Dreyl I'm not surprised at all

Observing things from palm tree.. I don't think the lost of interest is somewhat to lust, however, the reasons behind this cannot be overemphasized so let's not centre it majorly on lust.

It might just be your perception about ladies, fear of heartbreak, friends terribly encounter with ladies which has becloud your sense of reasoning,



Lest I forget, OP abeg no 4get vote 4me oooo

FLAWLES:
.u see wahram talking about :>

what is that?

tosyne2much:
Dreyl I'm not surprised at all

Observing things from palm tree.. I don't think the lost of interest is somewhat to lust, however, the reasons behind this cannot be overemphasized so let's not centre it majorly on lust.

It might just be your perception about ladies, fear of heartbreak, friends terribly encounter with ladies which has becloud your sense of reasoning,



Lest I forget, OP abeg no 4get vote 4me oooo

thanks boss

Alright guys thanks for your advice(s) sorry couldn't reply all because i've a busy schedule,i think i am going to work on myself like some people said,maybe fade out lust and love more anyways thanks.

Dreyl:
I don't understand myself anymore,their was this pretty chocolate skinned banker lady i wooed some days ago and she accede to date me after we had a memorable tet a tet and fun together, i immediately loose interest in her,this is not the first time. i don't really know why,sometimes when she insist on visiting me i would hide and tell my gateman to tell her i travelled out of the country,sometimes i do switch off my cell phone so that she would be unable to reach me and i don't pass her street unlike before. i don't know maybe some of you guys are also experiencing this also.



MOds Seun,obinoscopy i will appreciate if you move this thread to the front page..

Its called the immaturity syndrome. Happens to all people (men&women) who start having cold feet if a relationship they are in seem to have progressed from just being fun to something more. Used to happen to me too till I settled down. My advice is this, stay away from chicks 4 sometime. No random nyashing, nothing. Allow urself time to mature up, if it comes up again when u insert urself back into society then let the relationship grows into more b4 u consumate it.

because u woo all of them at night only to see them in the morning and they look like andyblaze

izsmike:
because u woo all of them at night only to see them in the morning and they look like andyblaze

you are probably a guy whose just got a hang of wooing ladies, after so many bad past experiences with them. so now you go around wooing random chics you have no affections for with your newly found prowess, taking it out on any of them who fall for your advances.

Dreyl:
I don't understand myself anymore,their was this pretty chocolate skinned banker lady i wooed some days ago and she accede to date me after we had a memorable tet a tet and fun together, i immediately loose interest in her,this is not the first time. i don't really know why,sometimes when she insist on visiting me i would hide and tell my gateman to tell her i travelled out of the country,sometimes i do switch off my cell phone so that she would be unable to reach me and i don't pass her street unlike before. i don't know maybe some of you guys are also experiencing this also.



MOds Seun,obinoscopy i will appreciate if you move this thread to the front page..

Did you just have a break up ?

It happened to me from 2011 till 2013. I had a very painful break up. In my eyes no other lady measured up to her.

It still happens to me once in a while and when I force myself to see the lady again, the new lady would find out we are not in synchrony. So don't force yourself.

With a banker last month, it happened when I visited and saw her without make up. I just wrapped that side up.

adepiero:
[size=20]STOP LYING OP!!!
IN JUST A FEW DAYS YOU MET HER ALL THESE HAPPENED!

IS SHE A BANKER OR AN OLOSHO? [/size]

Lol.

What's your point ?

Exjoker:
Have try discussing this with you pastor? Because I can see you settling with a wife as a married man

And it was common with me when I was seeking wife not gf..

100Cents:


Did you just have a break up ?

It happened to me from 2011 till 2013. I had a very painful break up. In my eyes no other lady measured up to her.

It still happens to me once in a while and when I force myself to see the lady again, the new lady would find out we are not in synchrony. So don't force yourself.

With a banker last month, it happened when I visited and saw her without make up. I just wrapped that side up.

Lol..it's not like she's not beautiful but the problem i have is going back to her i don't wanna break her heart because i ain't loyal i find it very hard and boring being in a relationship for too long.

Dreyl:
Lol..it's not like she's not beautiful but the problem i have is going back to her i don't wanna break her heart because i ain't loyal i find it very hard and boring being in a relationship for too long.

then I don't think marriage is for you.

Dreyl:
Lol..it's not like she's not beautiful but the problem i have is going back to her i don't wanna break her heart because i ain't loyal i find it very hard and boring being in a relationship for too long.

That's to say, you don't love her.

Just keep her hanging nah. You might later love her as the need arises. The bad side is that she will get a signal that you are playing on her..

In my own case. The make up didn't mean she wasn't beautiful. I see things and when I do, I just quit. Its something I can't force.. sort of premonition.

zbone:
you are probably a guy whose just got a hang of wooing ladies, after so many bad past experiences with them. so now you go around wooing random chics you have no affections for with your newly found prowess, taking it out on any of them who fall for your advances.

lol..it's not today i started wooing ladies the prowess has been there for so long, it all started when i was a teenager probably a bad ass player then,but i kinda stopped because i think it's unhealthy and people were complaining to my parent that they are always seeing me with random chics,you know amebors.
besides this is not the first time the last relationship i had lasted for a month i think that's the highest of all,being in a relationship for so long is like staying in a dark empty cave for me.

100Cents:


That's to say, you don't love her.

Just keep her hanging nah. You might later love her as the need arises. The bad side is that she will get a signal that you are playing on her..

In my own case. The make up didn't mean she wasn't beautiful. I see things and when I do, I just quit. Its something I can't force.. sort of premonition.

thanks i guess i will stick to what you just said.

Dreyl:
I don't understand myself anymore,their was this pretty chocolate skinned banker lady i wooed some days ago and she accede to date me after we had a memorable tet a tet and fun together, i immediately loose interest in her,this is not the first time. i don't really know why,sometimes when she insist on visiting me i would hide and tell my gateman to tell her i travelled out of the country,sometimes i do switch off my cell phone so that she would be unable to reach me and i don't pass her street unlike before. i don't know maybe some of you guys are also experiencing this also.



MOds Seun,obinoscopy i will appreciate if you move this thread to the front page..

bro. u aint alone..

anyway
keep calm and
#DrinkLiptonWithNoSugar

marieolae:
then I don't think marriage is for you.

i don't think i will get married now maybe when i clock 40 or 50.
I still have some years to enjoy myself to the fullest though without any atom of stress and heartbreak,i may even have a baby mama if i wish,since i can afford the upkeep of the child for years, that's not a biggie.everybody have different choice and how they live their lives.

MuhdG:


bro. u aint alone..

anyway
keep calm and
#DrinkLiptonWithNoSugar

lol..ok

drnoel:


Its called the immaturity syndrome. Happens to all people (men&women) who start having cold feet if a relationship they are in seem to have progressed from just being fun to something more. Used to happen to me too till I settled down. My advice is this, stay away from chicks 4 sometime. No random nyashing, nothing. Allow urself time to mature up, if it comes up again when u insert urself back into society then let the relationship grows into more b4 u consumate it.

alright thanks so much for the advise..

eleshin:
seriously it's asif d OP knew what m going thru, tho with a slight difference. No matter how pretty nd 9ice d girl is I usuali get bored after a month or 2, next tin na to dey avoid calls nd dodge visiting. I only had 1 exception in d past nd trust me v bn avn problem analysing what d babe possessed that others didn't. I know it's more of lifestyle than spiritual.

It's cos ur mind hasn't matured up enof 4 u to commit. All men have that problem. U will see when u body alarm strikes "it's time" nobody will tell u, though some men don't realise when it does and oncertified they miss it its gone. Men are not made like women. I was in ur shoes b4 but now am married. Funny enof, I disappointed all previous girl friends that wanted commitment and married the only who never stressed me about committing. Then I had a very big problem with committing. I used to run a mile once a gill starts asking me "what are we to each other". Once I hear that am on the next flight out of whatever I was doing with her. When I met my wifey she told me "I know u have known many women. I see it in the way ur yearns flow. It's sad but I can't do much about it. I am experienced in handling a man, have never dated b4 u. I wont try to hold u down with committing. U can come and go when u want but if u stay make ur it's 4 the right reasons. And vice Versa if u go". I dated her for more than 6 years and married her two years ago. My old girlfriends heard I was dating her. I heard they kept stopping her when they see her asking her how she managed it. I don't have any idea how they found out or how they got to know she was the one. Anyway such is life.

Agybabe:
Because your reason for approaching her wasn't sincere from the on-set.

You were lustfully infactuated to her. A mere admiration.

You don't have a problem, just work on yourself. That's all!

Freedom of speech justifies not minding my business. And here I am not minding my business

It is simply termed "Lust"

ChurchillStorm:


Freedom of speech justifies not minding my business. And here I am not minding my business

you never enter one chance before.

Agybabe:

you never enter one chance before.

I have actually. But as the universe will have it, I had my taser on me and in an easily reachable place.

Dreyl:
I don't understand myself anymore,their was this pretty chocolate skinned banker lady i wooed some days ago and she accede to date me after we had a memorable tet a tet and fun together, i immediately loose interest in her,this is not the first time. i don't really know why,sometimes when she insist on visiting me i would hide and tell my gateman to tell her i travelled out of the country,sometimes i do switch off my cell phone so that she would be unable to reach me and i don't pass her street unlike before. i don't know maybe some of you guys are also experiencing this also.



MOds Seun,obinoscopy i will appreciate if you move this thread to the front page..

U seems to have what I called anti-interested problem...solution ? Just remove the anti- that's all .

Bro......u won't understand but i'm happy for u.

drnoel:


It's cos ur mind hasn't matured up enof 4 u to commit. All men have that problem. U will see when u body alarm strikes "it's time" nobody will tell u, though some men don't realise when it does and oncertified they miss it its gone. Men are not made like women. I was in ur shoes b4 but now am married. Funny enof, I disappointed all previous girl friends that wanted commitment and married the only who never stressed me about committing. Then I had a very big problem with committing. I used to run a mile once a gill starts asking me "what are we to each other". Once I hear that am on the next flight out of whatever I was doing with her. When I met my wifey she told me "I know u have known many women. I see it in the way ur yearns flow. It's sad but I can't do much about it. I am experienced in handling a man, have never dated b4 u. I wont try to hold u down with committing. U can come and go when u want but if u stay make ur it's 4 the right reasons. And vice Versa if u go". I dated her for more than 6 years and married her two years ago. My old girlfriends heard I was dating her. I heard they kept stopping her when they see her asking her how she managed it. I don't have any idea how they found out or how they got to know she was the one. Anyway such is life.

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your not alone in this bro...I guess its spiritual

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Dreyl:
I don't understand myself anymore,their was this pretty chocolate skinned banker lady i wooed some days ago and she accede to date me after we had a memorable tet a tet and fun together, i immediately loose interest in her,this is not the first time. i don't really know why,sometimes when she insist on visiting me i would hide and tell my gateman to tell her i travelled out of the country,sometimes i do switch off my cell phone so that she would be unable to reach me and i don't pass her street unlike before. i don't know maybe some of you guys are also experiencing this also.



MOds Seun,obinoscopy i will appreciate if you move this thread to the front page..

My brother,u nt d only one facing d same situation,as of nw,i have phone numbaz of at least 7 bloody beautiful gurls....As soon as i get der numba,i do d toasting & stuff...But all of a sudden i lose interest.

I tink d major problem can b linked to,if i jst suspect she is fully dependent & keeping multiple partners,above all "Am Way Too Busy With Work".

sauceny:


My brother,u nt d only one facing d same situation,as of nw,i have phone numbaz of at least 7 bloody beautiful gurls....As soon as i get der numba,i do d toasting & stuff...But all of a sudden i lose interest.

I tink d major problem can b linked to,if i jst suspect she is fully dependent & keeping multiple partners,above all "Am Way Too Busy With Work".

exactly bro you re right.