her family
- Satisfies in bed
- Loves her flaws
- Hardworking
- Displays intelligence
- He is humourless and dull
- Extremely protective

If I should mark this script as a woman.. ...
This guy have scored 8/10

So why is ur friend asking if he is a husband material.. .







He is no husband material and he dey nack her pumoundecided
Girls sha

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Re: Is He A Near Perfect Man? by Nobody: 1:22pm On Oct 20, 2014
farano:
A friend of mine asked me if her partner is "the one"- husband material. He possesses the following qualities:
- Good looking
- Selfless
- Faithful not only to her but also to God
- Respects her and her family
- Satisfies in bed
- Loves her flaws
- Hardworking
- Displays intelligence
- He is humourless and dull
- Extremely protective
He's a pretender.
Re: Is He A Near Perfect Man? by dre11(m): 1:27pm On Oct 20, 2014
NairaMode:


Serving her punny has got nothing to do with my point.
If she doesn't take her time, you mean she should just go ahead because he already served her punny?
Enlighten me more bro.


She has made up her mind.. ...
So telling her to take her time is a waste of time to me.. .....


She listed the qualities and quantities she loves in the man.. .... She just wants her friend to comment on her relationship and give her a sign of approval or what's her to feel jealous about her guy/relationship

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Re: Is He A Near Perfect Man? by farano(f): 1:31pm On Oct 20, 2014
Odilafta:

He's a pretender.
How do you mean?
Re: Is He A Near Perfect Man? by destante(f): 1:41pm On Oct 20, 2014
of course you jes described a "near" perfect man. he is humourless, that is not strong for marital decision.
he is too protective, that is good and bad and can be worked on.
Re: Is He A Near Perfect Man? by farano(f): 1:44pm On Oct 20, 2014
dre11:



She has made up her mind.. ...
So telling her to take her time is a waste of time to me.. .....


She listed the qualities and quantities she loves in the man.. .... She just wants her friend to comment on her relationship and give her a sign of approval or what's her to feel jealous about her guy/relationship
hmmm she said she's confused. You know it's hard to find a faithful man
Re: Is He A Near Perfect Man? by Nobody: 1:45pm On Oct 20, 2014
dre11:



She has made up her mind.. ...
So telling her to take her time is a waste of time to me.. .....


She listed the qualities and quantities she loves in the man.. .... She just wants her friend to comment on her relationship and give her a sign of approval or what's her to feel jealous about her guy/relationship

I like to agree with you.
Re: Is He A Near Perfect Man? by chrisley024(m): 1:49pm On Oct 20, 2014
Loves her flaws

Even God doesn't do that.

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Re: Is He A Near Perfect Man? by dre11(m): 1:51pm On Oct 20, 2014
farano:
hmmm she said she's confused. You know it's hard to find a faithful man


If she is soo sure that the guy is faithful
Then the point no 9 and 10 can be complemented by her

Everyman have a seed of jealous in him. Just like every relationship have to feel that seed so that it will make the man/woman feel wanted by the other partner.

So being overprotective. .... She has to find a way to go around makes him loose that grip of him with constant assurance and actions
Re: Is He A Near Perfect Man? by dre11(m): 1:55pm On Oct 20, 2014
NairaMode:


I like to agree with you.


grin
I did agree with ur listed point on the one I did embolden that I just had a slight disagreement with.. ...



I hope the naira are coming ur way this lovely Monday
Re: Is He A Near Perfect Man? by MisterLongman(m): 1:56pm On Oct 20, 2014
You claim he is faithful to God yet he satisfies her in bed

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Re: Is He A Near Perfect Man? by Nobody: 1:59pm On Oct 20, 2014
Huh is there any one that perfect
Re: Is He A Near Perfect Man? by Nobody: 2:15pm On Oct 20, 2014
MisterLongman:
You claim he is faithful to God yet he satisfies her in bed
My thought exactly... I just wonder oo.

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Re: Is He A Near Perfect Man? by Nobody: 2:16pm On Oct 20, 2014
are they not couples? should he starve her of sex?
MisterLongman:
You claim he is faithful to God yet he satisfies her in bed
Re: Is He A Near Perfect Man? by philantoxx(m): 2:27pm On Oct 20, 2014
I think money is the issue here
btw is your friend a perfect wife material??

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Re: Is He A Near Perfect Man? by Tymax(m): 2:33pm On Oct 20, 2014
MisterLongman:
You claim he is faithful to God yet he satisfies her in bed
Gbam! That's what exposes this thread as mere fantasy.

Another super story from gals who want EVERYTHING IN A MAN.

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Re: Is He A Near Perfect Man? by Nobody: 2:40pm On Oct 20, 2014
dre11:



grin
I did agree with ur listed point on the one I did embolden that I just had a slight disagreement with.. ...



I hope the naira are coming ur way this lovely Monday

Honestly you have asked a very deep question.
I haven't seen physical cash today though but I am hopeful of an eventual productive week at the end of business day on Friday.
Re: Is He A Near Perfect Man? by KingTom(m): 2:40pm On Oct 20, 2014
farano:
Lacks liveliness
In that case you were not describing me grin

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Re: Is He A Near Perfect Man? by MisterLongman(m): 2:45pm On Oct 20, 2014
iammo6:
are they not couples? should he starve her of sex?
Couples when they are not married..... Does that even make any sense

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Re: Is He A Near Perfect Man? by Nobody: 2:47pm On Oct 20, 2014
not my consine sha!!! grin
MisterLongman:

Couples when they are not married..... Does that even make any sense

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