He keeps telling me that because of his age and inexperience he'll never get a gf... Because, they will find it 'weird' once they find out he's been single his whole life, then dump him. He imagines that such a revelation would be a 'red flag' to any decent, normal girl...I don't know what to tell him, because I myself don't know if that's true. He's also not concerned with looks too much, he just wants a companion...Someone truly kind, who appreciates romantic gestures & is happy to give and get..A partner, someone easy to get along with

He comes across as such a normal guy, he has a very even temperament and agreeable personality...Doesn't anger easily, forgives quickly, calm and cool...Quite witty in familiar company, not super shy yet terrified of rejection and clueless with women. He's really mysterious...lol... Umm, I would have to say that his biggest flaw is that he can be a bit of a doormat at times, bending over backwards for others..Even if they don't deserve it or do anything for him. I've seen him fight once, and he's surely no wimp...Yet he avoids confrontation at times and will just swallow his frustration even if someone has done something horrible to him, I'm basing this on two experiences as his long time friend.... Though, he won't continue to associate with rotten people and just moves on and forgets, at least..He just doesn't speak up sometimes.

I plan to show him this if I feel the responses would boost his confidence, yet please be honest...At the least I may be able to give him some tips.

I would really appreciate any and all input, whether good or bad. #ziggy44

mountain out of mole hill

as they say: just do it

Hian!!

I'm 23 and I'm experienced (I think )........that's the difference between this dude and Jeffrey James right now!!!

*Shokis out of thread*

The problem is not with your imaginary friend but you.

op just open up , you need a girlfriend .

dude this is a lame attempt to get a daft girl to ur bed. u should laid off on the praises for ur imaginary friend a little. all the same, i wish u goodluck cos d hustle is real

Elantracey: op just open up , you need a girlfriend .

if he does, can u help him 2 find 1?

Elantracey: op just open up , you need a girlfriend .

lol am done with Internet dating...I don't want to break another girls heart after meeting her in person!you should know what I mean!

kenny091: dude this is a lame attempt to get a daft girl to ur bed. u should laid off on the praises for ur imaginary friend a little. all the same, i wish u goodluck cos d hustle is real

Kenny pls go back and read the post slowly again...don't just rush to comment..#naija with der evil mentality

2goodbobo: The problem is not with your imaginary friend but you.

lol

op, u sure know dis ur friend very well to give such a detailed info abt him . nothing wrong with a 26-yr old man being a virgin. i commend u for it. too many wayward men out dere.

Nairalanders can discourage sum1..... Choi

valdes00: Nairalanders can discourage sum1..... Choi

lol dey probably don't knw what to contribute...

pictures dont lie

The guy is just 26. He doesn't even have a problem yet. This is the age he should start sef and get a mature lady

Elantracey: op just open up , you need a girlfriend .

hmmmmm, i have taken note of your comments severally. i like how blunt you are. *winks

lequatee:

hmmmmm, i have taken note of your comments severally. i like how blunt you are. *winks

lol , thanks .

Some posters can be so senseless.I think 1st of all he needs to keep chatting up girls he feels he likes,he shouldn't input all his energy on a particular girl,as he keeps toasting|chatting up different girls his confidence will grow in time.I don't think he is doing anytin wrong,he should lay emphasis on being himself,wit time his kind of girl will come,but he should make efforts to talk to girls he likes and he shouldn't expect much he should go with d flow;he should also pray,and u should pray for him too.

Elantracey: op just open up , you need a girlfriend .

u guys arevtoo wixked on nl chai

@ OP. I wud av swore that u were talkung abt me. Ur friend has basically my kind of mien and demanour.

Just a matter of time, nothing wrong with him. He just needs to talk to more girls. God is taking time to work on his gf / wife to be.

Elantracey: op just open up , you need a girlfriend .

WICKED

Ziggy44 pictures of your good looking virgin buddy OR........


And btw why are you advertising for him or are you helping him search for his virgin gf

Hook him up on several blind dates.. his education starts from there

BrownKnight: Ziggy44 pictures of your good looking virgin buddy OR........


And btw why are you advertising for him or are you helping him search for his virgin gf

Brownknight what are friends for he needed my opinion concerning his inexperience with women and sex.i couldn't say anything cos it was strange to me so I brought it here for people's opinion and to know if it a deal breaker for u ladies...

ziggy44: Brownknight what are friends for he needed my opinion concerning his inexperience with women and sex.i couldn't say anything cos it was strange to me so I brought it here for people's opinion and to know if it a deal breaker for u ladies...

Okay oooo happy searching. As for if its a deal breaker for the ladies, the saying 'one woman's meat is another woman's poison' comes to mind

BluePearls: Hook him up on several blind dates .. his education starts from there

lols that's not cool..

BrownKnight:
Okay oooo happy searching. As for if its a deal breaker for the ladies, the saying 'one woman's meat is another woman's poison' comes to mind

in ur case (meat or poison)?

ziggy44: in ur case (meat or poison)?

*clears throat* meat

BrownKnight:
*clears throat* meat

dats cool ur a swt heart

ziggy44: dats cool ur a swt heart

lol aiite