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PeachtreeReside:
She has the right to expect to live better !!!

6 in a one room is an abuse!!!!!!



Please let's not be accepting of bad living conditions. Nor normalise it either


She ought to have a room to herself way before this age.

Thank you.

kazyhm:
So it is reasonable to you that the boy should live like a slave in his father's house?

When he grow older to become abusive especially to the opposite gender......you people will start saying he learnt it from his parents.....which eventually is true in this case because everyone of you is suggesting that the boy be abuse.

The parents should both sleep in the sitting room.

smokeyupu:
THEY MUST LEARN TO SHARE!!!

I GREW UP WITH SIX BROTHERS AND TWO SISTERS IN ROOM AND PARLOR....

WE SURVIVED IT

Yikes.

MaryJane24:
If not that society has gone to shits, how would we even be here suggesting there is something wrong with siblings sharing a room because they are different genders? It's the reality of the modern world and there's no stopping the train. I long for the world our parents grew up in. It wasn't this bad. Siblings should be able to share a room without even getting ideas until they grow out of the house and become their own persons or start a family. As it stands, the fact that the young woman insists on her own room is already a sign of the societal rot settling in. So, better listen, OP. There's nothing wonderful about it but you have to do it. Demarcate the room for them.

By the comments here we know the people that grew up in a face me and face you

BIXYBABE:
What will u still need ur wife for, when u av grown up children already.

What?

Ebenezer4141:
So if the family are in one bedroom flat, make Dem dress for garage abi??

They should have made themselves financially comfortable before having kids.

Cutehector:
its not a bad thing. That you are living in a mansion dont mean you should judge others living in shanties!

So because I don't live in a 'self contain' that automatically means I live in a mansion?

You probably don't think it's a bad thing because you don't know any better.


Kids of the opposite sex should have separate sleeping spaces when they both clock 11.

Nigerians who live with their family in a one bedroom apartment lack common decency and didn't make themselves financially comfortable before having children. Its a fvcked up situation.

Most Nigerians were raised poor and wretched and ignorant. Imagine saying there's something wrong a 16 year old girl wanting her own room?

Once you have sibling of both sexes and they reach 11, they both need to have their own rooms.

The sister and brother came from having their own rooms and you expect them to easily adjust to sharing a sleeping space when both of them are around the age of 18?

Cutehector:
yh op.. People are living in self con.. You should talk to your daughter. She shouldnt take that attitude going to her husband's house.

Living in a self contained is a fvcked up situation and not how people should live!

What?

These statues are sentient and proof that juju exists.

Look at what they are doing to people.

Remain prayerful always.

May we not be unfortunate.

Are they athletes?

The parents are also stupid.

A foreigner comes to your village and treats local kids anyhow and nothing was done. Where were the men of the village to put those Chinese nationals straight?

Can a black man do that to local kids in China?

When will the black race get some self-esteem?

The parents did nothing and let their children be exploited because they thought the Chinese people would give them a payout.

If the parents were paid, I'm sure they would have even sold the kids to those Chinese men.

The black man will never stop selling his dignity for leftovers!