bounju:
I don't like some of her attitude and it does look like what I want to live for d rest of my life. So marriage is out of it for now, and I find it difficult to tell her abt her attitude.

bounju:
This is a situation we dont get to see everyday. Am 26 and she is 30, am not ready for marriage, she is ready for one. We ended our relationship because of the age gap but she keeps calling me and crying because she still have feelings for me she can't show.

Pls I need your advice what do I do coz dis is making me scared now because any girl I tend to date she counter them which is not what I like. It feels like am in a world of my own.

skylane:
Just as @ghost just said, Age is only a number,as far as she respects u as a man and u have feelings for her y not marry her? Do u know if she's meant 4 u?

izsmike:
she is 30yrs old my brother, she is so desperate, she has attended d wedding ceremony of all her frds... this type can kill any gal u say hi to o. U BETTER BE WISE

kayciano:

O' BOY RUN FOR YOUR LIFE....
On no account should you cleave to a LADY older than you...especially when it comes to MARRIAGE....
MY MAN DON'T EVER RUSH MARRIAGE because of woman...THE SAME WOMAN will berate U, when the cash is not forthcoming . U can ask JOB in the BIBLE..
MOST WOMEN are highly deceitful...

ghost1718:
guy to tell u the truth age is just a number i dont see that as an excuse, ur are the one holding ur shadow. Life can be complicated sometimes those type of ladies are very hard to fine nowadays, so my advice to u is that if u have feelings for her, dont waste time in making her ur wife, if u work hard trust ME no body will tell u when u that ur already for long

ghost1718:
if i see that type of girl, nothing fit stop ME

djeezy:
She's calling and crying because she will soon reach menopause

MadCow1:




[b]There was a time I would have said this but not anymore.. Especially not where it involves a man and a Woman.



Age is just a number to a Man or Woman of outstandingly higher emotional and psychological mindset.

This factor of age is going to soooo affect every relationship that it would totally destory the feeble minded. Infact, I rarely advise it anymore cos I have realised that I cant hold others by the same standards I hold myself.

Age is more than a number.. Its experience, its strength, its beauty, its in some cases wisdom, its exposure, its a whole lot. especially for women. They grow emotionally faster than men, tend to have a whole lot more exposure faster than men in so many facets of life, age faster than men, e.t.c.. Even their sexual clock is set at a whole nother rate than men. There are places where he would feel intimidated just by the persons there present, there are certain innocent actions that the woman may take innocently that would threaten him, he would naturally be younger than her friends and this can be emasculating to some men especially in the presence of her male friends.

Any Man who is planning on getting married to an older woman must be mentally prepared to walk a road not often travelled. And that journey is not for the emotionally weak.




That said, older girls rock.. They come without many of the baggages that these younglings come with. They are mentally strong nd most often financially independent. They are more focused and know what they want. Sex with them is different (and not in a bad way) as they do it not like its a favor but because they want to enjoy it just as much as you.. I could go on and on.


This matter no be small boys matter..

Mad Cow

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bounju:
I don't like some of her attitude and it does look like what I want to live for d rest of my life. So marriage is out of it for now, and I find it difficult to tell her abt her attitude.

arsetalks:
Age is a number. My ex ( who is EXed because she died due to luth's recklessness) was 6 years older than me. It is our little secret, we would have gotten married and no one bar her mum would have known the age difference and her mum knows because I refused to lie to her when she asked.

pansophist:
madcow1

How many years your wife take senior you?