Recently i have been experiencing this problem where girls admit they once had a crush on me at awkward times!! This has happened on several occasions! One admitted she had a crush on me before I met my ex but she never did or said anything!. Another admitted she had a crush on me when we first met in school but was too intimidated and shy to approach me and feared rejection. Worse part is i never really saw any concrete signs showing that they liked me like that!! They both mastered the art of hiding their feelings very well! .....Now I can't help but wonder! Are girls still too proud or concerned about expressing their feelings to a guy for fear of rejection?? Is this not lady like or something? Its 2014 for christ sake!

Please I am just asking for opinions. Don't put me on blast!!!

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Eeyah..

@op we may have just open a thread that will generate unwanted advice so I will just start by saying this.
.1.WTF
.2.Only gods got answer to your question lucky am one but I charge 1000 per hour
3.I absolutely got something to say but can't seem to remember.
Hope with this few point of my I have been able to not only confuse you but also convince you that high on TM.
In case you are actually serious about your issue pls call this number(911) and I promise I will attend to you thanks.

justmag:
Recently i have been experiencing this problem where girls admit they once had a crush on me at awkward times!! This has happened on several occasions! One admitted she had a crush on me before I met my ex but she never did or said anything!. Another admitted she had a crush on me when we first met in school but was too intimidated and shy to approach me and feared rejection. Worse part is i never really saw any concrete signs showing that they liked me like that!! They both mastered the art of hiding their feelings very well! .....Now I can't help but wonder! Are girls still too proud or concerned about expressing their feelings to a guy for fear of rejection?? Is this not lady like or something? Its 2014 for christ sake!

Please I am just asking for opinions. Don't put me on blast!!!

Eastherbunny:
@op we may have just open a thread that will generate unwanted advice so I will just start by saying this.
.1.WTF
.2.Only gods got answer to your question lucky am one but I charge 1000 per hour
3.I absolutely got something to say but can't seem to remember.
Hope with this few point of my I have been able to not only confuse you but also convince you that high on TM.
In case you are actually serious about your issue pls call this number(911) and I promise I will attend to you thanks.

Lol! Shit happens I guess

This is Africa..

And African men has a unfavorable view of a gurl who approach to a guy to profess her love for him...

i really need help so if anyone could read my post and give me some advice that would be great thank you https://www.nairaland.com/2002232/best-friend-likes-more-than#28107534

justmag:
Recently i have been experiencing this problem where girls admit they once had a crush on me at awkward times!! This has happened on several occasions! One admitted she had a crush on me before I met my ex but she never did or said anything!. Another admitted she had a crush on me when we first met in school but was too intimidated and shy to approach me and feared rejection. Worse part is i never really saw any concrete signs showing that they liked me like that!! They both mastered the art of hiding their feelings very well! .....Now I can't help but wonder! Are girls still too proud or concerned about expressing their feelings to a guy for fear of rejection?? Is this not lady like or something? Its 2014 for christ sake!

Please I am just asking for opinions. Don't put me on blast!!!

The fear of nairaland "attack-dogs" is the beginning of wisdom

ERCROSS:
This is Africa..

And African men has a unfavorable view of a gurl who approach to a guy to profess her love for him...

I understand that and I highly hate that way of thinking. I know some men who got married to women who approached them. I strongly believe if you see someone you like just tell them. I can understand A BIT if it's a stranger but when it's someone you already know then why not just tell them or something and not wait till its too late!

sylvalord:

The fear of nairaland "attack-dogs" is the beginning of wisdom

AMEN! I have my holy water on deck for these attack dogs! Let them come.

justmag:


AMEN! I have my holy water on deck for these attack dogs! Let them come.

Incase...

True

ERCROSS:
This is Africa..

And African men has a unfavorable view of a gurl who approach to a guy to profess her love for him...

PinkObsession:
True

U r truly obsessed with the pink color..

Can I call u PINKY

Call me pinkobsession

ERCROSS:


U r truly obsessed with the pink color..

Can I call u PINKY

Gosh!!!!ladies don't want you to take them cheap and for granted!!

PinkObsession:
True

This is the 21st century and that idea should be buried. It's only most nigerian girl that I kno have that problem.

stupid if you ask me
no one is saying you should kneel down and beg me
just give me very good hints
is this too much to ask for
girls sha....


i hate when a girl starts telling me she once had a crush on me
boo who...keep that sh1t to urself now!!
i now have a bf or you wait till eternity.

*sips coke*
this thread don make me vex

justmag:


This is the 21st century and that idea should be buried. It's only most nigerian girl that I kno have that problem.

PinkObsession:

Naija girls

Oh...you want gals to tell you how they feel about you so u could call them cheap abi?

misszainab:
Oh...you want gals to tell you how they feel about you so u could call them cheap abi?

Girls have apprached me before. Two of my exs approached me in the past! So no! I won't call them cheap.