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Hello, Please A Brother Needs Ur Advice by Nobody: 12:16am On Nov 03, 2014 |
HELLO EVERYONE. EMM SORRY TO BOTHER U GUYS AT THIS TIME OF D NIGHT BUT IF I DON'T SOUGHT THIS ISH OUT, I WON'T BE ABLE TO SLEEP. AITE LETS CUT TO D CHASE ALREADY. HERE IS D APPETISER MY BESTFRIEND IS A FEMALE AND SHE'S REALY GIVING ME HEART/HEADACHES.SHE GETS ANGRY WITHOUT REASON AND BEHAVES AS THOUGH SHE IS TIRED OF OUR FRIENDSHIP, IF I ASK HER IF SHE IS TIRED OF BEING FRIENDS WITH ME, SHE SAYS NO. SHE NEVER APOLOGISES WHEN SHE'S WRONG AND HARDLY EVER APPRECIATES ANYTHING I DO FOR HER. SHE DOESN'T CALL, DOESN'T TEXT AND ANYTIME I CALL, SHE ALWAYS MANAGES TO LEAVE ME ANGRY BY D END OF D CALL. I'VE BORNE ALL THESE FOR A LONG TIME NOW BECAUSE I REALY LOVE HER(AS MY BESTFRIEND). AND NOW TO THE MAIN DISH JUST YESTERDAY, I CALLED HER AND SHE LOADED ONTO D CAMEL D LAST STRAW DAT BROKE IT'S BACK. SHE SPOKE IN A WAY EVEN MORE ANNOYING THAN BEFORE AND WHEN I BROUGHT IT TO HER NOTICE HOW ANGRY SHE WAS MAKING ME, SHE SAID SHE DIDN'T CARE SHE DIDN'T CARE THOSE WORDS HURT ME SO BAD. AND HERE'S THE DESSERT WELL, I DECIDED THAT I HAD HAD ENOUGH AND I DECIDED TO END THE FRIENDSHIP. THOSE WORDS MEANT JUST ONE THING TO ME (I DON'T WANT UR FRIENDSHIP ANYMORE) AND I'M GRANTING HER WISH. EXCEPT I'M MISUNDERSTANDING HER. SO PLEASE FRIENDS HOW DO I SOLVE THIS? IS MY DECISION TO CUT TIES WITH HER THE BEST? AM I MISUNDERSTANDING HER? IS THERE SOMETHING SHE WANTS THAT I'M YET TO FATHOM? HOW BEST DO I HANDLE THIS? PLEASE HELP 1 Like |
Re: Hello, Please A Brother Needs Ur Advice by boxer022(m): 12:24am On Nov 03, 2014 |
My brother this you bestfriend has attitude problems and if she does not stop it will affect her in future. Since you said that you are not in a relationship with her, I advice you talk to her as a friend comcerning her attitudal problem letting her know that if she does not change, it might affect your friendship with her. |
Re: Hello, Please A Brother Needs Ur Advice by LaurelP(m): 12:27am On Nov 03, 2014 |
First, how old are both of u? 1 Like |
Re: Hello, Please A Brother Needs Ur Advice by Nobody: 12:30am On Nov 03, 2014 |
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Re: Hello, Please A Brother Needs Ur Advice by Nobody: 12:31am On Nov 03, 2014 |
boxer022:IT IS ALREADY AFFECTING MY FRIENDSHIP WITH HER. READ MY POST BELOW. |
Re: Hello, Please A Brother Needs Ur Advice by Nobody: 12:32am On Nov 03, 2014 |
LaurelP:WE ARE BOTH VERY VERY VERY YOUNG |
Re: Hello, Please A Brother Needs Ur Advice by LaurelP(m): 12:39am On Nov 03, 2014 |
sylvalord: That is why She's probably going thru d adolescent phase Besides, u both are not yet mature enuf to handle courtship now. Give her space, focus on ur studies first, u can't handle both @ a time. |
Re: Hello, Please A Brother Needs Ur Advice by Nobody: 12:44am On Nov 03, 2014 |
LaurelP:HELLO SIR, WE ARE NOT COURTING, SHE IS MERELY MY BESTFRIEND. AND ABOUT THE ADOLESCENT BROUHAHA, I DOUBT THAT'S THE REASON. I AV OTHER FEMALE FRIEND PASSING THRU THAT STAGE TOO. I'M UNDERGOING THE SAME ADOLESCENT STAGE AND I'M NOT ACTING LIKE HER |
Re: Hello, Please A Brother Needs Ur Advice by ireneony(f): 12:48am On Nov 03, 2014 |
I think she is love with you or maybe u ve a girlfriend recently that is taking your time, that y she is angry or maybe jealous. 2 Likes |
Re: Hello, Please A Brother Needs Ur Advice by ireneony(f): 12:50am On Nov 03, 2014 |
make I ask u this question: how old are u self? |
Re: Hello, Please A Brother Needs Ur Advice by merit12(f): 1:01am On Nov 03, 2014 |
Best friends can be wife material someday After all it takes friendship to survive marriage. I think she loves you and will not want to tell you rather,she prefer you asking her out To test out ,try not talking to her 1-3months no calls,no text,when ever she calls form busy. When ever you see her form hurry,or when ever she is around don't pay attention or show of any babe around.that to test-run if she has feelings for you If she still continue in her old way ,it means she doesn't know how to behaves,try correcting her ,if she changes and you like her (that's what's up)she she likes you and you don't let her know. If. She doesn't still change Change friends,end friendship with her.nor let her use her own spoil your own Op are you black? 1 Like |
Re: Hello, Please A Brother Needs Ur Advice by Nobody: 1:36am On Nov 03, 2014 |
merit12:THANKS 4 D ADVICE LOL ARE U THE FEMALE VERSION OF MRCORK? WELL AS PER RACE, I'M PROUDLY BLACK, BUT AS PER SKIN COLOUR, I'M A BIT FAIR. |
Re: Hello, Please A Brother Needs Ur Advice by Nobody: 1:37am On Nov 03, 2014 |
ireneony:THANKS 4 UR ADVICE MA |
Re: Hello, Please A Brother Needs Ur Advice by Nobody: 1:39am On Nov 03, 2014 |
ireneony:I'M VERY VERY VERY YOUNG. BTW WHY R U GUYS ASKING ME THIS? |
Re: Hello, Please A Brother Needs Ur Advice by naijaboiy: 1:50am On Nov 03, 2014 |
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Re: Hello, Please A Brother Needs Ur Advice by BuddhaPalm(m): 2:05am On Nov 03, 2014 |
This short story, from The 48 Laws of Power, has the answer to your little 'problem': While serving under the duke Ai of Lu, T'ien Jao, resenting his obscure position, said to his master, "I am going to wander far away like a snow goose." "What do you mean by that?" inquired the Duke. "Do you see the cock?" said T'ien Jao in reply. "Its crest is a symbol of civility; its powerful talons suggest strength; its daring to fight any enemy denotes courage; its instinct to invite others whenever food is obtained shows benevolence; and, last but not least, its punctuality in keeping the time through the night gives us an example of veracity. In spite, however, of these five virtues, the cock is daily killed to fill a dish on your table. Why? The reason is that it is found with in our reach. On the other hand, the snow goose traverses on one flight a thousand li. Resting in your garden, it preys on your fishes and turtles and pecks your millet. Though devoid of any of the cock's five virtues, yet you prize this bird for the sake of its scarcity. This being so, I shall fly far like a snow goose." -------------- It is also obvious that you secretly nurse the intent of dating her. Would you take 1/4 of that behaviour from any of your male friends? Good. And please, kindly stop typing in CAPS. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Hello, Please A Brother Needs Ur Advice by Nobody: 2:52am On Nov 03, 2014 |
naijaboiy:BABA ME NO GET TIME 4 UNIBEN GIRLS NA. ME JUST DEY TRY SOLVE PUZZLE NI. EXAM IS REAL OO |
Re: Hello, Please A Brother Needs Ur Advice by Nobody: 3:02am On Nov 03, 2014 |
sylvalord:you nur go read for ur exam. Bring up the topic by December 1st, but before then, just give her space. Nur dey over please, e nur good. You go know the cause later. 1 Like |
Re: Hello, Please A Brother Needs Ur Advice by Nobody: 3:07am On Nov 03, 2014 |
after you tell me say u dey with ROZAY, and na why i leave mariole for you naijaboiy: |
Re: Hello, Please A Brother Needs Ur Advice by Nobody: 3:10am On Nov 03, 2014 |
sylvalord:thats how the ancient of days behave,they ask of ur age as if its a sin to have girlfreind or female friend and if you check very well most of them are following some 17yrs old gals on nairaland...SPIT on HYPOCRITES |
Re: Hello, Please A Brother Needs Ur Advice by Nobody: 3:14am On Nov 03, 2014 |
BuddhaPalm:emmm, I sincerely do not av the intention of dating her. I've only been keeping up with her because we said TOGETHER FOREVER. jeez we actually said together forever we promised each other that we would be Besties for life. about taking her behaviour from my male friends, well I have a fairly high tolerance rate. I got ur msg tho, I'm gonna wander far away from her, just like a snow goose. whats up with you and CAPS? thanks for the advice bro |
Re: Hello, Please A Brother Needs Ur Advice by Nobody: 3:18am On Nov 03, 2014 |
benromeo39:lol.. december ke? I dey bring am up now so my head go fit settle and I fit write exam na. phy124 and mth125 no be joke oo |
Re: Hello, Please A Brother Needs Ur Advice by Nobody: 3:24am On Nov 03, 2014 |
Ipledge:lol.. easy my nigga. besides the bolded above is used to describe God.. easy |
Re: Hello, Please A Brother Needs Ur Advice by Nobody: 3:34am On Nov 03, 2014 |
sylvalord:just give her space, even if she begs, form busy till after ur exam. E go bad if she spoil ur mood this crucial exam period. Nur go let woman pour sand for ur stew o. 1 Like |
Re: Hello, Please A Brother Needs Ur Advice by Nobody: 3:37am On Nov 03, 2014 |
benromeo39:ok boss, na to ignore am be that na.. thank u big bros |
Re: Hello, Please A Brother Needs Ur Advice by Jinyjagz(m): 5:07am On Nov 03, 2014 |
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Re: Hello, Please A Brother Needs Ur Advice by emperorchedda(m): 6:07am On Nov 03, 2014 |
LaurelP:ahn ahn age must nt b d crust of everything! Sometimes kids act mature than adults. Just advice and go your way |
Re: Hello, Please A Brother Needs Ur Advice by FLAWLES(f): 6:45am On Nov 03, 2014 |
your fRiend abi your babe??(diz pple dey mad ooo) ADVICE=drop d BI*CH ad show ur babe d love |
Re: Hello, Please A Brother Needs Ur Advice by Nobody: 6:56am On Nov 03, 2014 |
My advice brah you need to untuck your nutz and give it back to God. |
Re: Hello, Please A Brother Needs Ur Advice by 3coins(m): 10:27am On Nov 03, 2014 |
ireneony:. |
Re: Hello, Please A Brother Needs Ur Advice by boxer022(m): 10:51am On Nov 03, 2014 |
sylvalord:My brother if her attitude is affecting your friendship with her I will like you to either ignore her bad attitude and go on with the friendship or call it quits, the ball is in your court. |
Re: Hello, Please A Brother Needs Ur Advice by Nobody: 10:58am On Nov 03, 2014 |
I think she's in love with u,she started suddenly right?she wants to be more dan a friend and u are not making any move maybe dats y she's angry,maybe u guys don't spend time together like u used to do.....do u have a gf?,if u av maybe she's jealous .....try to talk to her one on one ask her what's wrong,try dat first and let's see,and if it doesn't work out ,just give her some space to sort out her feelings out because her feelings are mixed(friendship and courtship) |
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