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Re: I Feel Like Quitting This Relationship by ireneony(f): 8:00pm On Nov 15, 2014 |
samuelson06:there is nothing wrong you are married to her. but this one wey she be prayer warrior and still de wipe pray gini |
Re: I Feel Like Quitting This Relationship by samuelson06(m): 8:20pm On Nov 15, 2014 |
2buff: You understand me so much. You just nail it. Thanks so much.
I can't just do all those "love u wantintin" thingy. I like it straight and simple. But she'll feel am not really in love. I don't even talk to other girls o. I just need time. I love system so much too. With my two laptops, she wouldn't even care to pick one and get clued to it rather she'll choose to stay by the side, talk and laugh with herself. If I don't answer, wahala. At times, I'll just ask myself what is happening to me. She wouldn't let me work and when I stop to attend to her, she'll ask me why are u not working again! Just imagine. |
Re: I Feel Like Quitting This Relationship by Nobody: 8:22pm On Nov 15, 2014 |
samuelson06: This sounds like my woman 1 Like |
Re: I Feel Like Quitting This Relationship by Nobody: 8:28pm On Nov 15, 2014 |
samuelson06: I know, but at some point in time, you might need to tone down the attention your computer gets, even if just a little. They really need that stuff. Especially when a family gets into the picture. It's why our kind prefer staying single sometimes until we "release a few things", "launch a few startups" etc because women will generally start seeing your passion as a competition. We operate best with women who "have their own thing going" or who have been adequately trained enough to understand our nature. The second type is usually best, but that just means, we have to be the one to train them..with love and understanding of her needs as well. Because the club-going, boozing, party-going guy whose lifestyle is a constant mating call (designer life, bling, social wahala, etc) is not going to train them for us according to our own spec, so best get busy bro |
Re: I Feel Like Quitting This Relationship by samuelson06(m): 8:43pm On Nov 15, 2014 |
ireneony: I love people that prays hard. I don't joke with prayers rather. It's what has kept me. I don't allow the wrong things that I may do to overshadow the good things am suppose to do. Life is all about creating a balance. Am not a club type and at the same time, I wouldn't say I don't f**k. And that shouldn't make me to turn away from my God or serves Him at low key. BTW, I have enjoyed so much divine health and I know it's my prayers that have been doing that for me. So if you think because you do some wrong things, your Christian life should suffer, well that's you. That's how I think. |
Re: I Feel Like Quitting This Relationship by samuelson06(m): 8:53pm On Nov 15, 2014 |
2buff: Bro u rock! MS-SQL is about Database and has so much to do with coding. It could be so frustrating trying to run a code and the thing shows error and you look around someone is just there asking you what you feel she should cook at weekend. |
Re: I Feel Like Quitting This Relationship by Nobody: 8:56pm On Nov 15, 2014 |
samuelson06: LOL all na balance my broda. When you get children, someone has to think about what they will eat while you are tracking runtime errors naw . A house of 2 geeks likely won't work out. She seems into you, and teachable. That's very rare in this our generation. You might regret it later if you don't try to help her understand you better with love. The only difference is understanding. She of you, and you of her. Communication and love is the cure for that. |
Re: I Feel Like Quitting This Relationship by ireneony(f): 9:00pm On Nov 15, 2014 |
samuelson06:after praying hard she will open her legs for u, how will God answer such prayer |
Re: I Feel Like Quitting This Relationship by Islie: 9:08pm On Nov 15, 2014 |
ireneony: gbam u just made a valid statement there
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Re: I Feel Like Quitting This Relationship by simdam500(m): 9:15pm On Nov 15, 2014 |
the best reply I cannot give is hook me up with her..... I'll appreciate her great effort |
Re: I Feel Like Quitting This Relationship by remsonik(f): 10:05pm On Nov 15, 2014 |
I think you don't really love this girl. You are not into her and you seem not ready to bear the emotional attachment that comes with relationship. Well like a poster said I will advice her to quit since you are tired of her. Most times women just want to feel loved,its not just in what you tell her,its about your actions. I as a person won't be in a relationship with someone who isn't excited about me. |
Re: I Feel Like Quitting This Relationship by samuelson06(m): 10:28pm On Nov 15, 2014 |
ireneony: Wallow in your own wrongdoings nah and forget about God. Don't even go to church again. To open leg is your highest sin right? Anyway, you can ask God how He answers prayers from such people but I know He does answer our prayers. |
Re: I Feel Like Quitting This Relationship by samuelson06(m): 10:34pm On Nov 15, 2014 |
remsonik: This is exactly what am talking about. Always wanting our lives to revolve around them. I shouldn't concentrate again because of love right? Why? You guys always like that we carry this relationship thing on our head before you believe we also love. And so sadly, real tech guys don't 'love'. You think coding is moi-moi. |
Re: I Feel Like Quitting This Relationship by ireneony(f): 10:46pm On Nov 15, 2014 |
samuelson06:please don't take personal. OK sorry |
Re: I Feel Like Quitting This Relationship by remsonik(f): 10:54pm On Nov 15, 2014 |
samuelson06:Real techie guys don't love I know. I am a techie myself and I code. Its all about finding a balance,maybe you really need to look at what you both want from the relationship. Two can't walk together except they agree. The picture she's looking at might not be what you are looking at. That's why I encourage everyone to ask their partner what do u want from this relationship? It makes things smoother |
Re: I Feel Like Quitting This Relationship by samuelson06(m): 10:55pm On Nov 15, 2014 |
ireneony: We call it even then |
Re: I Feel Like Quitting This Relationship by samuelson06(m): 11:14pm On Nov 15, 2014 |
remsonik: I don't have any problem with her o. Just that she does some things at extreme. At times I'll just ask myself, would this girl always be like this or would she change? Other times, I feel like going for a bedroom flat so that possibly I can lock myself somewhere, do my work and watch what I like there too but I know she'll feel I don't love her [maybe] again. I want to be free. I want to be myself and let her be herself. I don't have any problem with her watching Telemundo or AM but my problem is when she wouldn't let me watch live matches and wouldn't like I go to a viewing center to watch. Asking me what is in football sef. At times I'll get mad then I'll just laugh and ask her "why are you doing this to me?" I have tried not to hurt her in any way because of these but...I don't know. You guys should just understand me. I've stayed for long without a girl. I prayed God for a real woman but it seems everything is coming overdose. |
Re: I Feel Like Quitting This Relationship by Evina(f): 6:41am On Nov 16, 2014 |
samuelson06: She is too good for you and you know it 1 Like |
Re: I Feel Like Quitting This Relationship by tolufaithO(f): 9:38am On Nov 16, 2014 |
samuelson06:@ op i doubt if u rili undastand wot u want |
Re: I Feel Like Quitting This Relationship by Nobody: 9:52am On Nov 16, 2014 |
I wonder what exactly u want in a woman |
Re: I Feel Like Quitting This Relationship by Afrok(m): 11:26am On Nov 16, 2014 |
I have one thing to say; U ALLOWED HER TOO MUCH SPACE TO CONTROL THE RELATIONSHIP. |
Re: I Feel Like Quitting This Relationship by Nobody: 11:44am On Nov 16, 2014 |
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