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Am I Overthinking Things: Is He Just Being Friendly? by NaNaYaaah(f): 7:07pm On Dec 03, 2014
Hey guys smiley..theres a guy at church thats kinda confusing me right now. In my church; men and women aint allowed to socialise.
I had this guy on facebook and we chat der until he asked for my number so i gave him.
He phones everyday and i dont pick up coz i honestly dunno what we will talk about.
he now chats me on watsap tellin me i make his day and make him smile when i say "whatever".
We chat everyday now and i know the policy of the church..and i dont wanna break the rules..
Im just confused..do yall think theres more to it or im just being hyper for nothing? smiley
Re: Am I Overthinking Things: Is He Just Being Friendly? by chibwike(m): 7:09pm On Dec 03, 2014
Make i first iceberylin comment jor



dont your church encourage marriage

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Re: Am I Overthinking Things: Is He Just Being Friendly? by iceberylin(m): 7:09pm On Dec 03, 2014
What kind of useless church is that angry
Re: Am I Overthinking Things: Is He Just Being Friendly? by holatin(m): 7:10pm On Dec 03, 2014
He likes you but he is shy
Do you like him ?
what da church policy ?

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Re: Am I Overthinking Things: Is He Just Being Friendly? by kilokeys(m): 7:11pm On Dec 03, 2014
just flow.. what would Jesus do?

should the church stiffle your social life?

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Re: Am I Overthinking Things: Is He Just Being Friendly? by iceberylin(m): 7:11pm On Dec 03, 2014
chibwike:
Make i first iceberylin comment jor
Too bad grin
Re: Am I Overthinking Things: Is He Just Being Friendly? by iceberylin(m): 7:11pm On Dec 03, 2014
Re: Am I Overthinking Things: Is He Just Being Friendly? by chibwike(m): 7:12pm On Dec 03, 2014
iceberylin:

Too bad grin
Now worry..i don modify
Re: Am I Overthinking Things: Is He Just Being Friendly? by iceberylin(m): 7:13pm On Dec 03, 2014
chibwike:
Now worry..i don modify
For ya small mind abi angry

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Re: Am I Overthinking Things: Is He Just Being Friendly? by NaNaYaaah(f): 7:16pm On Dec 03, 2014
Awww yall not helping sad
Re: Am I Overthinking Things: Is He Just Being Friendly? by Anwasia(m): 7:19pm On Dec 03, 2014
Both you and your church are not serious
Re: Am I Overthinking Things: Is He Just Being Friendly? by Tallesty1(m): 7:23pm On Dec 03, 2014
That moment when a guy who hasn't asked you out is already getting you wet.

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Re: Am I Overthinking Things: Is He Just Being Friendly? by jashar(f): 7:23pm On Dec 03, 2014
Mbok OP; explain clearly what you mean by,'my church doesn't allow us to socialise' to avoid ambiguity.
From there, let's see how it'll roll.

smiley
Re: Am I Overthinking Things: Is He Just Being Friendly? by MisterLongman(m): 7:23pm On Dec 03, 2014
NaNaYaaah:
Awww yall not helping sad
Rules are meant to be broken....... Especially if they are church rules

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Re: Am I Overthinking Things: Is He Just Being Friendly? by Nobody: 7:35pm On Dec 03, 2014
first of all what is the name of your church??
furthermore, are there married people in your church?
Re: Am I Overthinking Things: Is He Just Being Friendly? by NaNaYaaah(f): 7:38pm On Dec 03, 2014
jashar:
Mbok OP; explain clearly what you mean by,'my church doesn't allow us to socialise' to avoid ambiguity.
From there, let's see how it'll roll.

smiley
theres something called holy distance smiley..
We dont want no fallin in love and lust b4 marriage
Re: Am I Overthinking Things: Is He Just Being Friendly? by spiralwedge(m): 7:44pm On Dec 03, 2014
what is d name of ur church? simple question
Re: Am I Overthinking Things: Is He Just Being Friendly? by micki83(m): 8:02pm On Dec 03, 2014
Tallesty1:
That moment when a guy who hasn't asked you out is already getting you wet.
Hahaha! You're badder than bad! grin
Re: Am I Overthinking Things: Is He Just Being Friendly? by IamLEGEND1: 8:08pm On Dec 03, 2014
holy distance? d tin get as e be.

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Re: Am I Overthinking Things: Is He Just Being Friendly? by IamLEGEND1: 8:11pm On Dec 03, 2014
holy distance? d tin get as e be.




and u said u chat with him everyday on whatsapp and yet u won't pick his calls bcoz u wrongly assumed that there was nothing for u guys to talk about ? is something wrong with u
































i smell cold feet or over the top infatuation

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Re: Am I Overthinking Things: Is He Just Being Friendly? by Nobody: 8:58pm On Dec 03, 2014
He might jux be friendly,let him ask u out first,you can alwaz say no.

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Re: Am I Overthinking Things: Is He Just Being Friendly? by resocorp: 9:16pm On Dec 03, 2014
.....the way some people follow some rules to the letter baffles me

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Re: Am I Overthinking Things: Is He Just Being Friendly? by kennyman20(m): 9:48pm On Dec 03, 2014
The name of the church is holy distance before marriage and lust avoidance evangelical mission

I knw that church wella.. Op, are u not the gal that interpreted last sunday?

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Re: Am I Overthinking Things: Is He Just Being Friendly? by kennyman20(m): 9:53pm On Dec 03, 2014
op.. U can lie ooo.. Say something else joor.. Abi, u done maga the guy.. Check op picture.. Is that dressing of urs holy enough to be doing holy distance?

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Re: Am I Overthinking Things: Is He Just Being Friendly? by okabe(m): 10:06pm On Dec 03, 2014
Op, r u a LEARNER!!!!
Re: Am I Overthinking Things: Is He Just Being Friendly? by NaNaYaaah(f): 10:30pm On Dec 03, 2014
kennyman20:
op.. U can lie ooo.. Say something else joor.. Abi, u done maga the guy.. Check op picture.. Is that dressing of urs holy enough to be doing holy distance?
I find nothing wrong wit wat im wearin...its summer...
I dont dress like dat to church...plus at my church..girls are usually seated on da ryt and men at the left
cant bliv u judge a person by what they wear...im pretty decent sir
Re: Am I Overthinking Things: Is He Just Being Friendly? by NaNaYaaah(f): 10:31pm On Dec 03, 2014
okabe:
Op, r u a LEARNER!!!!
Yea..im a student smiley
Re: Am I Overthinking Things: Is He Just Being Friendly? by chimerase2: 11:05pm On Dec 03, 2014
*shiiits on thread and zoooooooooom offf*
Re: Am I Overthinking Things: Is He Just Being Friendly? by kennyman20(m): 11:09pm On Dec 03, 2014
NaNaYaaah:

Yea..im a student smiley

op, am sure they must have also lectured u in church to dress like an old woman so as to avoid men falling in love with u till when u're ready but you refused to give ears to that sermon cos u see how harmful it'll be for you.

Op, use that sytle too to ignore the lecture of holy distance and do ur thing with ur guy.. Op, i swear down! Ask ur pastor how he met his wife.. Op, when u go to church.. U'll be taught all manner of things but na u go use ur frnd take d one wey suit u and ignore the one wey no suit u.. Op, imagine ur pastor asking u to bring all ur salary for the next six months say God needs it.. Be honest.. Would u give it to him? What am trying to tell u is to use ur brain

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Re: Am I Overthinking Things: Is He Just Being Friendly? by okabe(m): 1:07am On Dec 04, 2014
NaNaYaaah:

Yea..im a student smiley
undecidedin dat case, na only u waka come o grin
Re: Am I Overthinking Things: Is He Just Being Friendly? by Harmvirus(f): 1:19am On Dec 04, 2014
what is the name of this church undecided

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