Good morning.

Have had this Experience before but it won't materialise for something concrete because of some personal differences and we good friend now.

But this happened to a friend, A normal tall goodlooking dude, An average nigerian B.sc holder without a job, we happened to be at a wedding sometimes early this year and immedietely we sat down gisting and waiting to be served! This pretty petite lady walked in,she sat close to my friend and as a sharp guy he did the normal chit chat which resulted to exchanging numbers.I was just looking at them and when they have gotten free enough he turned back to me trying to start a conversation and I was like mr man don't start this devour stuffs again O! This lady is pretty enough can u for God sake start something serious with her if she is single though and he nodded that the lady is actually his kinda lady.

After the party we were walking out and I drive a toyota camry tiny light then with killing A/C and we always form one boss whenever we going out in it lol, I guess he told her where she stay so we might drop her off on our way and the lady was like no no I bought my car,I was listening to their conversation and my friend just said okay let's walk u to your car before we go our seperate ways.I was introduced as the friend and we walked this lady to her car she bought out the keys to a range sport blue colour and shinning gracefully,my friend dint even stay long we jjust waved and moved to our own jalopy. He dint even bother calling her coxx he had this notion of different class.

After 2 days the lady in question called and told him he was expecting his good friend call and complained why he dint, the stupid fella just mubbled some silly excuse lol and fast forward they Got married last weekend in New jersey U.S.A.


Now to the question? Why do we always have this notion that when we meet a wealthy already established lady we either feel they might use the guy for ritual? Or boss over the dude because of their wealth or the dude just keep thinking of milking her dry because she is wealthy.Is it like their are no good responsible wealthy lady u can make friend with and genuinely love without the she is rich first thoughts everytime. They are human too and they have the right to fall inlove and be loved genuinly regardless of their wealth.


N:B don't quote me saying am looking for a rich lady to marry, I only gave testimony about my guys travails and I know una go still quote lol

That's 9ja mentality we don't do that here in caNada !!!!

Can you give me her pin.......Am over interested

OP, I'm very sure you've not been to a house where the man doesn't have a job(either as a result of losing the one he had, or his small establishment folded up), and it is the job of the woman to run the house. You will understand perfectly when you see such.
I know of a family of 6(parents and four kids), ever since the man lost his job, he's been reduced to a driver. A DRIVER op!!!
He doesn't even have a say on what his kids does anymore, let alone the wife.
There are some women that can handle such situation maturely, but it's 1 in every 140. Women are good followers, and not very good leaders(no pun intended) so it is your duty as a man to run your house, while she supports.
Every young, successful woman wants an even stronger, and more successful man she can look up to. The only ones that cries blue murder are the ones whose biological clock has started ticking, so they become desperate, and wants anything that calls himself a man.
I thank God for most Nigerian men(like yours truly) that would rather be single, than allow one woman to boss us around because she got some stacks of cash.
#GuardYourReputation
#WithYourLife

I can't have a thing with someone 15years my senior rich or not rich. I have had couple of them circling in the past.

I can't be a Pique to a Shakira.

holatin:
Can you give me her pin.......Am over interested

D7E8F9 .... That's her pin

Op, why not sell this script to Nollywood? Am sure it will fetch you some handsome fortune.

Extom:
OP, I'm very sure you've not been to a house where the man doesn't have a job(either as a result of losing the one he had, or his small establishment folded up), and it is the job of the woman to run the house. You will understand perfectly when you see such.
I know of a family of 6(parents and four kids), ever since the man lost his job, he's been reduced to a driver. A DRIVER op!!!
He doesn't even have a say on what his kids does anymore, let alone the wife.
There are some women that can handle such situation maturely, but it's 1 in every 140. Women are good followers, and not very good leaders(no pun intended) so it is your duty as a man to run your house, while she supports.
Every young, successful woman wants an even stronger, and more successful man she can look up to. The only ones that cries blue murder are the ones whose biological clock has started ticking, so they become desperate, and wants anything that calls himself a man.
I thank God for most Nigerian men(like yours truly) that would rather be single, than allow one woman to boss us around because she got some stacks of cash.
#GuardYourReputation
#WithYourLife

Couldn't have said it any better.

Im not convinced.

If she is as rich as Oprah Winfrey who cares..as long as she knows her place as a woman that is fine by me.

Wittylens:


D7E8F9 .... That's her pin

e no complete now

The love no dey sweet

[quote author=Extom post=28835168]OP, I'm very sure you've not been to a house where the man doesn't have a job(either as a result of losing the one he had, or his small establishment folded up), and it is the job of the woman to run the house. You will understand perfectly when you see such.
I know of a family of 6(parents and four kids), ever since the man lost his job, he's been reduced to a driver. A DRIVER op!!!
He doesn't even have a say on what his kids does anymore, let alone the wife]


Lol I understand u bro, am never talking about a wife been wealthy for long! A wife might be wealthy and help a man with a large capital and a responsibble man can get rich himself with that! But yes I knw some wealthy ladies are vulgar in wealth but not all, moreover not all guys can depend on a ladies wealth in survivor,all I meant is true love regardless of the ladies wealth

kristina1:
Im not convinced.

Lol..

There is no problem with this as long as I'm not just kept in her home and being fed and clothed by her. Soon after we start hanging out, I will make her realize that I need a lucrative job, which I know she can use her family's influence to get me.

For me, if I meet a lady of that nature, its normal for a sensible guy to withdraw just like the guy in question did or else, he may be taken for gold digger. So for me, his initial attitude is not bad. I don't like to be tagged 'a gold digger'

Even if she's 30 and i'm 20 and she's VERY wealthy, i'll roll with her till she goes bankrupt

Me way no dey ever attend weddings self.

Okay !