I Was reading a friends article about single
mum only
to bump into an ugly comment made by a
guy about single mothers. In his update, he
outrightly hurled insults/highly disrespected
single mothers. This he did with no remorse
whatsoever, honestly, the minute i saw it, i
said to myself
Heck! Seems this guy is not in his right
senses,
SMH seriously,How many nigerian parents,
map out time out from their busy schedule
to teach their wards, all about sex
education? Most parents shy away from this
topic because they feel, it is wrong and
embarrassing. They ignorantly shy away
from this, thereby failing to understand that,
failure to teach their wards the basics of
sex education , the society will do so for
them, and the outcome will likely not be
nice.many young ladies are single mothers
today, not because its what they want, but
because its where they find themselves. Its
what they are saddled with! Its really
disheartening when, you find noodles
embedded in a skull instead of brain cells. I
find it nauseating, irritating, disgusting and
outrightly unpardonable, when someone who
has supposedly been to the four walls of a
classroom, publicly yells at the top of his
lungs, telling whoever cares to listen, that
single mothers are whores and their kids
will certainly turn out to be hoodlums and
magnified prostitutes just like their mothers.
Excuse me, who the hell are you to make
such an ill comments?
The fact that a lady is a single mother,
does'nt in anyway make her awhore. She
chose to have that child rather than murder
her baby. She chose to damn the society
and maturedly face the consequencesof
indulging in unprotected sex.some of these
single mothers are rape victims who,
against all odds, still had a magnanimous
heart to give their baby a chance to live and
not terminate it simply because the baby is
a result of rape. Some single mothers are
victims of marriages that hit the rocks. They
had to walk out of their seemingly abusive
marriage for their own sanity and safety. the
society will not hesitate to tell a woman in
an abusive marriage, to stay put and risk
her life, and not bite more than she can
chew by walking out of her abusive
marriage.well a woman who boldly walks
out, does this and becomes a single mother
because she knows that, if she dies in the
abusive marriage, the society will bid her
dust-to-dust and eat to their fill at her
funeral.hence, she boldly walks out, looks
the society in the eyeand says,"i'd rather
choke on greatness with my sanity and my
precious life intact, than nibble on
mediocrisy""for crying out loud, there
abounds a million and one reasons why
single mothers are what they are today.
BUT one undisputable fact is;single mothers
don't joke with their kids. Just like every
mother, they will gladly take bullets for their
kids. They will gladly starve to see their kids
eat to their fill. They will walk to hell and
back if that's what it takes for them to see
to it that, their kids attains great heights in
life. Now tell me, how can a man who
happens to be totally clueless about what
being a woman entails,.have the temerity to
conclude that "single mothers are whores
and their kids will end up as miscreants and
whores"please, dear overtly excited men
with extremly itchy thumbs, before you
make updates, with the intension
of casting aspersions on the opposite
gender, it will be a great idea ifyou connect
your fingers to your brain.I'm not short
tempered,I only have a quick reaction to
bullsh!t· Seriously Mr, i love shopping but
heck, there's no way in hell i'm buying your
bullshit for the hell of it! Stop losing sleep
over, what the kids of single mothers will
turn out to be. Its non of your damn
business. Heck!
As for the single mothers out there, never
let what people says or talk at your back
get to you, it's better to be a single mother
than to be murderer. Train that child well
and give that child a brighter future. He or
she might become the next president
tomorrow. The Lord is your strength.

there is only one word for them HYPOCRITES

.............

.

jovialmum:
I Was reading a friends article about single
mum only
to bump into an ugly comment made by a
guy about single mothers. In his update, he
outrightly hurled insults/highly disrespected
single mothers. This he did with no remorse
whatsoever, honestly, the minute i saw it, i
said to myself
Heck! Seems this guy is not in his right
senses,
SMH seriously,How many nigerian parents,
map out time out from their busy schedule
to teach their wards, all about sex
education? Most parents shy away from this
topic because they feel, it is wrong and
embarrassing. They ignorantly shy away
from this, thereby failing to understand that,
failure to teach their wards the basics of
sex education , the society will do so for
them, and the outcome will likely not be
nice.many young ladies are single mothers
today, not because its what they want, but
because its where they find themselves. Its
what they are saddled with! Its really
disheartening when, you find noodles
embedded in a skull instead of brain cells. I
find it nauseating, irritating, disgusting and
outrightly unpardonable, when someone who
has supposedly been to the four walls of a
classroom, publicly yells at the top of his
lungs, telling whoever cares to listen, that
single mothers are whores and their kids
will certainly turn out to be hoodlums and
magnified prostitutes just like their mothers.
Excuse me, who the hell are you to make
such an ill comments?
The fact that a lady is a single mother,
does'nt in anyway make her awhore. She
chose to have that child rather than murder
her baby. She chose to damn the society
and maturedly face the consequencesof
indulging in unprotected sex.some of these
single mothers are rape victims who,
against all odds, still had a magnanimous
heart to give their baby a chance to live and
not terminate it simply because the baby is
a result of rape. Some single mothers are
victims of marriages that hit the rocks. They
had to walk out of their seemingly abusive
marriage for their own sanity and safety. the
society will not hesitate to tell a woman in
an abusive marriage, to stay put and risk
her life, and not bite more than she can
chew by walking out of her abusive
marriage.well a woman who boldly walks
out, does this and becomes a single mother
because she knows that, if she dies in the
abusive marriage, the society will bid her
dust-to-dust and eat to their fill at her
funeral.hence, she boldly walks out, looks
the society in the eyeand says,"i'd rather
choke on greatness with my sanity and my
precious life intact, than nibble on
mediocrisy""for crying out loud, there
abounds a million and one reasons why
single mothers are what they are today.
BUT one undisputable fact is;single mothers
don't joke with their kids. Just like every
mother, they will gladly take bullets for their
kids. They will gladly starve to see their kids
eat to their fill. They will walk to hell and
back if that's what it takes for them to see
to it that, their kids attains great heights in
life. Now tell me, how can a man who
happens to be totally clueless about what
being a woman entails,.have the temerity to
conclude that "single mothers are whores
and their kids will end up as miscreants and
whores"please, dear overtly excited men
with extremly itchy thumbs, before you
make updates, with the intension
of casting aspersions on the opposite
gender, it will be a great idea ifyou connect
your fingers to your brain.I'm not short
tempered,I only have a quick reaction to
bullsh!t· Seriously Mr, i love shopping but
heck, there's no way in hell i'm buying your
bullshit for the hell of it! Stop losing sleep
over, what the kids of single mothers will
turn out to be. Its non of your damn
business. Heck!
As for the single mothers out there, never
let what people says or talk at your back
get to you, it's better to be a single mother
than to be murderer. Train that child well
and give that child a brighter future. He or
she might become the next president
tomorrow. The Lord is your strength.

yawns to long..can't read this

hmmmmm I don't know.
maybe because some single mum Ve unplanned for child.
Reason y a man is a security for woman.

From the single mothers I have met, hmmm

No comment..

They are sexually adventurous which is cool but the presence of the baby makes them unattractive to suitors.

But why is it men that have side chicks are called cheaters and dogs?

na them GO beg them for sex when others are not looking

ghost1718:
na them GO beg them for sex when others are not looking

You dnt know dat for a fact.

I wnt 2 meet a single mum 4 a serious rlationshp b4 i can comment.
Xperience is d best teachr

jovialmum:
I Was reading a friends article about single
mum only
to bump into an ugly comment made by a
guy about single mothers. In his update, he
outrightly hurled insults/highly disrespected
single mothers. This he did with no remorse
whatsoever, honestly, the minute i saw it, i
said to myself
Heck! Seems this guy is not in his right
senses,
SMH seriously,How many nigerian parents,
map out time out from their busy schedule
to teach their wards, all about sex
education? Most parents shy away from this
topic because they feel, it is wrong and
embarrassing. They ignorantly shy away
from this, thereby failing to understand that,
failure to teach their wards the basics of
sex education , the society will do so for
them, and the outcome will likely not be
nice.many young ladies are single mothers
today, not because its what they want, but
because its where they find themselves. Its
what they are saddled with! Its really
disheartening when, you find noodles
embedded in a skull instead of brain cells. I
find it nauseating, irritating, disgusting and
outrightly unpardonable, when someone who
has supposedly been to the four walls of a
classroom, publicly yells at the top of his
lungs, telling whoever cares to listen, that
single mothers are whores and their kids
will certainly turn out to be hoodlums and
magnified prostitutes just like their mothers.
Excuse me, who the hell are you to make
such an ill comments?
The fact that a lady is a single mother,
does'nt in anyway make her awhore. She
chose to have that child rather than murder
her baby. She chose to damn the society
and maturedly face the consequencesof
indulging in unprotected sex.some of these
single mothers are rape victims who,
against all odds, still had a magnanimous
heart to give their baby a chance to live and
not terminate it simply because the baby is
a result of rape. Some single mothers are
victims of marriages that hit the rocks. They
had to walk out of their seemingly abusive
marriage for their own sanity and safety. the
society will not hesitate to tell a woman in
an abusive marriage, to stay put and risk
her life, and not bite more than she can
chew by walking out of her abusive
marriage.well a woman who boldly walks
out, does this and becomes a single mother
because she knows that, if she dies in the
abusive marriage, the society will bid her
dust-to-dust and eat to their fill at her
funeral.hence, she boldly walks out, looks
the society in the eyeand says,"i'd rather
choke on greatness with my sanity and my
precious life intact, than nibble on
mediocrisy""for crying out loud, there
abounds a million and one reasons why
single mothers are what they are today.
BUT one undisputable fact is;single mothers
don't joke with their kids. Just like every
mother, they will gladly take bullets for their
kids. They will gladly starve to see their kids
eat to their fill. They will walk to hell and
back if that's what it takes for them to see
to it that, their kids attains great heights in
life. Now tell me, how can a man who
happens to be totally clueless about what
being a woman entails,.have the temerity to
conclude that "single mothers are whores
and their kids will end up as miscreants and
whores"please, dear overtly excited men
with extremly itchy thumbs, before you
make updates, with the intension
of casting aspersions on the opposite
gender, it will be a great idea ifyou connect
your fingers to your brain.I'm not short
tempered,I only have a quick reaction to
bullsh!t· Seriously Mr, i love shopping but
heck, there's no way in hell i'm buying your
bullshit for the hell of it! Stop losing sleep
over, what the kids of single mothers will
turn out to be. Its non of your damn
business. Heck!
As for the single mothers out there, never
let what people says or talk at your back
get to you, it's better to be a single mother
than to be murderer. Train that child well
and give that child a brighter future. He or
she might become the next president
tomorrow. The Lord is your strength.

i feel your pain,are you a single mum?

Then what are they before?? Mitcheww

jovialmum:
I Was reading a friends article about single
mum only
to bump into an ugly comment made by a
guy about single mothers. In his update, he
outrightly hurled insults/highly disrespected
single mothers. This he did with no remorse
whatsoever, honestly, the minute i saw it, i
said to myself
Heck! Seems this guy is not in his right
senses,
SMH seriously,How many nigerian parents,
map out time out from their busy schedule
to teach their wards, all about sex
education? Most parents shy away from this
topic because they feel, it is wrong and
embarrassing. They ignorantly shy away
from this, thereby failing to understand that,
failure to teach their wards the basics of
sex education , the society will do so for
them, and the outcome will likely not be
nice.many young ladies are single mothers
today, not because its what they want, but
because its where they find themselves. Its
what they are saddled with! Its really
disheartening when, you find noodles
embedded in a skull instead of brain cells. I
find it nauseating, irritating, disgusting and
outrightly unpardonable, when someone who
has supposedly been to the four walls of a
classroom, publicly yells at the top of his
lungs, telling whoever cares to listen, that
single mothers are whores and their kids
will certainly turn out to be hoodlums and
magnified prostitutes just like their mothers.
Excuse me, who the hell are you to make
such an ill comments?
The fact that a lady is a single mother,
does'nt in anyway make her awhore. She
chose to have that child rather than murder
her baby. She chose to damn the society
and maturedly face the consequencesof
indulging in unprotected sex.some of these
single mothers are rape victims who,
against all odds, still had a magnanimous
heart to give their baby a chance to live and
not terminate it simply because the baby is
a result of rape. Some single mothers are
victims of marriages that hit the rocks. They
had to walk out of their seemingly abusive
marriage for their own sanity and safety. the
society will not hesitate to tell a woman in
an abusive marriage, to stay put and risk
her life, and not bite more than she can
chew by walking out of her abusive
marriage.well a woman who boldly walks
out, does this and becomes a single mother
because she knows that, if she dies in the
abusive marriage, the society will bid her
dust-to-dust and eat to their fill at her
funeral.hence, she boldly walks out, looks
the society in the eyeand says,"i'd rather
choke on greatness with my sanity and my
precious life intact, than nibble on
mediocrisy""for crying out loud, there
abounds a million and one reasons why
single mothers are what they are today.
BUT one undisputable fact is;single mothers
don't joke with their kids. Just like every
mother, they will gladly take bullets for their
kids. They will gladly starve to see their kids
eat to their fill. They will walk to hell and
back if that's what it takes for them to see
to it that, their kids attains great heights in
life. Now tell me, how can a man who
happens to be totally clueless about what
being a woman entails,.have the temerity to
conclude that "single mothers are whores
and their kids will end up as miscreants and
whores"please, dear overtly excited men
with extremly itchy thumbs, before you
make updates, with the intension
of casting aspersions on the opposite
gender, it will be a great idea ifyou connect
your fingers to your brain.I'm not short
tempered,I only have a quick reaction to
bullsh!t· Seriously Mr, i love shopping but
heck, there's no way in hell i'm buying your
bullshit for the hell of it! Stop losing sleep
over, what the kids of single mothers will
turn out to be. Its non of your damn
business. Heck!
As for the single mothers out there, never
let what people says or talk at your back
get to you, it's better to be a single mother
than to be murderer. Train that child well
and give that child a brighter future. He or
she might become the next president
tomorrow. The Lord is your strength.

long story for the gods... a LovePeddler is a LovePeddler...

kristina1:

You dnt know dat for a fact.

is like ur one OF them

AJ01:
Then what are they before?? Mitcheww

Guy 4 ur mind now u dey my head abii...

Get dis chic wey b single mum wit 3 kids frm diff. Fada, abeg watin she be? I guess Nun

If it's Single Mother na olosho

menix:


Guy 4 ur mind now u dey my head abii...

Get dis chic wey b single mum wit 3 kids frm diff. Fada, abeg watin she be? I guess Nun

no mind all this people wey dey like give BAD tin GOOD name..

Single moms are mothers of abandoned children.
so before getting preggy, a lady should know its going to be her responsibility alone if the guy was in just for the Se.x
And yes Every lady knows if she is wanted for just Se.x or not. They just can't get enough of the Badboy/Jerk/Player, hoping being good in bed would keep him (meanwhile there's this set if nice guys she be Friendzoning)

The simple reason is because they have result for d igbongi dey did and d result of d igbongi makes it look like dey are wayward. However, the ones without results are sometimes worse because dey can go to any length to conceal or even eliminate the reult of d igbongi dey have done.

Lies... I grew up with my mum alone. We all turn out to be good children.

Am damn proud of my mum.

@ op,thank u fr a brilliant and well thought out piece.It warms my heart when women speak up against the serveral injustices plagueing our kind.Female bashing has become the norm and rather than protest,we pretend to "not hear" wats all around us.Its even more dishearthening to know dat d loudest name callers and bashers are the same men who'd chase anything in skirt,old or young,married or single,sowing their wild oats with reckless abandon!these same nitwits and iiddioots would readily go on a 30 day dry fasting and prayer seession just to marry a VIRGIN!!!..its laughable.Tnk u fr making my day.

Too long so I read 10lines only.
No blame on their mothers is just that these nowadays girls dnt listen to advice on sex education but if a girl have the courage to born the baby she's a good woman. It's just that most(all) of them are poor.

that Nigerian mentality. .....but then some single moms na ashana dem b o....