cuteniva:
Op are u sure z jes bcoz of d age?dere mite b more 2 it dan her age. moreover,u shudnt marry out of sympathy.u shud marry sm1 u luv n not pity.

blym4real:

The great counselor.

cuteniva:
lools.u again

cuteniva:
lools.u again

blym4real:

Just passing-by.

cuteniva:
ok.tete koja

blym4real:

What does that means.

llouis:
women mature and age faster than men - Fact!

women fear aging more than death, its their greatest enemy in this life, so they are ready to do almost anything not to look like their losing the battle to it - Fact!

women are afraid when their face germinates wrinkles, their hair begins to fall off, their breasts sag faster than electric wires on a hot sunny day, their body develops folds, flab and cellulite, that their husbands will look to younger women (who are currently destroying their bodies with chemicals, junk food and cheap cosmetics) for sexual amusement - Fact!

If people are already asking you whether she is your aunt or your mother now they will see her as your grand mother in 10 or 15 years time (remember she will add extra 13kg for every child she delivers for you)

{It is also possible she isn't telling you the truth about her real age. After all someone once said a man is as old as he feels, but a woman is as old as she looks.}

My point is:
1. If she is comfortable with reality as per her body not aging too well, and she is determined to love you and make u happy, then by all means marry her. Who knows, with your love and dedication you might just take all the stress out of her and leave her body portraying a better idea of how much time on earth she has spent in it.

2. There is probably something off about the lady that your relatives are hesitating to tell you, using her age as a pretext for you calling off the marriage. Why don't you pray and ask for guidance before marrying her?

3. Guy you are a man, and a man u must remain!

If you are having double mind i suggest you give one of your mind out abeg. Marriage isn't something to enter with two minds, especially as a man. Women (a lot of whom are emotional junkies) will only complicate things for a man who is double minded, if you can't take my word on it go ask Adam, Abraham, Samson and Solomon.

If you love her and she loves you and you are convinced in your heart of hearts that she is the one for you, then marry her. But let your decision be based on a choice to love her and bring out the best in her, not just on physical attraction or feelings. That way, 30 years from now, when she is probably looking like your great grand mother, you will look at her aging, physical casing and not regret hearkening to the advice of your family. After all, marriage is not something that should be lived in regret.


SELAH!

Houseofglam7:
I'm still thinking whether or not you should marry her.

andromida:
Aunty or Mother? Lol Sowwie i can't help but laugh.

STENON:
@Op.....Dnt listen to them as per the age/facial Look, some factors might have contributed to that e.g. Poverty.

If you Love her and her character, and she Loves you, After marriage, Your family and Friends will see the great beauty in her with her character.

winedeal:
I meet a lady in the city where I base and she's almost the same age with me all my male and female friends are against my proposals to the girl,that if I eventually marry her that they will despise me and for me,she really look older than me but I give her 2yrs and I have gone for introduction @their place even my own brothers and sisters don't like her because of de age gap.but we really love each other but the age issues is getting me walked up every day by day apart from dat she looks older than me, she's good in every other aspect..whenever I walked on the road with people will ask me is that my aunty or my mother?? Just having double mind..advise