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Re: Should I Stop Her From Seeing 'pastors'? by Idoko619(m): 10:28am On Dec 01, 2014 |
[quote author=asodeboyede post=28481386]You must understand that there are many wolfs in sheeps clothing! There was a particular brother that was given a false prophecy that he would be the first to travel abroad in his family! In view of this he began to sow in a fake land! Within 18months his younger brother broke the record, and he later realised the pastor was not even a pastor but a choir master in a far away church! There are many psychological prophets out there; this is Africa, where someone that refuses your greetings would automatically fit-in to your watch list! Then hearing a prophecy about enemy, she immediately comes to mind! Many a home has been destroyed cause of fake prophecies; and ladies are quick to hobnob with such wolves in the regalia of prophets! My dear, warn your wife to desist, before you father a bastard or she becomes a third wife to DADDY! WE STILL HAVE GENUINE PROPHETS AROUND! Moreover this is END TIME So expect shocking things that would spark your spine! Do you even have any relationship with God? ARE YOU A BEER HUSBAND OR BIBLE HUSBAND? Man-up bro! Lead and let your wife follow wnted to comment bt afta readn urs...i realise dere is ntin 2 say anymore 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Stop Her From Seeing 'pastors'? by Nmeri17: 10:30am On Dec 01, 2014 |
see-road pastors be like
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Re: Should I Stop Her From Seeing 'pastors'? by seggs101(m): 10:45am On Dec 01, 2014 |
Tallesty1: |
Re: Should I Stop Her From Seeing 'pastors'? by Idoko619(m): 11:04am On Dec 01, 2014 |
I tot i was alone in ds situation....dere is dis gal i luv very much i mean very much...marriage ws evrytin dat comes to my mind first each time i tink of her. .den as d relationship procedes i came to notice dat my thinking, decision, opinions, advice , infact Evrytin were jst 2nd choice..... if nt frm her pastors , brothers in d lord den it cant b frm nobody.... i tried xo had to tell her d implications of her actions bt didn't seem to change anytin until i lost her to one of dos brothers...to tell u hw bad ds Church tin culd b....she culd folo dos brothers to a birthday party in a pool bt can not attend a birthday in our neighborhood dat is nt frm one of ds brothers.... Bro u c d prblm ds pastors can cause ur relationship is far more wat child lessness will cause u if u truly luv ur wife bro as u r gettin ds msg get to action bf my testimony becomes urs...tnks nd may God save us frm ds acclaimed MOG's.. hoping fr d day u wil invite us fr chid dedication... God bless ur marriage |
Re: Should I Stop Her From Seeing 'pastors'? by Nobody: 11:25am On Dec 01, 2014 |
holatin: I'm telling you,we 're too religious.We give so much respect to this so called pastor and most of them are hypocrites.And their prey 're on women because they 're soft hearted and easily manipulated,and if this lady is not well expose or uneducated ,you can be educated and unexpose. |
Re: Should I Stop Her From Seeing 'pastors'? by sukkot: 11:48am On Dec 01, 2014 |
sandijey:no doubt |
Re: Should I Stop Her From Seeing 'pastors'? by stephenponti(m): 11:52am On Dec 01, 2014 |
Stop her as soon as possible but subtly, otherwise you ll have your self to blame. |
Re: Should I Stop Her From Seeing 'pastors'? by Applaner: 12:26pm On Dec 01, 2014 |
op, that is how she ran after pastors and prophets and you married her. why do you want her to stop now? Allow her. on a serious note, only a year and six months of marriage, she is running after prophets. why can't we (ladies) ve patience |
Re: Should I Stop Her From Seeing 'pastors'? by Applaner: 12:29pm On Dec 01, 2014 |
op, that is how she ran after pastors and prophets and you married her. why do you want her to stop now? Allow her. on a serious note, only a year and six months of marriage, she is running after prophets. why can't we (ladies) ve patience Are u sure she doesn't ve any skeleton in her cupboard? did both of you carry out a comprehensive test b/4 marriage? just thinking aloud |
Re: Should I Stop Her From Seeing 'pastors'? by holatin(m): 12:43pm On Dec 01, 2014 |
BiggyB242:what do u mean I can be educated and unexpose |
Re: Should I Stop Her From Seeing 'pastors'? by Wisegeek01(m): 1:48pm On Dec 01, 2014 |
Do you two pray at all ? |
Re: Should I Stop Her From Seeing 'pastors'? by Wisegeek01(m): 1:55pm On Dec 01, 2014 |
Davidoff2000 You shouldn't stop her, before she assumes you are the cause of her predicament" But she ought to reduce the visits tho* That u are not the church type is not an excuse, u ought to be there with her at least once in while on those visits to pastors, dats how u know wats up" I bet you those pastors won't say someone in ur family is the cause, right in your presence" Like I asked earlier do you two pray together at all, cos there's no issue that can't be solved with prayer" Also try once in a while to sit and talk with her just to reassure her to have faith tho* All is well * |
Re: Should I Stop Her From Seeing 'pastors'? by naijaex: 2:27pm On Dec 01, 2014 |
Well, you are the cause,when u said u are not the churchy type, am married for going to seven yrs now without issue,. every woman always show concern once there is no issue withing a year plus after marriage but as a husband you have a lot of work to do,if your wife knows that you are not spiritually sound,then she will prefer to seek for prophecy somewhere but when your wife knew that you are spiritually sound husband she dare not come with fake prophecy, my advice again is to caution her seeking for help where there is no help. i pray she quickly conceive but later she will stop running to pastors. thks |
Re: Should I Stop Her From Seeing 'pastors'? by SpencerLewis(m): 2:49pm On Dec 01, 2014 |
pweetixandy:Why should he run up and down with her? women are just much more gullible than men and not religious. I despise organized religion a lot esp Christianity, Judaism and Islam b/c of the ignorance of their practitioners. Just look at the fallacies they are telling the ignorant woman and she is believing them. May be their small size of brain (anatomically) compared to men may be responsible for that. They shd go for medical check/fertility investigations and don't be surprised the problem as in most cases may be from her. Yes, from her runing from pillar to post, may from an abortion done years ago or hormonal imbalance. And the more she is anxious the more the hormonal imbalance via the same limbic system and hypothalamus. Let her not develop amenorrhoea nervosa like princess Diana of blessed memory or develop stress ulcer. Those 'pastors' or 'prophets' are just looking for gullible people like her to milk dry with their guess prophecies. Tufiakwa with religion and their ignorance/gullibility. Don't SpencerLewis (aka Lucifer Son of The Morning) @ ur own peril. Hmm! Beware of my identical twin brother planet VENUS where we reside if u quote me. |
Re: Should I Stop Her From Seeing 'pastors'? by SpencerLewis(m): 2:52pm On Dec 01, 2014 |
flipboss:The most sensible post here on this thread. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Stop Her From Seeing 'pastors'? by Nobody: 2:53pm On Dec 01, 2014 |
Prophets are God's gift to men, revealing the inner thoughts of God. There are fake ones. Don't stop ur wife because of mere accusations of people. I assure you, if the problem is spiritual, it will linger till your death, unless you adhere to what God is saying through the prophet. Look at the situation, analyze it (the prophesies) and pray to God for solutions. |
Re: Should I Stop Her From Seeing 'pastors'? by SpencerLewis(m): 2:57pm On Dec 01, 2014 |
kennynelcon:Frustrated after just 18 months of marriage and without any medical check. She must be hiding something as the post below yours pointed out. May be her womb have have been affected who knows in a previous D&C badly done by possibly quacks and knowing medically nothing can't be done and she becomes desperate and put the hubby on the defence. Another thing is how old is she? Is she above 35yrs old and knowing that fertility in women (esp yet to conceive 4 the 1st time) declines more after that age(elderly primi..... stuffs) |
Re: Should I Stop Her From Seeing 'pastors'? by SpencerLewis(m): 3:00pm On Dec 01, 2014 |
OnyeIbo:Yaba left gul on the loose. Prophet my foot. Those your biblical fairytale are confusing u. Am sure u also believe the fairytale of Adam & Eve if u believe all those fake prophecies of Naija con artists called pastors. |
Re: Should I Stop Her From Seeing 'pastors'? by flipboss(m): 3:06pm On Dec 01, 2014 |
SpencerLewis:Thanks |
Re: Should I Stop Her From Seeing 'pastors'? by pweetixandy: 3:16pm On Dec 01, 2014 |
SpencerLewis:k |
Re: Should I Stop Her From Seeing 'pastors'? by Nobody: 5:28pm On Dec 01, 2014 |
SpencerLewis:I only tell one thing to people like you. 'God is the one you are talking to. Let him prove Himself to you like He did to me.' Let Him grant you the mercy of revealing Himself to you. |
Re: Should I Stop Her From Seeing 'pastors'? by Evanscoth(f): 5:52pm On Dec 01, 2014 |
Tallesty1: Bad ass nigga commenting....................................... Poster which is your denomination. You have to start with being the church type before you can regulate the kind of church or "gods of men" your wife visit. You are the head/breadwinner of this very young marriage, please be so in everything including spiritual modelling of your family least you stand the risk of what you wife is already nuturing. Even your extended family and your kids won't be left out of the damage. Fake pastors are home breakers shitt! Please stop her ASAP and save her psyche |
Re: Should I Stop Her From Seeing 'pastors'? by christemmbassey(m): 6:00pm On Dec 01, 2014 |
Davidoff2000:my advice is that, you should accept Jesus ,srtart studying d bible with ur wife. '' An you shall know the truth, and the truth shall make you free'' -Jesus Christ jn32:8. Pastors, especially the mischievous lots called prophets are satan?s hirelings and according to jn10:10 their work is to steal, kill and destroy. Only Jesus can save. God bless u, ur life is in ur hands. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Stop Her From Seeing 'pastors'? by hmnnn: 6:49pm On Dec 01, 2014 |
@ OP, i'm impressed at the level of sense you have with religious matters even when you are not so inclined (maybe God will use you one day ), trust me, you are well able to sniff trouble from far. I am born again but can tell you, you are judging the matter very correctly. You may not stop her from going to church all together but you should stop her from doing private consultations with prophets and all....it can bring more confusion and problems and like someone here had opined, the unthinkable might just happen. Nothing wrong in seeking spiritual intervention but it also has to be controlled or it may go out of hand. I know women usually fret when they are yet to have children (mine took me to go do test just after 3months of marriage even though i was a virgin till wedding night) but you are the one in-charge, rule your home. You guys should pray together on the matter and she can be attending church normally and special programmes in your church but should stop private consultations for now. When you notice she can have a hold on herself, then she can see a pastor with you being present, not privately again for now |
Re: Should I Stop Her From Seeing 'pastors'? by Sunshinelady(f): 10:22pm On Dec 01, 2014 |
nnaemeka38:. Tank u |
Re: Should I Stop Her From Seeing 'pastors'? by mutter(f): 10:30pm On Dec 01, 2014 |
You can`t stop her from seeing a pastor. As long as she believes she will keep going. The sad thing is that even when she has a baby, it will be something else. This kind of situation can tear families apart. IT can also bring lifelong enemity. Mothers being branded as witches and so on. I personally will have nothing to do with anyone who is on this kind of trip. |
Re: Should I Stop Her From Seeing 'pastors'? by Nobody: 10:43pm On Dec 01, 2014 |
holatin:I should rephrase the statement,you can be educated and "still " be unexposed.Is like comparing two persons someone been locked up at home and not allowed to mix up with people around and the other person doing the contrary,in which both are educated. |
Re: Should I Stop Her From Seeing 'pastors'? by holatin(m): 6:31am On Dec 02, 2014 |
BiggyB242:I understand what you mean, am only trying to understand the context (YOU). ANYWAY TANX |
Re: Should I Stop Her From Seeing 'pastors'? by Tvegas(m): 9:49am On Dec 02, 2014 |
Tallesty1: Classic, Epic .......... . Poster don't joke with this comment. |
Re: Should I Stop Her From Seeing 'pastors'? by Nobody: 12:15pm On Dec 02, 2014 |
holatin:Oh sorry I wasn't referring you . |
Re: Should I Stop Her From Seeing 'pastors'? by holatin(m): 12:21pm On Dec 02, 2014 |
BiggyB242:k sir |
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