₦airaland Forum

aestake:
The shooting of the women is making me to laugh o. Brain and thinking are .....plus raising nonsense sons.

MrLibrarian:
shut up you ugly dumbass.
Stop projecting your failed miserable life on others

idahme:
How is he mad? Most of you pressure men to marry without minding if he has the means to support a family.

A man who starts dating at age 20 must marry at 27 because he has dated her for 7 years? He is then mad for been with a single partner regardless of how age make Una get sense small na. If the woman doesn't want she should take a walk what's wrong with ur brain?

ruffhandu:
Same, the police and immigration

ruffhandu:
No sir, many (I am 100% sure of 2 cases) this the wives came back begging for forgiveness and how sorry they were for lying against the man. They were asked to go tell their stories to the UK immigration.

aestake:

aestake:
Haha..fabricated stories and water works are making UK police to reconsider your calls. Stay and live by yourselves holy women.

Asidiq:
Lol.I see you are here looking for mistakes and errors . Thanks for the correction anyway . You won. Are you a champion now?

DeeScan:
lol .

If you were really lepa .. I'm fvcking blown right nw .


How many kids do you have??

Omoawoke:
That you are a woman and you carry this thing for head exposes you as a man hater. I can bet you must have been frustrated by broken homes and decided you won’t go down alone, you want other women to suffer same fate so you won’t be alone, am I wrong?

Asidiq:
I really pity who go marry you ,and if you are married ,I still pity whoever your spouse is. You are indeed not intelligent to grasp what the officer was saying. He never asked anyone not to report case of domestic abuse but because you are bitter soul, you would not understand. What do you know ? Do you know what some women call the police for their husband on in the uk?

RealTrump:
From what I can tell cos I am Yoruba, this whole programme was about the youths crimes.

Of course, UK youths could be very violent, especially with knife crimes. And it is rather a common occurrence for it to lead to death.

The man was advocating d importance of having both parents in the lives of their children. He acknowledged the fact that women has an upper hand, n said even if you feel the man is not doing anything in the home, manage it, cos d man u feel is not doing anything might be the one who will prevent that same child from getting stabbed. Children raised by their only their mothers have a much higher chance of incarceration, drugs n teenage pregnancy. The research is everywhere, this is not a female bashing thing n d cop sees it everyday at work.

He didn't say manage an abusive husband.

But I understand we have brought our archaic definition of manage to mean to endure. Manage can also mean to keep a company or in this case, a family going within the resources available to you.

There was no place in that recording that he said women should endure or not report violence to police.

It's not my problem what anybody choose to do with their lives. I have met girls who don't want to marry or have a kid n I have no issue with it. In fact, I find them a lot better n I actively gravitate towards them cos they are usually clear headed, can take care of themselves, n importantly, they hold themselves accountable instead of blaming everybody else for their failures. Very little mental stress cos they don't start sulking at your every word.

And if this male-female madness should continue, we should advocate that male n female should just continue to fornicate non-stop, no wedding, no kids, no problems.

This is just wrong n misguided anger towards the man.

chidiokay:
i thought you said it is fake news, and the man never said anything like that

According to the video their is nothing the man said that promotes domestic violence or abuse, by mere discretion the man is only trying to ward off frivolous reports which is mostly the case, if physical abuses was on the rise the news would have broke out from the authorities

You guyz have to make these solely about physical abuse cos that the only angle you get a point, we all saw how a woman tore her husband passport here in naija airport imagine what that kind of woman would have done abroad, yet naa dem sabi call police pass

Acrimony movie comes to mind

ivolt:
Unemployment is not a crime in the UK, so no husband can be reported for being jobless.
There are 2 categories of valid domestic issue reports, actual violence or threats of violence.
So, if a man is reported for sneezing as you insinuate, then there is no case!

What usually happens is that there is an argument over an issue, the one who loses
in the oral/insults contest(usually men) devolve into subtle or non-subtle threats. Some women believe
the threats(may or may not be credible, nobody knows) and go on to lodge complain. Others don't.

I would have been very sympathetic for the man's view if
1. He wasn't on uniform
2. He provided statistical evidence that shows that Nigerian women
make more frivolous reports than other groups in the UK.

My position is that it is wrong for a cop to discourage reporting for whatever reason.

chidiokay:
So why is it only Naija women that call uk police the most, think about it


whatever bad you think men do here, should strength/ leverage switch women will do worst

Laple0541:
If you are abroad as a man and your wife is in Nigeria, leave her there. If your children are with her, take them there but leave your wife in Nigeria. Come to see her as much as you can, let her enjoy nice trips around the world if you can afford it but don’t let her leave with you over there.
You will surely thank me later if you take the advice.

JoeEeL:
Sure I do ma'am.

nlfpmod:
Which one is false information?

chidiokay:
have you ask yourselves, is it only naija wives that reside in Uk or have marital issues

does it make sense to conclude only naija men are abusive in Uk you tell me

Goodnewsforlife:
don't b stupid

I don't know a out any Femi case n I have not even heard about it before so how do u use "some of u"

Guy I did t wait for naira land to upload anything, I went to Facebook where I saw the live n direct video of what the man said

I guess many of u don't even understand Yoruba so u really don't get the man's point but just reacting on people's comments on social media

Guy I b Yoruba person, I hear Wetin d man talk n it's same advise any family oriented person will give

If u like ruin your home cos u feel u have an upper hand, na your children go suffer am

Don't quote me cos I won't reply u

Goodnewsforlife:
over Sabi u don't even understand what the guy was saying

He's actually talking about home management,nobody is saying they shouldn't report abuse but there are some minor issues that could b managed within the home that are blown out of proportion because the women believe they have an upper hand

In pidgin, no b every case u go call police, some small issues dey wey u suppose manage for house na only issues wey Una no fit resolve for house u suppose call police for

Simple

chidiokay:
lets even admit the video is old and the police never said that .... is the story distance from reality or what naija wives can do

that was how we saw a woman tore her husband passport at airport and people like you were foaming it is a skit , it is not true

Do you know why the movie acrimony had black characters

1stGenAmerican:
Yes. Cococandy and I figured things out when we first saw the story on the FP. In the long version of the video, the fraudster starts speaking in Yoruba so that the Oyinbo men couldn’t understand what he was saying and doing.
1Sharon, other nationalities don’t do things like this—they protect their women and children, unless it’s extremists or guys from Afghanistan. Indian men working for the UK police wouldn’t try manipulating Indian people by doing this. Some Nigerian men abusing power go together like clouds and rain.

Bobodee09:
All the men in your family are dunce.

1stGenAmerican:
He started speaking in Yoruba for a reason, fraudster! UK police confirmed that isn’t their stance and he’s now being investigated. What he did is an actual criminal act, I can’t wait until he is sacked and arrested!

1stGenAmerican:
UK Met Police are investigating. He’ll be reprimanded, there’s no doubt. He’ll lose his job and gain a criminal record.

cococandy:
Nairaland is super notorious for spreading lies. The MODs don’t even try to verify any information they put on the front page as long as it’s guaranteed to generate clicks like this one.

If I didn’t live in the US, the type of impression I’d have of this country would’ve been WOW. That gives me the ideal that most of the stuff they say about the UK is also probably exaggerated at best or totally made up at worst.

Nonsense people full this forum sha.