great admiration for single mothers. just not my thing

Then you guys would want a single lovely lady to marry you with kids, not fair!

H2O2:

jgirl, still not my property.

I liken this to inheritance.
Do I prefer to inherit my people's properties or do I prefer to build my own legacy from scratch.

It's not yours but then what if you love her? Are you going to throw away the best thing that ever happened to you because she has a child?

H2O2:

great admiration for single mothers. just not my thing

I guess I understand better sha.

people with fatherly care don't abandon their kids for other men.

magentam stop crying like a hurt puppy

i cannot love her. milfs are like models to me: poster material.

superstan:

you have a problem. get help,

Thank you jare. I do have problem with daft minds like you. . . .only if there's a way to eradicate your species

superstan:

you have not convinced me yet you are intelligent.

Even if intelligent chits on ya head, you'll still think it's "I don't believe it's butter". . . .so what's new?

superstan:

people with fatherly care don't talk this way.

Like I said, you're still a little boy.
Trying to bash my parents is an old trick. . . . it never worked. Try another strategy

@j-girl. Lets forget about the widows issue. I know of a girl who got pregnant and said it was a mistake. If you ask me, I think the word MISTAKE doesn't exis in relationships. In relationships, there are things you do and there are things you don't do; no mistakes. If a girl foolishly gets herself pregnant, then she has to bear the consequences. I can't take responsibility for another man's actions.

concur

"esu ni"

@H202

I think you have a thing for me.

You are a 5ft grader,hence your myopic way of thinking. Grow up man!

When a man loves a woman,he takes her for who she is,kid and all.
You aint seen true love yet.

Lmao!

Nothing wrong with dating and marrying a single parent at all.

H2O2:

i cannot love her. milfs are like models to me: poster material.

It's not all of them that will tell you that they have a child now! Some will not tell you at all until they get serious cos they wouldn't want their children exposed to too many men. What then?

crazykid:

@j-girl. Lets forget about the widows issue. I know of a girl who got pregnant and said it was a mistake. If you ask me, I think the word MISTAKE doesn't exis in relationships. In relationships, there are things you do and there are things you don't do; no mistakes. If a girl foolishly gets herself pregnant, then she has to bear the consequences. I can't take responsibility for another man's actions.

Mistake? That's different now! Who do we blame for a child's foolishness? We should thank our stars that these women do not abort the children. I would rather be a single mother with a tiny possibility of getting married than to kill my child because I want guys to consider me.

RubyPearl:

Thank you jare. I do have problem with daft minds like you. . . .only if there's a way to eradicate your species

miss subliterate simpleton.  all talk no brain cells.

go hang yourself if my opinion makes you cringe.

Even if intelligent chits on ya head, you'll still think it's "I don't believe it's butter". . . .so what's new?

now i am convinced you are not educated.

Like I said, you're still a little boy.
Trying to bash my parents is an old trick. . . . it never worked. Try another strategy

i am not after your parents.

i said people who value their fathers don't say men are useless.

superstan:

great minds think alike.

Great minds indeed!

Apart from been so fast to cast aspersion on a rather sensitive and serious issue,i think you seem cursory with your comprehension and ratification of the whole issue too.

Imagine a scenario where you are with a lady who happens to have a love child in yet another country far from where the 2 of u reside,and u av no inkling of her status as an "after one". 2 of u are love-struck(if u understand and accept that happens) and neck deep in a serious relationship that's seriously blooming, then voila,the truth came out,u think it is as easy as a stroll in a boulevard to want out of such relationship?

You can codemn the young man's action for all you can,but love and indeed passion comes in different shape and sizes,even my zaccheus's neighbor has a model like fiancee

kay_pumpin:

Great minds indeed!

Apart from been so fast to cast aspersion on a rather sensitive and serious issue,i think you seem cursory with your comprehension and ratification of the whole issue too.

Imagine a scenario where you are with a lady who happens to have a love child in yet another country far from where the 2 of u reside,and u av no inkling of her status as an "after one". 2 of u are love-struck(if u understand and accept that happens) and neck deep in a serious relationship that's seriously blooming, then voila,the truth came out,u think it is as easy as a stroll in a boulevard to want out of such relationship?

You can codemn the young man's action for all you can,but love and indeed passion comes in different shape and sizes,even my zaccheus's neighbor has a model like fiancee

thank you o

kay_pumpin:

Great minds indeed!

Apart from been so fast to cast aspersion on a rather sensitive and serious issue,i think you seem cursory with your comprehension and ratification of the whole issue too.

Imagine a scenario where you are with a lady who happens to have a love child in yet another country far from where the 2 of u reside,and u av no inkling of her status as an "after one". 2 of u are love-struck(if u understand and accept that happens) and neck deep in a serious relationship that's seriously blooming, then voila,the truth came out,u think it is as easy as a stroll in a boulevard to want out of such relationship?

i will stroll out of it with ease.

the sudden realisation is fraud on it's own. why didn't she tell me she has a love child for another man.

i don't love with my eyes closed. if i do, i would be loving miss sub-literate simpleton(rubypearl).

i have not seen any reasons for all the name callings on this thread,
there was a question and people gave answers as it applies to them,
that doesnt make any one a liar!

anywayz@topic,
i can date a woman with 10 children,
but i wont marry a woman with one child.

magentam you are full of raw shit.  you have wasted every inch of your body sleeping with irresponsible men and you're here looking to be accepted for the dustbin you are.

love kor rove ni.  anu ofia

Who is vexing my Ruby??
Baby . . . whose asss am I kicking?

superstan:

miss subliterate simpleton. all talk no brain cells.

go hang yourself if my opinion makes you cringe.

Why would I hang myself? E don reach that level?
If this is a cry for help, let us know o.
Dnt hang yourself o. . . .wait, on the other hand. . . .

superstan:

now i am convinced you are not educated.

oh well, I was trying to spear you. . , but if you want it clearly put
"EVEN IF "INTELLIGENT" SH.ITS ON YOUR HEAD, YOU'LL STILL THINK IT'S "I don't believe it's butter". . . .so what's new?

superstan:

i said people who value their fathers don't say men are useless.

And am I to assume you don't value your parents?
Your view about women is enough to make you puke on yourself

if a woman hides something that big from me she is ashamed of her child.

ANY GUY WHO WANTS A LADY TO DATE HIM WITH KIDS AND DOESN'T WANT A LADY WITH A KID IS PLAIN DUMB! H202, Take note!

H2O2:

if a woman hides something that big from me she is ashamed of her child.

More like she fears your rxn.
means she does not trust you enough to be okay with it

Missy B:

Who is vexing my Ruby??
Baby . . . whose asss am I kicking?

No mind the boy jare.

How far?

superstan:

i will stroll out of it with ease.

the sudden realisation is fraud on it's own. why didn't she tell me she has a love child for another man.

i don't love with my eyes closed. if i do, i would be loving miss sub-literate simpleton(rubypearl).

Guess you see life in black and white then.A lot of relationships have revelations everyday,but seems yo have your all mapped out already and nothing/no one can rock your boat.Maybe i should learn few tricks in open eye love from you.

But seriously bro,i still insist,in this life, NEVER SAY NEVER,it's really what makes life mysterious and tick

@H202

You are an apology for a man. Who needs your acceptance, Me?, in ya dreams. KOLOMENTAL. Foooool!

magentam you are an irrational baboon.

i don't have kids _yet  she is only 2 months pregnant lmao

what dumb ass excuse is that? my reaction my ass

my reaction now , my reaction later
you shouldn't be dating him if he won't accept your child - no point hiding it

RubyPearl:

Why would I hang myself? E don reach that level?
If this is a cry for help, let us know o.
Dnt hang yourself o. . . .wait, on the other hand. . . .

u might hang yourself cos u sound daft and sad all the same.

uneducated women like u assume anyone who does not agree with u is a liar.

if u disagree with me, does that make me a liar in your village? i pity the man that marries you.

oh well, I was trying to spear [/b]you. . ,  but if ou want it clearly put
"EVEN IF "INTELLIGENT" SH.ITS ON YOUR HEAD, YOU'LL STILL THINK IT'S "I don't believe it's butter". . . .so what's new?

trying to [b]spear me or spare me?? what a shame!!

i think i have proven you are uneducated.

another nairetard.

And am I to assume you don't value your parents?
Your view about women is enough to make you puke on yourself  

i did not scold men or women generally.

coming on a forum to say men are useless is irresponsible.

magentam, you are a disgrace to womanhood.  i don't blame those yoruba men for treating you like sperm-holder

it is a shame when people are persecuted for having different opinions. different does not mean bad.

H2O2:

what dumb ass excuse is that? my reaction my ass

my reaction now , my reaction later
you shouldn't be dating him if he won't accept your child - no point hiding it

Well she's studying the guy to see what will happen. Why should love be based on such minor developments? If you love her and you're going to start a family with her, you have a base.

H2O2:

magentam, you are a disgrace to womanhood. i don't blame those yoruba men for treating you like sperm-holder

Chei!

Ruby and H2, abeg e don do. Leave these people alone.

@poster na bad thinq?