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Sleekfingers:
And having extramarital affair is the solution?

Maybe she was tired of begging for sex. The husband should pray. He is allowing other men to break his home.

ednut1:
dish advise that you will follow is the key. Linda got pregnant and went on to engage herself to deceive people before the kasala burst. https://www.nairaland.com/4452732/fan-talk-linda-ikeji-engagement

Which podcast bro

Did she ever tell women not to be with a man? You're smarter than this. If the ring is not on the left hand, that means it's not an engagement ring! Did she ever claim it was an engagement ring?

One of the bros from fresh and fit.

Auxtan:
Well, Nigerian ladies started the spec trend and men took it a level above.

As for me, I am not gonna settle for what I do not want.

There are gazillion of Nigerian women waiting to fit into being a man's taste and the loss of one egomaniac to this regard doesn't change the fact that we men deserve better and won't settle for less.

Thats how men miss their blessing.

Men of today. Our fathers of old could never. They had multiple wives and sired many children. Men of today talking about silly standards.

You will grow old with regret. Find an ugly woman and grow with her. Good looking women are heartbreakers.

LexngtonSteele:
Women don't want to be housekeepers anymore.

You can't cook, can't wash clothes, can't clean the house...

I don't share bills AT ALL. So don't expect me to share chores.

That's the thing. Alot of women don't mind as long as the bills are taken care of, they'll handle the house.

The women that you see complaining about chores are those that also work. If you and your wife both work, why should the chores be on one person? That's why 50/50 is a scam.

Sleekfingers:
Some people are calling the man weak man and sorta names......what do they expect the man to do ? To start fighting over a LovePeddler? Or beating the useless useless wife?
Although, it is not easy . But the best bet is to walk away , with evidence.

You don't know if he was denying her sex at home.

IbileIfe:
No child asked to be born in controversy.

But alot of Nigerians are born into controversy. Isn't poverty a controversy 😂

Dialpad:
The boy will change it when the time comes

No he won't

Dijita:
What is the father's opinion. I mean where is the man when the mother is giving her last name to their son?

When a child has the surname of the mother, it indicates the man is a deadbeat. He is not owed the right to pass on his surname.

ednut1:
I remember when linda was the chief feminist in Nigeria dishing advice to young girls. Only to get pregnant out of wedlock

Doesn’t that make sense from a feminist perspective? If they don't agree with marraige why would they marry to have a child.

By the way, one of your podcast bros has impregnated an escort. So everybody is just a hypocrite. Even red pillars.

I don't understand, why are people expecting her to give her son the surname of a man that isn't around?

Does anyone know who her child's father is?,

cococandy:
@bold that’s so true for most Nigerians but if I were to guess, I don’t think he’s biased against c section seeing as his a medical professional himself.

Just a messed situation all around. And they wonder why people are quitting and running away. Not even the proper rescue equipment and personelle was readily available

Yeah, he seems clued up medically. I really hope that wasn't the case

cococandy:
Sis You know it pains me to support a typical Nigerian man.But in this case, this man didn’t do anything wrong. The whole system is broken

They kept administering more and more medications to stimulate contractions when they weren’t adequately monitoring the patient and fetus.

The doctor wasn’t on ground when shit hit the fan even though this was his patient and it was a scheduled induction so he knew they would be there. When you induce labor you have to know that since it’s not natural labor, the cervix may refuse to cooperate at any time and you have to be there to make sure that mom and baby can get to the OR ASAP if needed. This man didn’t refuse surgery if necessary. Why blame him?

I was induced twice and in both cases my OB/GYN was available right there to make sure everything went well. They have a surgeon on hand in case something went wrong with my induction so they could operate immediately. Both the surgeon and the anesthesiologist came and talked to me prior to induction to let me know what they plan to do in case of an emergency. I agreed and we proceeded. If anything had gone wrong, I’d have been in the OR in less than 10 mins for rescue and resuscitation. That’s a system that has their emergency routine mastered and ready to go.

This doctor induced a patient knowing that induction has risks and was in another hospital while his patient was declining. No adequate monitoring for them to even know if the baby was in distress with all the unmeasured pitocin they were pumping into mom.

I know JW have a bad rap and Nigerian men are not it sometimes. But those weren’t the reason his wife died. The hospital failed them:

I agree. It's not even the religious aspect that's my issue, I know they can have the surgery w/o a transfusion.

I know how terrible the system is, it's fvcked up how she wasn't even monitored and how they couldn't even do CPR for the baby. If I was to deliver in Nigeria, I would opt for a CS rather than a normal delivery. At least with a CS, the experts are present w/ you from the start. It's seems w/ normal delivery, they just leave you to your devices. Its sad.

I can see where he agreed to the surgery, but it doesn't seem like he was fully open to it. Why then was she made to deliver naturally? Whose decision was it truly? I know Nigerians have phobias around surgeries. Women that have CS are shamed for not doing like "the Hebrew women" and that's the part that annoys me.

Blendy77:
Recently Jehovah witness and their plenty drama was discussed here. This man literarily murdered his wife and son cos if the hospital had offered CS delivery ab initio when the labour was getting difficult he wod hav refused since u can't conduct emergency CS without blood transfusion. Sorry for ur loss Oga, I doubt if u hav a case sha cos ur telling Dr what you want and nit want due to your religious inclinations caused all of this

The thing I don't understand about Nigeria, why are the husbands allowed to make decisions on their wife's birthing plan?

Shouldn't it be her decision alone? Very annoying.

Procashtips:
Even with the evidence posted by the husband which I just reposted?

What evidence? Show me where he was open about CS. By the way, it's not even his decision to make. It's his wife's.

hybrid77:
He was only supporting the idea and not giving consent. The next chat explains his mindset at the time.

I can tell you that it is easier for the doctor to have a cs done right away, than to have to monitor a woman for hours during labour.

Abi o. He finally consented to it after shit hit the fan. Nonsense.

Procashtips:
Don't you have data to see the attached screenshots of the chat he had with the doctor where he agreed with a CS as suggested by the doctor?

You people love to blame the victims.

Who did this to you people?

Pls put me straight, I don't see where he agreed to have a CS. If that was the case why did she deliver naturally?

Let's not pretend like you don't know Nigerian men have a stigma against CS.

Lagusta:
No, I disagree

The woman is multigravid, ruptured membrane over 12hrs ago, and has suspected macrosomia

A CS would have saved lives.

It was very clear the woman had uterine rupture, low BP with tachycardia were clear evidences of hypovolemic shock!!

May Nigeria never destroy us

Isn't it obvious the husband never wanted the CS?

MatrixReloaded:
First of all, remove religion from the husband belief. Being a Jw doesn't imply when a woman is facing her repercussion of early humans.
She rupture around 3am and it never dawn to a man with medical background that the baby is lacking oxygen.
At that instance the woman should have been induced (force labor). "ANYWAY"
it baffles me how some people view c/s as a taboo when in reality is the best and safest way to save both mother and unborn child.
Don't be victim of religion misconceptions

That's what I suspect happened. I'm sure they were advised to have a CS. But they insisted No.

It's not the husband's decision to make. It's the wife's.

When "do you know who I am" goes wrong.

ravensckar:
So, in your deluded mind a lady will hear those names abi?

I don talk am before sey NAIRALAND OLD WITCHES no get sense. You keep proving me right.

Meanwhile, is Evathyst still my wife? How far about your investigations so far, Journalist DAVIDA HUNDEYIN

I understand.

ravensckar:
You no wan rest abi? You just dey carry my matter for head like LAPALAPA.

Between I (who was using you ladies to catch cruise) and you (who is taking everything so serious), who is the "old full?".

You've been hyperventilating since yesterday like a She-goat on HEAT PERIOD. Shey you no go rest ni?

Evathyst isn't my wife. But sometimes it's better to fool the fool who thinks she's fooling you.

I can post my birth certificate here for all to see. Can you also post yours? At least, the world needs to know who is older between us.

You kept screaming "ugly" since yesterday like a deranged lunatic on rampage. At least everyone has seen my picture and they can attest to the fact that I'm not ugly. Stop taking this thing personal, no be me talk sey make you become EVENING NEWSPAPER.

Even PORTABLE wey no fine reach me married a QUEEN. Why can't you give it a rest? My girlfriend fine pass you. My wife (wey don born two pikins) fine pass you. Wetin be your problem?

Since I don see 1Sharon profile picture, shey you don hear her use the word "ugly" again? Make una dey rest!

As for the stupid part, I think even a village idiot knows that you're not half as smart as I am. Academically or otherwise. You wey no fit construct correct grammatical sentence.

Rest on top this matter! OLD WITCH, rest.

UGLY duckling. There you go. No be your wife's shop address be this? You want me to contact her and tell her you're making a fool of her and yourself online?

Those two are the head of someone's family

folake4u:
Chisos!!! Sharon of the Most High.

I fear you today. Osalobua lahor!

To be witch dey sweet sha. No lies.

🧙‍♀️ 🪄 🧹

Damian911:
You dey crase??
With dat your eyes wey be like owl for captivity

So the other cheeks remain hairy?

ravensckar:
Baba abeg nau. No let us dey drag matter like Tiger Generator. That's not my wife! That's my ex-girlfriend. I was gonna protect her identity before but little did I know that she too don cast me with her post.

Besides, na small quarrel make my wife dey deny me kpekus then and we don settle am. Now, we dey knack left right and centre.

Sure.

Wotowotoman:
That’s a beautiful woman right there..Please why are you posting her picture? To achieve what

He dared me, so I did. Will be deleted

ravensckar:
Sweetheart, jokes apart, you still need to improve on your "investigative skills".

Evathyst wasn't my girlfriend then and she's not my wife now. We were just very close to the extent that a lot of people thought we were dating. Now, give it a rest. You have lost!

Again, my real wife is on nairaland. I dare you to post her username and pictures.

#Tick_tock

More denial? I understand, you dey fear.

ravensckar:
**HOME LESSON**



chat me up on 08135138440

Evathyst:
Brand new iPhone 6s plus for sale.

Contact the seller on 08135138440...

Why she dey give out your number?

cococandy:
What a beautiful and gentle looking lady.

I hope this man is not giving her wahala at home.
Or we’ll ride at dawn!

Abi. I wonder if she knows her hubby is acting a fool online

ravensckar:
Laughs hysterically and rolls on the floor....

I knew it! You ladies are so shallow that you only see whatever a smart man wants you to see.

For your information, Evathyst wasn't even my girlfriend (back then) talkless of being my wife (now).

Again, you have proven me right. NAIRALAND WITCHES are brainless!

PS- there was never a time we pretended not to know each other online. As a matter of fact, most nairalanders used to think we were dating. In your face!

You still wan deny?

Evathyst:
First nd foremost, my shout out goes to d lov of my lyf; Babawale Ajibola who introduced me to nairaland. I'll 4 ever rembr u

folake4u:
Seriously? Chei.

ravensckar:
Yes, my wife is on NL but none of you WITCHES know her username.

You think you are dealing with those foolish guys that you can know their life history just by digging their Social Media posts? Dey play! You can only see whatever I want you to see! It's called the MIRROR EFFECT in the realms of power.

I dare you to post her username if you ever find it.

#Tick_tock

Stenon

You thought!!


https://www.nairaland.com/evathyst

Despite pretending not to know each other on NL, I was still able to trace you back to her !!


You're right, I'm a witch! Witches are cool.

namqul:
What are you selling?

Buttocks cancer and incessant flatulence medications












Oniyeye!