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Relationship is never a function of age.
But is a function of Love.

I'm out meanwhile, 'll be back to expanciate.

U r talkin abt datin a young guy, can i ask u a question?DO u love d guy answers dat ur self.I want 2 tell a storey abt ma self.I have a friend a girl we have been friends way back 2000.We r 2 close now.We both have everytin in common,same birthday,same age,same day n now we r both askin our self out.I dont care wot ppl wil say since d love is there.So follow ur heart

If you are dating just for fun, thats okay . . but marriage? Nah!!!

no!

naturally, love is a function of oneself.love can be a decision considered individually so forget about wat p/p will say

@topic
NO.

men are affected by age, whether we admit it or not

they will only marry an older woman when there ia an underlying cause

could be beauty, wealth, success,

so unless u got one of these then i suggest you just have fun and dnt look

forward to marriage, cos as for love he can find that with any younger lady

when he is ready for marriage, then the age factor will come to mind

expecially when u dont have any of the underlying cause that can close his eyes to the age difference.

love knows no boundries, forget about people say people no say

what has society got to do with "YOUR" relationship?
its only a years diff by the way so it is not even relevant. . . even if it was as long as u both hav no issues with it ( him esp as men tend to get insecure when their woman is older), then u've got no problems. stop bringing other pple into a relationship that is between just u 2

If you like him then go ahead. But i won't date someone who I'm older than. No way jose!

See, my girlfriends already a mother of 4 as she's in her late 30's and i'm in my early 20's, she's not what i'd call super-rich, we have our differences, but we still resolve the issues amicably, I don't have a problem dating older ladies, I just feel its stupid when a lady says she can't date younger guys,

@ those ladies, when u clock 30, would u STILL marry a man who can't EVEN get u to cloud 9?, Stupid SISTAZ!!!, God, y'all could be REALLY offensive wit yer st8mnts sometimes,

Kelvin

@ Topic.

I don't see anything wrong with it. . . . so far you too understands yourself and are ready to face the future . . .then just do what makes you feel happy. I have seen many immature elderly men and so many matured young guys.

My best relationship so far was with a woman 6 years older than me. . . so I dont think it bad

Maturity is what matters i would date an older woman without even batting an eye-lid

@poster of topic
A year is insignificant if you really like this guy you might as well ditch her if he is a second younger than you my sister age is nothing but a number.Society would accept you guys the age difference is too minimal to even cause a problem

labalaba:

I am sorry if this thread has been done before but i looked and couldnt find anything.
sooo my dear sisters and brothers on Nairaland,  give me your honest and sincere opinions.
I am a 22yr old who is currently involved with a 21 year old. i know it's unspoken of in our culture for a woman to date a younger guy, i guess we just have a cultural perception that everything is wrong with it.
this boy is very mattured, i mean my ex was 27 and he(21) treats me way better than my ex he used to. he just gets me, he makes me sooooo veryyy happy . but yeah,  all the mushiness aside,  i don't think the society will accept us,  i don't even think his parents or mine would go along with it.
he dosnt care very much about the age diffrence but i do,  i would love to c a future with us but i think it will be impossible .
so what should i do?

Age is nothing but a number. I've seen 30-year olds act like 13-year olds.
I know what you mean and I agree with the fact that it may look a tad outta place. Just make sure you respect him the way he respects you. Don't ever mention the age thing, in his presence or absence to try and hurt him in anger. Society will accept you. It's not like it has a strong force like love.

Age is nothing but a number, but I still say no

y ?

because. . . .

Dark_Rxn:

Age is nothing but a number, but I still say no

So if he is all you ever wanted and you found out he is just a year or two younger than you you would throw it all away?

A-40:

So if he is all you ever wanted and you found out he is just a year or two younger than you you would throw it all away?

^{see ya head I knew someone was going to ask that}


Pretty much. There are so many other fishes in the sea, it's impossible not to find another one. Soul mate? phhhht, gimme a break

I didnwouldn't mind dating a woman a few years older than me  

H2O2:

I didnwouldn't mind dating a woman a few years older than me  

Of course you wouldn't. Oniranu!
People like you like old wine.

j-girl:

Of course you wouldn't. Oniranu!
People like you like Old wine.

What's wrong with you? Ki lon worry e. Is dating a crime ni?

Pretty much. There are so many other fishes in the sea, that it's impossible not to find another one. Soul mate? phhhht, gimme a break

Hey pal, other ladies wouldn't wait for you to have a filled time going over scare qualitative commodities like that  

Please, am still expecting your reasons for saying no.

Moreover, they don't whine as much.


so i was told.

H2O2:

What's wrong with you? Ki lon worry e. Is dating a crime ni?

Not at all. . . however, here's the problem.

H2O2:

Moreover, they don't whine as much.


so i was told.

You will now start with your abuses towards women again.
So you were told ko, so you were said ni!

@topic
What?? I love older women !!!
Even as much as pple try to hide it, all things being equal you're much more mature than you were four years ago
To be on the safe side . . . stick with experience

eldee:

@topic
What?? I love older women !!!
Even as much as people try to hide it, all things being equal you're much more mature than you were four years ago
To be on the safe side . . . stick with experience

sugar daddy

sillyboy:

Hey pal, other ladies wouldn't wait for you to have a filled time going over scare qualitative commodities like that

Please, am still expecting your reasons for saying no.

Those are other girls. I can'e date a younger man, simple.

Those are other girls. I can'e date a younger man, simple

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Seem you dont wanna share your opinion. I respect the fact that you can't. I would just wanna know why and I believe some other people would like to know too.

Ok, here it goes.
I won't feel the need to respect him. He's my younger, kilo de?
I behave more mature than my age, people would start thinking am his mother if I cannot respect him. I'd start to treat him like a lil boy.
Apart from that, there's more to it that I can't explain. . . .so. . . .yea

Dark_Rxn:

sugar daddy

You urself know I'm much too mature for my age
It's much more fun and challenging with a lil bit older chics

@ RXN

I get it now. . . . .