₦airaland Forum

nairaman66:
It’s not a male thing, ladies are demonic as well as guys in this regard. My best friend in Lagos relocated his family to the UK early this year, he paid for his wife’s master degree program and paid for more than 3-4 months rent at 1k pound plus. Guess what? The wife, the wife frustrated him overseas and seized his passport saying she doesn’t want the marriage anymore. Took his kids, it was a miracle how the guy came back to Nigeria to start over again. When he got back, he called me and we were both crying on the phone. This guy spent more that 60-70M, he lost his wife, kids and sanity!

Did you hear his wife's side of the story?

What were you thinking?

UnitedKingdom:
I'm talking from experience. As a single, before you relocate to UK, make sure you have a serious relationship back home before coming here. You can't find true love here in UK. Why do you think guys come back home to marry and go back with their wife's?

Here can be so lonely and them no born you well to approach a white lady anyhow. Hence, she'll call 911 on you for harassment. Unlike Nigeria were you can walk up to an
y lady toast her anyday.

How comes you don't know the correct number for the emergency services?

wonder233:
Providing is not your job. What is your job? You're an adult, it is not anybody's responsibility to feed you. It is your primary responsibility to guarantee what you put in your mouth. You think having a vagina shields you from that responsibility? What then is your use?
Sex? An escort cleaner than you can provide that even better. Chores? A maid more diligent can you can provide that even better. Childbirth? A lady with better reproductive system can do that better than you. What do you think will make a man chain himself for life to serving you? Let me tell you what it is: it is if he knows you're in with him 100%. That when he falls into hardtimes, someone has his back, no mater how long it is. Not this "it is not my responsibility, i can only support" bullcrap. Cos merely supporting means you are not an active participant and would withdraw when things go bad.
Yet you want a man that would love you unconditionally, funny delusional lots.

You sound bitter, frustrated and broke. If you had the capacity to provide , you won't be
making statements and excuses like this. Remember what your loving Bible says about men that don't provide. If you believe that an escort and cleaner, can do all those things better than a wife, Alaye don't marry!

Go and get a maid, escort and cleaner
No be by force.

Stargurl20:
I'm interested

Becareful.

Colonial schools.

"If his mum said I took it, then I did" 💀


When people show you who they are, believe them. Abort and move on.

Why is he helping you do your assignments.

Senioreddy:
10M is too small for one to take the risk of being a surrogate mother. Imagine carrying the pregnancy for 9months and then release the child to an unknown person with the clause of not coming in contact with the child.
Abeg reason it well. Is 10m enough. It becomes worst when the child grows and becomes a notable figure. Imagine the torture

What are you on about? The child is not biologically related to the surrogate. The surrogate mother is just the carrier.

wonder233:
But a woman can be fed forever by a man right?
you people think through your anus in this part of the world.
In the world today, wealth and success is no longer by physical strength but by mental and social networking, so both men and woman can both rise to the top. So anyone of them could face a hard time for any length of time. You shallow trado-religious airheads should go and sit your butts down

Are you now trying to imply men and women are the same? Are you a modern man?

Look, it's not a woman's role to provide for a man, we can support. Providing is not our job.

Nigerian men catching stray bullets.

They're all over social media complaining that nobody want to date them because they don't have papers.

And why should they? Go sort yourself out.

Laple0541:
After the war, Ukrain will be paying men from Africa just to come and impregnate their women.

Black men and narrowing himself down to a sex object.

kayperry:
.lolllz, co kini ? you leave me nd you think i will make it easy for you ... full custody i will graciously lose but i will come visiting my kids time to time... even your new man go taya give me key to the apartment

Bianca ojukwu is old forget all the pancake and body padding .. her unclothedness is enough to validate market don finish, you can't cheat nature ..

look at kim kardashian, she is officially single but the men rush is no longer there, But see bobo kanye .. in no time he secured a serious r/ship, a chick younger than kim,

The biggest mistake nd regret a woman can have is trying to live her life like a Man

Who left who is irrelevant. Women are left with the kids all the time. Women should consider leaving their kids with the men. He is equally their parent.

kayperry:
leave there kids with who ?? to be with another Man, she will risk abandoning her kids .. just becos of a "Man" forgetting Men are scum

That aside, even without kids as a woman age older the drooling effect she has on men reduces, these days i see kim kardashian nd i feel nothing much, same as beyonce abi whu is still drooling

its not a secret Men prefer young ladies, asides golddiggers no man in his right senses will see a tems and pick linda ikeji
see what paul okoye went for .. how old is she lets not fool ourselves o jare

Why are you calling it abandonment? Do men not do it all the time to women? They will co-parent.
Is the father not equally the child's parent? You're telling on yourself.

That's because as some women age, they tend to neglect their appearance. Would you say Bianca Ojukwu isn't attractive? You can just tell that she puts alot of effort into her appearance.

kayperry:
You know whats funny, thats just one, women carry so much baggage in all of these, is it age, childbirth changes, drop in fertility, societal stigma and the uncertainty of how the next man will treat or accept her kids .. its a lot
How can you think of all these things nd someone will say Men are blackmailing women not to leave marriage ... are these things not true, should a woman not know

where mercy johnson wan pack four kids go ... seetrade condo abi nazgul mansion.

I've just told you. If women left their kids behind, their chances of remarrying will be much higher.

I'm certain that an elderly woman that has just been infected with HIV has no intentions of remarrying anyway.

Omg she actually went through with the BBL!!

descarado:
This place na cruise
That one is threatening you.
Wetin you do am?

Lol he was threatening someone else. Hard mirror's an atheist. Religious threats don't work on him lol

kayperry:
Lets help you put things into perspective @most using names you know, Men like churchhill, 9ice remarried, daniel remarried damascus, prince remarried mercy and someone left toke makinwa to remarry ... turns out they are all having a bliss, can we say the same for most women that left there marriages, what is the point using a logic where it won't work

A woman knows what she feels one minute she is saying N0 then after hours she is asking why did you Stop smh

That's because women that leave relationships tend to leave with their kids in tow. Most men don't want to deal with women with multiple children.

This isn't the same for a man leaving a relationship, the kids are often left with the mother and the man can easily move on with his life. It's not rocket science.

Calitoscassius:
So what da fork are you ignoramimuses doing? Start selling Banana leaves on Amazon and see if you goons would make profit. Your banana leaves wouldn't even pass rigorous EU health and hygiene check.

Lol. Im pretty certain amazon doesn't even accept sellers in Nigeria.

pocohantas:
I was about to respond until I saw that part. Just knew say na them and ignored. If a woman says "all men cheat", they will ask "including your father?"

But when they want to blackmail women into staying in these marriages, they will suddenly remember the next might be worse. So who are these good men they claim we ignored for the bad guys?

Chop am 😘

otherway:
I was expecting the closing remarks and that is just the truth.

Men who sleep around unprotected are wicked.

If you must sleep around at least protect yourself... Common sense.

Unfortunately, leaving a promiscuous husband is not a guarantee that you won't get a std cos even the next man you will eventually be with may even be more reckless than the one you left.

It is just by GOD'S grace that women especially can be free from the high chance of getting std.

Fear tactic. Keep quiet abeg.

Semaj77:
But we don't know it was the dad who infected her

Do you know how to read?

tete7000:
Quite a sad one, but your mum too made a bad choice in marry an irresponsible man. When it is all said and done, it's her choice. I really don't know how to console but I pray God helps you. I wish I have money to transfer to you.

He probably told her he was a good man and 'not like those other guys'. Understanding and loyal wife don chop HIV.

Make sure you give this same advice when a man is a victim of paternity fraud. Oniyeye.

Has to be furlough 😂

lekonso:
Who are you, calling your fellow human beings, created in the image of God, (the most stupid animals on earth). I ask you to repent now, failure by which i call on God their creator to fire your mouth with thunder.

You don't know who you're talking to lol

finallybusy:
Her type will never respect any “small boy” under the age of forty-five. He should arrange a husband for her from his friends.

Do you think her dad even wants her to bring a small boy home ?

hammer567:
Yeah , tell u about it? we dont know?

Do you think the woman he molested in the UK was a 'greedy Nigerian woman' ?

FRANCISTOWN:
That's how people complicate the lives of their children. The children will then start jumping from Shiloh to Mountain of fire when they can't find a partner.

It's better to die single rather than being with a woman that looks like a witch.

Ugly people should not procreate. They should be kept in the zoo, museum ,or for horror movies.

Our fathers of old would have never said this. Weak men of today with useless standards.

Afonja007:
If earthquake occurs in America or Japan and power goes off agbadorians will start to tell you that light also go off in in Japan or America,I don't want to be reminded of our suffering in nigeria, look at what they are using to convince gullible Nigerians that things are bad in western world,without some Nigerians in diaspora some families in nigeria won't be eating

They always love to compare their negatives w/ others because it makes them feel better about themselves.

Anything imported is always expensive. It's not rocket science.