₦airaland Forum

IDEApro:
Myopic and senseless evaluation.

There are a myriad of reasons a woman will cheat but its utterly disappointing for a MARRIED woman to cheat notwithstanding the circumstances that preempted it. For sane reason it is ungodly, a disservice and breach of her oath before God and multitude that witness the solemnization.

What justification is there in extramarital relationship?
The man is so angst by the wife immoral conduct hence his actions and such men are always the faithful ones in marriage.

A woman can cheat based on material things too, the need to explore or pressure from admirers and not necessarily the husband's inability to perform at optimum.

BTW...we're not yet generalizing infidelity but to address what is presented hence our focus of contention should be limited to this exposition

Choi!!!!Igilango!!!!!!

mgbeketoto:
You know my own na for free.
No blackmail necessary.
The small 'wan' wey I post for NL. . . in SEUN'S FACE got me a life time ban as KANWULIA BABY!
Muchechechechecheche

NO BARRY CAN DO SHYTE!!!!!Married or not!
After the jobless mugus look and talk finish. . .I GO STILL DEY FAYA DEY GOOOOOOO KAMKPEEEEE!!!
Local tinz! No only to look woman toto dey fit aspire to in life!
I will give them plenty to 'drrrrrooooool' at ke!

A yaf die!!! Firing squad thangz ooo

mgbeketoto:


*toto muskles*

Yes naaa you sef no dey see am??

SAMBARRY:
ask mgbeketoto na

Nooo her muskles too big na OP a wan ask ooo you wan make she give me black and green eye??

SAMBARRY:
is it the nakid pictures you want explanation for or the chats

Both of them but most especially the nnnaaakkeeeDdd pictures *winks*

SAMBARRY:
you cannot hondastand

Nooo the Op must explain ooo

emusmith:
A lady colleague was giving me this same annoying excuse two days back saying..."You know women na, them get mouth na."....I know know women o... If I remember very well, Sarah na woman and she called Abraham, "lord"...which kain woman you be?

It's for reasons of this sort that some men marry girls they're well older than so she can at least think twice before mannerlessly whitewashing him with words...

Women That Do These Things Lack These:

1. Proper Education: Proper Education teaches one when and how to talk.

2. Sensible Friends: Most times, its from her friends she "copies" such from... I can't explain how calling me "Nonsense Guy" is a joke! Expensive & Childish Joke for that matter o...

3. Teachable attitude: She must have been hearing that but she refuses to change...


Thanks OP: This is a sensitive issue.

BUT, I will love her......Love conquers all...it will conquer that too...Men, love your wives! Her bad mouth, notwithstanding.

Bros in as much as i agree with you love cannot conquer a wife with a bad mouth i personally don't move close to such ladies

kestolove95:
Wia are d jobs gej said he provided?..mtseew...ma. bro no wori,change is cumin,aftr may29 work go plenty na u go evn choose d one u want

Who wan bring the change?Gej or Buhari?Make we hear jare two yeye people!!

Insulting people's parents only shows an apparent decadence in the person's upbringing?

superior1:
In my own case, she was not only weeping, beating her chest but also professing amist tears how it is impossible for her to even think of cheating, if no be say my evidence is strong enough shame for even catch me join for the matter considering her reaction that day.

Harden cheaters are manipulators, if she/he really loves you, she/he won't cheat on you, genuine love is not selfish, it is not self-centered.

Exactly!! Çhop knuckle

mstik:
I can believe this. At least for men. When men cheat, they are not emotionally attached to the girl they cheat with. It's just having sex , for them and they feel nothing for the person they sleep with.

This is called balderdash!!! Fallacy of hasty generalization..

egopersonified:
You go fear comments.

Na wa i just dey read dey shke my heaad here

Wait a minute!!Op thought u said unclad pictures why am i reading some very confusing indecipherable chats between two people?

mgbeketoto:
Thank you jaweeee!

Please, can you give me a picture of what my online personality looks like?
Edo/Yoruba Alatika ke?
You don't know I have MULTIPLE PERSONALITY DISORDER?
I love it!

Life is to short to have a 'predictable' or 'flat' affect!
That is what makes me extremely desirable and entertaining!
If pesin make me vessss ehn. . . I go juss krasse for im head, tiarram to pieces!

I can change at any moment. . .depending on my 'MOOD SWINGS'!
Extremely volatile. . .and loving it!
How you tink say I go look before?

This is called marketing *takes off*

All these tpiahs ehhnn!!!

Nice piece OP but i think the man was referring to work as in a job to support the finances of the family

dominique:
When the baby wakes in the middle of night crying or whining or just want to play. You don't expect the mother too sleep through that do you?

Or when the whining husband wakes her up for some adult play *winks* in the night

Deefuray:
Thank God.
I honestly hope those dogs are dead now

Better still i hope Akpan has eaten all those Dogs now??

Nice piece OP i am ano introvert and i understand this clearly

shockwave91:
Gud. Nw u can drive around & luk 4 ur johnny

Actually she can now search for her Johnny with enough speed

delishpot:
God bless St Nicholas hospital and all the staff taking care of this young man. Even without a relative to bring deposit they went ahead to care for him. May God bless, uplift and replenish all they have spent to care for him in 200000000000000 fold.
Quick recovery my brother.

Amen o,God bless St Nicholas hospital for their kind acts.

Op we need a broader view of the victim please!!!

irishCream:
Barca

Not bad I also support Barca but not like Chelsea oo,you didn't respond to my message

xreal:
Since when?

Since he won the project fame years back!!

Spaxon:
dats an old' Range Rover. BTW. who's dz guy

That's Nigeria's king of soul!!!

xreal:
BTW
When did he start his music career?
How many singles/albums does he have?

Am I missing something?

Are you in Nigeria?That's Naija's king of soul you're talking about here....

babyosisi:
Update
Meeting rescheduled for next week
I decide to go tell my mentor the story
After a long one hour conversation my mentor convinces me not to go through with that meeting and he asks me to walk up to the mediator and say these words.

Dr XYZ,I have thought about this whole thing and would want to put it behind me and forge ahead,I would like that meeting cancelled and ask that Dr W my boss tell me what he is expecting of me and what he would like me to do

I told my mentor I needed to speak with my greatest confidant first ,my hubby
I do
My hubby who is himself a boss with many subordinates , agrees with my mentor
He says it will make me come out more mature ,diplomatic and non confrontational and that will show me in a good light to this woman who certainly has the overall boss' ear.

So I just spoke with that mediator and she however says if I do change my mind to call her and schedule that meeting ,she also insists that I sit down instead with the boss and have a conversation with him because from her meeting with him,he said he wanted me to succeed and would like us to sit and for me to tell him what my needs are as far as goals etc and he will in turn tell me what his expectations are.
So most likely that next week I will be sitting with my boss hopefully calmly while we try to work this out

My mentor recounted his own experiences with previous bosses and in fact he had seen worse.
This is the route I have decided to take
Thank you all for your prayers,encouragement ,already I feel like I have won,I believe him not showing up was a blessing after all.
I am certain this meeting will be cordial and he will back off now that he knows I am no pushover and have expressed my grievance to a third party.

That's just it..You nailed it *thumbs up*

lobell:
that's prolly the wine that got spilled...so it depends on how she manages this crises.

She's nat doing so bad from what I've read so far

irishCream:
I sure do

Anything bad about that

Wow *dancing shoki* a laaadddyy that loves foootttbbbaaalll!!!!! AaAaAa!!! *rolling my eyes.. What club do you support?

giffty:
What do you do when you wife earns much more
than you do ?
Join the discussion here, i would love to hear your
views.

Nuffin as long as she respects me

Why would tpiah99 post comments on tpia100k's thread all Þhis tpia's on NL ehn!!

The blog no even get head sef