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systacee:
Too young for you to discipline? I don't think so. It's not too early to express your displeasure at any bad behaviour. Scold, frown, brandish a cane and promise to use it next time - just don't let it pass. Keep correcting. With time, device measures appropriate for their age. Always let them know certain behaviours are ' no - no'. Parenting? Lord have mercy!

Hmph *sighs* may God strenghten our parents and give them the wisdom to raise their kids right.

elantraceey:
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Yea i know that but that doesn't answer my question though.

It's simple it isn't just that we men make it to look like a female too it occurs more with ladies than guys some ladies can fill a basket with their nagging imagine waking a guy up as early as 5am with unnecessary complains and quarrel. 4 out of every 5 females are guilty of this.

emeraldtopaz:
Its nt compulsory that he helps with some domestic chores but it is necessary.if u need help with anything around the house,tell him lovingly and am sure he would love to help out and know wen to make such requests(when his favryt soccer team is playin isn't d ryt tym to ask him to help u change d baby diapers).just don't make it a duty kind of tin n lastly always appreciate woteva he does n praise him for it no mata how badly he does d job.that way thr will b peace in d house.

Here people is one matured and understanding lady. That's the way to go.

elantraceey:
Then why do you men make it seem like it's a women issue?

If you were a man and you find yourself in such a situation,you would understand that some women can nag an entire skin off a man.

zaynie:
My 2 and half years old son emptied a whole can of dusting powder into his box, piled some more on the rug and finished it off with some on his head and body. It was after his bath, I'd gone to get his breakfast, the powder was out of his reach but Mr Smartypants employed a stool to achieve his goal.
It was on a weekday, I was so shocked i burst into laughter. I just left it there till evening. It took almost a week for the whole powder to leave the rug.


That innocent child is not self servicing, he is just trying to cream himself. You need a good sense of humour to raise kids or else you will either beat your child to death or go coocoo.

#Keepyourperversethotstoyourself.

I agree with you the child in the picture seems to be having more fun and laughing.

I'll simply snap and keep for future reference

Lisaflex:
Most stuff i've read abt marriage imply dt d success of a marriage is mostly if not entirely dependent on d woman...Is it dt a woman is not meant 2 njoy marriage bt jes kip working at mkin it work even wen its killing her? Wot exactly is d role of d man?...In ds write up, d woman appears 2 hv taken all d blame n its more lyk shez trying 2 justify her man cheating on her n leavn her n d kids...I bliv d guy also made his own mistakes in addition 2 d cheatn ish, d brk dwn of their marriage could hv been averted if d guy also played his part n didn't let fnz escalate 2 d point dt it did...I fnk 4 a marriage 2 work,both parties hv 2 work hard at it n not jes d woman

Nooo dear even on this thread the success of any marriage depends on both parties not the woman. When there is a defect from any of them then a huge problem would have occured.

Bootybuttchic:
haa.....thank God hes left sha......he must have found peace by now....... men they try ....whew!







i hate when people pick mistakes too much,bully someone feelings(emotionally).turn a matrimonial home into a family house.....chai....plus the rest.........thank God for that mans life



Gid pls give me brain to treat my husband and home well....amen

Amen

chaircover:
Very deep
Not excusing the man for his affair though . .
He should have found a way of communicating his "dislikes" to his wife before it got so bad & to the point that he switched off
Its good to learn
it is well.

You see some men might not be good with communication and I am guessing that the man in question might be that type of person

elantraceey:
Men nags alot but you guys just make it look like you guys just talk and cover it up as just being men . When we talk we pour our hearts out and sometimes that's just a way to express ourself (though some women go extreme) .

Yeah Elantraceey some men do nag a lot but 10 out of 11 would love to close their lips after so much words and of course expect their ladies to do the same this helps us to think and concentrate.

Does it mean that there's a connection between what the woman hates before pregnancy and what she craves for during pregnancy??

Chinoble:
Is not easy o. My big sis own na to follow follow the hubby up and down, dey pinch am ontop. To the extent that the hubby had to hide everyday in other to go to work.
Always stealing meat frm the pot and begging strangers even what we ve in the house.
Last year, my preg neighbour came to ask me the soap we(my bro n I) are using to bath, i was surprised and i told her eva soap. She said: plz auntie Amaka, help me change the soap i no like the smell @ all. Hmmm i was like....r u serious!?(i wonder how the soap smell take reach their own apartment ) She said yes, plz u can use lifebouy, that soap they r showing in TV. I went to the market the next day, got the lifebouy, after using it, next thing she is @ my door again! Auntie plz dis one is the worst! I cnt enter my room again, go back to eva or even iris spring no dudu osun..........lol
later dat day, the hubby told me that they ve used almost all the soap in market but the wife liked none. Now they r using B29 soap to bath.


Wonder How mine will be like. The follow follow, pinch pinch hubby own will be better.

After Taryour's experience,this is something else..hahahahaha

Hmmm after reading through all these experiences can't help but laugh myself to tears,I think there might be some psychology to this situation. GOD BLESS THE WOMEN!!!!

Nice write up OP thank God I wasn't misled by any of this.

luigiajah:
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Na cooking be dat?Na food e dey take now

Good advice from a sensible person

I read any enlightenin,interesting and humorous post by any one

@OP have you now found the bf you've been searching for?we are at the tail end of the year you know

Are they supposed to be commodities or products to be shipped or delivered? Sugar mama ko sugar uncle ni.

Chai!!OP u for post this thing before e happen naa,I for don hammer now.