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kccarew:
Yes oo, I made mention of the western world because of other people's comment abusing me because of this thread, don't mind then, they are comparing themsleves with people with no traditions

You know Nl is filled with a host of people who feel and think they know so much,you know when you chat with people their line of reasoning and thought should determine whether you should go on with the conversation

lomprico:
Na kill u wan kill d pikin na.

When the pikin dey piss for better food wey I prepare nko?

lomprico:
U sound like a terrorist walahi!

Terrorist dey terrorize small pikin?

luluosas:
Please how can one go about that? Thanks

Bro it sure is a very long process If you do have a copy of the guinness book of world records you can contact them from the info posted in it. My two cents though

kccarew:
Lol, u r right my bro, but some don't care oo, its well even in the western world

That's why they are different from us we do have traditions and beliefs for them they are carefree.. I wouldn't want a war zone for a household...

Dem do this one for me tire oo

Wow your father must be the oldest man in the world cos if I'm not wrong,the last I heard of the oldest man in the world according to the guinness book of world records was that he was 116..

Walahi that pikin don die I go beat piss and shit comot for in body.. I go just kill am once...

I quite understand your concerns OP but I think you should politely and gently tell your mum what you feel...

It's a big no for me I wouldn't want to be known as "baba brewery" or baba chimnéy"

andromida:
She may be the force driving herself.

I strongly believe she's not alone in this

Onegai:
I know The Fountain of Life Churrch Ilupeju sells it, I'm not sure if Laterna (VI) sells it, but please make enquiries from The Fountain of Life church (Pastor Taiwo Odukoya's church).

I'm going to get my own copy, even though I don't have kids yet and gift one to a friend's 2 year old daughter and another's 4 year son. We cannot keep pretending all is well in our society, it's madness to do so, when we are continually surrounded by evidence showing we have so much wrong with us.

Most people who target kids are people who are around them. Remember, it is rarely a stranger on the road that will attack your child, it will most likely be his classmate, her teacher, his nanny, your neighbour or even worse, your relative.

And yes, boys do get abused too. A friend of my sister's narrated how his parents n boy decided to molest him for an entire term, and how he got so desperate to not return back to the school, he drank either Bleach or some other household chemical.

I also don't have kÍds and neither am I married but I'll do everything possible to get that book for my soon to be kids. Thanks a bunch bro

striktlymi:
Funny you!

If I need a "bed playmate" I know more than two pretty ladies I can trick to fulfill that role.

The fact that I won't do that tells me, I am not interested in playing 'married' with any house help.

Yeah bro but just as someone said previously no lady between the ages of 18 to 25 would stand by and serve as a house help or maid for a single guy living alone one day she would make a move it's worse if she is a live in house help or maid and bros we both know and understand that "body no be firewood"

Op just tell us that you need a playmate on your bed.

Beautiful piece Op apart from konga where else can we get that book?

Can you imagine that yeye commissioner of health?Tomorrow idiots like that would come out and begin to paint a picture of himself as a God to the common man because he needs his vote. If that call were to be a call for delivery of some millions he would pick the call,nonsense!!

yehmi01:
valkaka:
Except only on nollywood movies cos since d days of adam,sampson,david etc..ladies are always unpredictable and only the predictable guys shall taketh dem by force.FEAR WOMEN!!!

Please tell them. Very unpredictable.

If you know the length some of them go once they are in the mood you go fear WOMAN.

And somebody will come and say a whole 80 percent are innocent.

May be that was then before 1948 not now in 2015

Hahahahahaha bros you go kill person ooo

andromida:
Nobody knows what is what really. You are assuming the wife is being influenced you don't know for sure what her sisters tell her.

But just as I said the signs are obvious,they wouldn't join her in such a useless battle if they weren't the driving force behind her.

valkaka:
Except only on nollywood movies cos since d days of adam,sampson,david etc..ladies are always unpredictable and only the predictable guys shall taketh dem by force.FEAR WOMEN!!!

Yes ooo ... So on point!!!

tpiatabernacles:
you must be AA, they are women magnets.

Heeeeeyyyy!!!!Another tpia again??this should be like tpia what??

vizkiz:
swirry i wasn't in the spirit...i was in the flesh thinking of how to commit fornication

Hahahaha and that's why you didn't feel the vaccum she was in the spirit ministering to your wallet

Abegiii OP she's not curvy anything jare she is simply fat,abeg me no dey gbadun excesses jare

firstEVA:
Remember we've not heard from her, her story may be different.

In stories like this,the other party would always be on the defensive,but the signs are in the story,signs like the sisters coming to fight,the butt pads,her curses,the threats and the fact that she takes pride in every nonsense she's doing. These are not good signs and they point to a not too palatable end. My thoughts though

5minsmadness:
@Radiantlola

Was this the case before they got married?
If not, what changed?
What qualities did she have that made him marry her?
What qualities did he have that made she agree to marry him?

Ten years and two kids is a long time and a long investment. A lot of changes, both physical and emotional, would have taken place.

Did this denial of sex start recently like 6months to a year ago? If yes, then its most likely he is having an affair.
If it has been longer than this then it is a habit thing. Maybe reduced libido om his part as wife's own increases with age. Maybe madam has gained weight in the wrong places. Men are very physical and if he finds she resembles the Michelin man more than the svelte beauty he married, he may no longer have the desire for sex.

Now I am not blaming her. Ten years and 2kids will take its toll on anybody. But it wont hurt if she keeps herself healthy by losing some weight and buying a new dress and getting new perfume and not the same she has been spraying for 10yrs


She shouldn't naked herself and beg for sex, that is belittling herself and will probably make the man less sexually attracted to her. Men are naturally conquerors, they are in for the chase, family kind of comes after(will explain this more one day, maybe).

My advice:
She should repackage. Hit the gym or run around the house or whatever, exercise and lose weight.

Buy new clothes for herself. Not old mama clothes o, modern clothing, not ashawo cloth...you know what I mean.

Get new deodorant, new perfume, new make up kit, new lipstick.

Eat healthy.

Smile a lot around the house. Laugh a lot too if possible.(she should make sure she is laughing at something so oga won't think she don craze.)

Stop the begging. Stop giving oga unnecessary attention. Give him the usual attention e.g serving his food, etc.

Effects:
It will improve her self esteem. It will refresh her spirit. It will make her healthier.

It will make Oga notice her. He might feel she is having an affair or maybe a new outlook on life. Either way it will make oga to notice her. Oga needs to be the one doing the noticing. Soon he'll be the one making subtle advances towards her.

If all of these takes place and nothing changes meeen na away match sure pass oo

andromida:
The part where you tore off her butt pad is tooooo funny. Can't stop laffing.

Obviously your wife has self image issues reason why she has a butt pad to make her feel secure. Try and understand her you did marry her happily sef.

You are too focused on controlling your wife maybe you should try and control yourself.

Sorry about the other issues you are going through i hope you sort yourselves out. Divorce is the easy way out working through your issues and toughing it out is it.

The wife is being influenced by the demonic sisters and they would probably lead her to her death eventually

firstEVA:
very intelligent contribution. its like wearing a padded bra, that should not concern the op na. this does not mean the wife has a good attitude, they both have to chill and work on their marriage.
#TeamNoToDivorce

Emmm I don't also support divorce but in this very case the wife is worse than a demon mark my words she would bring other men into their home and kill him one day

First O she's from a useless home,you probably didn't notice all of this when you were courting my advice divorce her before you end up in the grave.

dancok:
u speak my mind brother,the girl brought everybody back to default settings this evening, I was thinking of how to make big money before I stumble on this thread,this thread makes everything looks unworthy, even our so called life is borrowed,hmmm mcheeew

Honestly bros my kid sister couldn't complete a page before she began to shed tears uncontrollably

Lalastcala!lalasticala!!how many times I call u? You sure say all this female celebrities nor dey pass something give you??

delishpot:

Seee your teeth!! E remind me of one pappy water wey dem nearly chop for bar beach