Mr man, whch is more important, her education or d weddin that people will come and chop free food eh? Or du u want her not to write her exams and miss dat semester bcuz ur the the minister of economic management... So if she now misses her exams, do u think she will be happy getn married to u? Pls giv her some money frm the weddin account and the lord will provide ....

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[size=16pt]My wife to be request for a little sum of money after our parental knowledge that we are getting married., she need it to blance her school fee which is true and am aware she is owing. The tin is this, i dont want to touch our wedding money uncessarly, am willing to give her but not up to the amount she requested. (1) Wont she consider me as a stingy guy, (2) wont she consider me as one who is not ready, because i am not giving her all the amount she wanted. (3) should i tell her this is what i have and i dont really want to touch our wedding money which i have kept somewhere. at this point please advice me on what to do. thx all[/size]

are you her father,which kind talk be that..guy tell her to meet her family..

Eeyah..what of her parents or even her relatives? Are you in charge of her welfare?

You guys are about to get married and the wedding you're talking about actually involves both of you. Tell her exactly what you posted here - babe, I don't want to touch our wedding money. If she insists you should settle her debt from the money, then she doesn't have any alternative and sincerely needs the money(remember, no woman will ever joke with her wedding or even want it postponed for any reason). In that case, you have to give her the money immediately.
#myopinion.

[size=20]I SMELL SCAM MARRIAGE [/size]

She did not make it as a force, she just walked up to me, and said sweety she is out of money now to pay her remaning balance of school fees. that can i assist her and i told her to wait i wil get back to her. This is the first request she has make ever since we started.

@ Rapsainot What is scam marriage? Pls educate me

Rapsainot:
[size=20]I SMELL SCAM MARRIAGE [/size]

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She did not make it as a force, she just walked up to me, and said sweety she is out of money now to pay her remaning balance of school fees. that can i assist her and i told her to wait i wil get back to her. This is the first request she has make ever since we started.

@ Rapsainot What is scam marriage? Pls educate me

oga help her with the money and see her reject your wedding proposal the following month.

There is another man in the picture and she wants to make sure she milk you a little before saying its over to you.


Use your head and dont give her the money.

Since she is your wife to be, you have to give her because if you dont give her, either she miss that year or get the money elsewhere. it will both backfire on you. So give her the money and let her realised that the money is from your savings for the marriage ceremony.

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Drdaps:
Since she is your wife to be, you have to give her because if you dont give her, either she miss that year or get the money elsewhere. it will both backfire on you. So give her the money and let her realised that the money is from your savings for the marriage ceremony.

your response is like a water. I was confused initially because of the way some people commented. Am going to let her knw that the money is taking from a secret account that is meant for our wedding. and i will also see her responses. thx

I have only one thing to say UNDERSTANDING... Every comments here is centred on understanding, so I'll say both of U should understand the situations and the final decision will be very easy.