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3 Ways To Get A Man Commit And Fall In Love by ireneony(f): 10:49pm On Nov 07, 2014
Let me explain what I mean by this.
Suppose you’ve been dating a guy for 4 weeks or so and
he tells you he doesn’t want to be exclusive. Perhaps he
just tells you he’s not ready to commit.
Let’s go through the specific rules of how to make him
want to be in a relationship with you.
RULE No. 1 – Never ever give your man an ultimatum!
A response women often make is to give an ultimatum,
in other words they’ll say to the guy that if he does not
commit to her exclusively from now on, she is sorry but
their relationship is over.
Now this looks like a decent approach, right? – WRONG
If you give a man an ultimatum, he will run a mile every
time. By bearing down on him to make an ‘all or
nothing’ decision, you will only make him associate pain
and stress with commitment.
He will see it as having to resign himself to a
relationship, and he’ll romanticize the freedom that he
would get being single.
Rule No. 2 – Don’t give him all the benefits of a
relationship before he’s committed to one
A guy has to earn is place in your life. What a lot of
women make the mistake of doing is giving themselves
completely to a guy before he has expressed any
intention of committing.
Not only does this apply sexually, but also to how much
time they give him. They let him call her up and come
over whenever he’s around, they break plans for him,
come and look after him when he’s ill, the list goes on….
If you give a guy all these things before you’re even
dating he’ll think:
“Why do I need to commit when I can get all this
attention and still be single?”
Rule No. 3 – Get him to associate massive pleasure to
commitment!
Another mistake women make when men won’t commit
is trying to be colder towards him. This is also the
wrong response.
Although it’s right that you might want to back off a bit
(or even date other men), you want to make sure that
whatever time you do spend together is the most fun he
could possibly have!
That way when you leave he’ll think: “I want to spend
more time with this girl, we have such an amazing time
together!”
You always need the guy to realize that every time he
commits to you a little bit more, things get more fun,
more exciting, more romantic, and more sexy. If you give
him everything all at once right away, there’s nothing
left for him to achieve by being in a relationship with
you.
What you ideally want is for him to feel like the single
life can never be as much fun than experiencing new
things with you can be.
A guy needs to feel like he’s missing out by not
committing to you.
Re: 3 Ways To Get A Man Commit And Fall In Love by Nobody: 10:58pm On Nov 07, 2014
Show up @ my house naked and I'll love you for the next 20 minutes
Re: 3 Ways To Get A Man Commit And Fall In Love by Nobody: 11:21pm On Nov 07, 2014
No hard and fast rule to love, what works for A can fail for B
Re: 3 Ways To Get A Man Commit And Fall In Love by ERCROSS(m): 11:21pm On Nov 07, 2014
#clapping..
Bravo!!!
This us Fantastic...!!!


Personally.. I think u shld add 97 more points to make it 100...





Bottom line...
commitment is not even in our dictionary any longer..

My advice::

Ladies...
Why not try JUJU..
grin
Re: 3 Ways To Get A Man Commit And Fall In Love by ireneony(f): 8:48am On Nov 08, 2014
ERCROSS:
#clapping..
Bravo!!!
This us Fantastic...!!!


Personally.. I think u shld add 97 more points to make it 100...





Bottom line...
commitment is not even in our dictionary any longer..

My advice::

Ladies...
Why not try JUJU..
grin
u are not serious cool
Re: 3 Ways To Get A Man Commit And Fall In Love by Jorgen: 10:50am On Nov 08, 2014
Not bad.
The thing though is that most men group all girls together and have a higher chance of committing when they feel the girl they are seeing is special and different from the rest.
Re: 3 Ways To Get A Man Commit And Fall In Love by Afrok(m): 11:09am On Nov 08, 2014
Ok... After u've made him commit and fall in love with U, then U start treating him like shitt shocked, that's wickedness coz U just succeeded in taking him to the red sea (love) and left him there hanging all alone (heartbreak) cry.
Re: 3 Ways To Get A Man Commit And Fall In Love by philantoxx(m): 11:14am On Nov 08, 2014
never ending tips undecided

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