freecocoa:


Hmm, I prolly should have said people who make excuses for cheats will likely cheat if the opportunity arises, I don't see how they won't if they have reasons why it's okay to cheat. I'll be a shediot to believe people who scream they won't cheat actually don't, people lie a lot.

freecocoa:
True that, guess I didn't bother about that, just thought since it involves men and cheating, e go hot die .

Hmm, I prolly should have said people who make excuses for cheats will likely cheat if the opportunity arises, I don't see how they won't if they have reasons why it's okay to cheat. I'll be a shediot to believe people who scream they won't cheat actually don't, people lie a lot.

freecocoa:
True that, guess I didn't bother about that, just thought since it involves men and cheating, e go hot die .

Hmm, I prolly should have said people who make excuses for cheats will likely cheat if the opportunity arises, I don't see how they won't if they have reasons why it's okay to cheat. I'll be a shediot to believe people who scream they won't cheat actually don't, people lie a lot.

BABE3:


I've lived long enough to know that though people are held accountable by their words; words are empty as shït

yes, it's good to have the right mentality about cheating; but trust me when the real temptation comes, it's another story entirely.

Cheating is much more complicated than we make it seem in the section. But for arguments' sake, it's better to simplify.

Talon05:

Its really simple. Not all men cheat but all men are programmed to cheat. It takes a lot of willpower for a man to exercise self-control not to cheat. Believe me, you should trust no man.

freecocoa:
trust madam tpia6 na.

Seriously though, I expected this thread to be very hot, given the way most of them have a vast knowledge/experience on the subject.

Talon05:

Its really simple. Not all men cheat but all men are programmed to cheat. It takes a lot of willpower for a man to exercise self-control not to cheat. Believe me, you should trust no man.

2sExy1:
same can be said for the female folks na. How many of them go confess if turn the table around?

freecocoa:
Not only men, I believe everyone is programmed to cheat.

Talon05:

. But it rarely happens for a woman to cheat on a good man. It rarely happens.

Talon05:

I am talking about ideal situations where the husband and wife gets along well, you dont see a woman straying when she believes her man is good and faithful and all but a good home doesnt prevent a man from cheating. Most men will have a good woman at home and still cheat, its just in our DNA. But it rarely happens for a woman to cheat on a good man. It rarely happens.

BABE3:


That's the half truth.

the whole truth is, all men(men and women) WILL cheat under the right circumstances, and with the right level of temptation.

Some will never cheat because the circumstances are never in sync and/or the level of temptation isn't high enough.

Talon05:

I am talking about ideal situations where the husband and wife gets along well, you dont see a woman straying when she believes her man is good and faithful and all but a good home doesnt prevent a man from cheating. Most men will have a good woman at home and still cheat, its just in our DNA. But it rarely happens for a woman to cheat on a good man. It rarely happens.

freecocoa:
Only because the woman respects her husband enough not to and is disciplined, it's not like she can't or doesn't get tempted.

cococandy:
oh dear. Hehehehe.

Talon05:

You are right too but you will agree most women resist temptations better no matter the level of that temptation. Most time when women cheat, something has to go wrong in the home front, whether the man is a cheat or he's not capable in carrying out his duties, be it sexually or financially.

There is always a reason behind a woman cheating on her man but MOST men will cheat for no reason, a man will still cheat on a good woman, even his soulmate once a certain degree of temptation comes his way.

Talon05:

My dear, you are right and I do not argue this with you but you will agree with me that most good and well mannered women out there rarely resort to cheating even when things are wrong in their homes but most men out there will cheat on a good woman regardless of any shii simply cos its in a man's DNA to cheat. Women are not programmed to cheat.

BABE3:


err.. cheating is in everyone's DNA; not only men's.

The pënis is however very stubborn, stern and straight forward compared to the vägina....

plus, men have more options; they can have sëx with women in social classes lower than them and women in higher classes. Society won't complain.

Women, however, prefer to have sêx with men in higher classes.

That's why it seems like men are "more promiscuous".

freecocoa:
You are still getting it wrong, you can't say you agree with me and still say it's not in a woman's DNA to cheat, because those women don't cheat doesn't mean they are incapable of cheating, it just means they are more disciplined unlike the cheating men.

Like BABE have said, men have more options and the society doesn't really see it a big deal when men cheat, that's why you can come here saying it's in their DNA.

Talon05:

Why cant women throw discipline out the window and do what these men do?, cos they aint really down with cheating. Why do most men fling discipline out the window and cheat even on a good woman?, cos they cant help it. Its like peak milk, its just in them. Its in Us.

freecocoa:
What da feck are you really on about? Have you been reading my posts at all?

Talon05:

Hi coco, i try not to write jargon, have i erred?

Talon05:

Yes, we both holding onto the same opinion. Now, have you been reading mine?

freecocoa:

if men and women have the same level of playing field, believe me you, the men will be shocked.

cococandy:
any good man can get cheated on. All it takes is for the wife to get tempted by something different about the other guy (it could be anything) and for her to have assurance that know one will find out.

BABE3:


err.. cheating is in everyone's DNA; not only men's.

The pënis is however very stubborn, stern and straight forward compared to the vägina....

plus, men have more options; they can have sëx with women in social classes lower than them and women in higher classes. Society won't complain.

Women, however, prefer to have sêx with men in higher classes.

That's why it seems like men are "more promiscuous".

Talon05:

I agree but on a larger scale, i think we can make a rough estimate of the number of women with perfect homes that cheat, i'm sure u will agree its on the very low side but most men cheat irrespective of anything whatsoever, even when temptation doesnt come their way, most men still seek for it. Its just crazy.

Women resist temptations better than men, its not rocket science to deduce this.

freecocoa:
I don't think we are.

You are saying men cheat because it's in their DNA so they can't discipline themselves and I'm saying that's not true and that women also can cheat/actually cheat but the ones who don't, don't because they decide to control themselves than let their urges control them.

I'm also telling you that, if men and women have the same level of playing field, believe me you, the men will be shocked.

cococandy:
if you believe that. That's ok.

pickabeau1:



Interesting angle

Let me ask then

How do emotions come into play

Women are more connected than men