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20 Unmistakable Signs Your Friend Is Crushing On You by britneykyute(f): 11:03am On Dec 11, 2014
As much as we can read a good friend like a
book,
sometimes things get pretty unpredictable when
love
enters the equation.
Have you ever felt like a friend who was just a
friend has
more than just friends on their mind?
As hard as it can be to decipher the subtle and
secret
kind of love that exists when infatuation enters
the
picture, there are always a few clear and
obvious signs
that friends give away when they’re crushing on
you.
And all you have to do is just watch the way
they behave
around you, to notice these obvious signs!
20 clear signs your friend is crushing on you
Has your friend suddenly started to act weird
around you,
are they texting you more or even avoiding you
in public?
Have they suddenly started to care more about
their
appearance or who you’re romantically involved
with?
If the answer is yes to any of the above, then
there is a
good chance that your friend is crushing on
you.
But if you want to know for certain if your friend
is
crushing on you or not, then have a look at
these telltale
signs and find out for yourself!
#1 They need to get a booster on their phone
contract. A big sign that your friend is crushing
on you is
a sudden influx of texts from them. Have they
started to
text you multiple times throughout the day, for
no real
reason other than just to catch up?
Do you often wake up to a text from them, or
do they text
you to say goodnight? Do you often get texts
from them
when they are on a night out with their own
friends? If
your friend can’t stop thinking about you or
tries to get in
touch with you even when they’re busy having
fun, it’s a
very good sign that you’re running circles on
their mind!
#2 They seem to have discovered what styling
products are for. One of the easiest ways to tell
if your
friend is crushing on you is if they have
suddenly started
to make a big effort with their appearance,
especially if
they only make that effort when they know you
will be
there.
Take a look at their Facebook page and find
pictures
taken when you were not around, have they
made the
same effort? If the answer is no, then that could
be a
pretty big clue to whether they are trying to
impress you
or not.
#3 They always have their eyes on you. Have
you
noticed your friend staring at you often? If you
have, then
this is a clear indication of a crush, unless you
have food
around your mouth, that is.
You might find as well that whenever you look
at them,
they drop their gaze on you and look elsewhere.
This
embarrassing look-away shows they have an
interest in
you in more than just a friendly way.
#4 They could stop traffic with their face. Have
you
noticed your friend blushing when you talk to
them? Do
they often go red faced whenever they spend
time with
you or you are talked about? If they do, then
they
obviously have a crush on you, why else would
they be
getting so bashful?
#5 They have suddenly become a world class
comedian. Has your friend started to tease you
a lot? Do
they often make fun of you and point out silly
mistakes
that you have made, while at the same time,
never
hurting your feelings? This is the most common
sign of
attraction.
#6 They avoid you in public. Has your friend
suddenly
started to keep their distance from you, when
you are out
with friends? And when you are alone with
them, do they
behave in an overfriendly manner again? This
could be a
sign that they don’t want their friends to be
aware of the
fact that they have a crush on you.
#7 They treat your love life like a celebrity
magazine.
Has your friend unexpectedly started to take an
interest
in your love life? Do they want to know
everything that is
going on, like whom you like and who likes you?
Do they
ever show signs of being jealous when you talk
about
people you like? If they do, then you most
definitely have
a crush on your hands.
#8 They could win a game of don’t blink. Has
your
friend started to make more eye contact with
you than
usual? Do they listen intently to what you have
to say,
without dropping their gaze?
Do you find them trying to make eye contact
with you
when you’re across the room from each other?
If the
answer is yes, then the least this means is that
they
really like you.
#9 They have turned into your mirror. Have you
noticed your friend mirroring your body
language? A
common sign of attraction is imitation, and
people often
mirror those they are attracted to, without even
realizing
they are doing it.
So if your friend has started to mirror your
behaviour or
the words you use all of a sudden, then it could
be that
they are attracted to you.
#10 They like to introduce you to new things.
When
people have an attraction to another person,
they often
want to share details about their life with them.
They
want to share new things, in the hopes that the
one they
are attracted to, will pick them out above the
rest.
So if your friend has started sharing more about
their life
with you, then it could be an indicator that
*worst case
scenario* they want to be good friends or way
more!
#11 They like to surprise you. Does your friend
like to
surprise you with little treats or gifts? Do they
often stop
by your favorite pastry shop, to pick something
up for
you? Do they constantly recommend songs and
books
that you might like? Do they seem to go out of
their way
to please you? If they do, then you know there
must be a
reason behind it.
#12 They are available whenever you are. Does
your
friend show up to everything you invite them
to? And at
other times, has this friend always tried to
support you or
stand by you even when there’s no need for it?
If they
have a crush on you, then they will want to
spend as
much time as possible with you, so they will
always make
time to come to anything you have arranged.
#13 They speak highly about you to their
friends.
Have you ever met any of their friends? Do they
seem to
know a lot about you? Do they seem to like you
straight
away? If the answer is yes, then it could be
because your
friend has been talking about you, and this
friend
wouldn’t have been talking about you unless
you were on
their mind.
#14 They compliment you even in unflattering
moments. Does your friend compliment you
when you’re
in your sweat pants, looking all ruffled and
tired? Do they
try to make you feel better when you are feeling
low?
Have they ever told you that you look good,
especially
after a breakup or a fight with your own lover?
Do they seem to go out of their way to pick
something
nice to say to you? They wouldn’t be going
through all
that effort if they didn’t like you.
#15 They have gone all bashful. Has your friend
become shy around you? Do they seem to be
on edge
whenever you are left alone together? Have they
stopped laughing at jokes that at one point
would have
had them in creases?
If your friend has become abruptly shy around
you, or
overly chivalrous and dignified, then there will
be a
reason, the most probable one being that they
have
crush on you.
#16 They feel your pain. Does your friend get
angry or
upset when something affects you negatively?
Do they
often want to hurt those who have hurt you?
Do you find
that, at times, your friend cares more about the
messy
situation you’re in, than you do? If the answer
is yes,
then they clearly care a lot about you, and that
could be
because of the crush they have on you.
#17 They go out of their way for you. Does your
friend
ever go above and beyond for you? Have they
ever done
things for you that clearly don’t fit within the
expectations
of a just-a-friend description? Do they often
take it upon
themselves to help you, even if it means that
they are
putting themselves out of their way for you? If
the answer
is yes, then they clearly have a crush on you.
#18 They are polite and considerate. Has your
friend
suddenly become really polite and considerate?
If the
answer is yes, then they might be trying to
impress you.
They wouldn’t be doing that unless they like
you more
than they are letting on.
#19 They laugh at all your jokes. Have you
suddenly
become the funniest person in the world to your
friend?
Do they laugh at jokes that even you know
suck? Your
friend may just be trying to hide the fact that
they have a
crush on you.
#20 A hug type of person. Has your friend
turned into a
hug monster? Have you noticed them touching
you more
than normal? Do they put themselves into close
proximity
to you, whenever they can? If they have a crush
on you,
but are too scared to tell you, then they might
try to reach
out for whatever closeness they can get from
you.
You might find that not all of these
unmistakable signs
are relevant to you. But even if you can pick out
four or
five of the signs in this list, there’s a good
chance that
your friend has a crush on you.
Re: 20 Unmistakable Signs Your Friend Is Crushing On You by Curiouscat: 11:09am On Dec 11, 2014
Re: 20 Unmistakable Signs Your Friend Is Crushing On You by dre11(m): 11:09am On Dec 11, 2014
Op
Can you do us a favour of arranging your points well so it would be easier to read

Would like to read but.. .......
Re: 20 Unmistakable Signs Your Friend Is Crushing On You by Chineduorizu(m): 11:21am On Dec 11, 2014
story for the gods......


girls can pretend to love u when they haven't even get to Knw u...BT when u fell into their tricks so called love u will find ur self in their friend zone list...they will only turn ur name into......
Re: 20 Unmistakable Signs Your Friend Is Crushing On You by Cholls(m): 11:31am On Dec 11, 2014
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Re: 20 Unmistakable Signs Your Friend Is Crushing On You by 3coins(m): 11:34am On Dec 11, 2014
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Re: 20 Unmistakable Signs Your Friend Is Crushing On You by Catalyst4real: 11:49am On Dec 11, 2014
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Re: 20 Unmistakable Signs Your Friend Is Crushing On You by Infomizer(m): 12:01pm On Dec 11, 2014
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Re: 20 Unmistakable Signs Your Friend Is Crushing On You by britneykyute(f): 12:10pm On Dec 11, 2014
Catalyst4real:
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