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Re: Sad Marital Tales From My Friend by veave(f): 12:23am On Dec 25, 2014 |
aameyah: He said that? And she is still there asking for advice? Hmmmmn. 1 Like |
Re: Sad Marital Tales From My Friend by Nobody: 2:11am On Dec 25, 2014 |
EfemenaXY:Ll Efe you are fighting a losing battle here. Nigerian men's attitude towards women and marriage is stomach turning. 2 Likes |
Re: Sad Marital Tales From My Friend by Nobody: 2:21am On Dec 25, 2014 |
aameyah: Abeg leave this your friend she is very silly, what is the enjoyment inn being a victim. She is really starting to piss me off what is hiolding her there sef, no kids, abject misery ah ah kilode gan! Maybe she gets off on being treated extremely shabbily. Sometimes you have to gather your strenght and wits about you and do the needful instead of talking up and down. there comes a time that you have to just be strong and take decisions regarding your own life!. Tell her to take control of her life 2 Likes |
Re: Sad Marital Tales From My Friend by smartigo: 4:09am On Dec 25, 2014 |
byvan:Had to quote you. God bless u jare. Some women n fish brain,very irrational being. A man had defined himself openly,yet you live n endure shit. 2 Likes |
Re: Sad Marital Tales From My Friend by bukatyne(f): 7:40am On Dec 25, 2014 |
smartigo: Beauty of a 'Nigerian' marriage Merry Christmas 2 Likes |
Re: Sad Marital Tales From My Friend by smartigo: 8:12am On Dec 25, 2014 |
bukatyne: Thank you ma. Same to you n ur family. |
Re: Sad Marital Tales From My Friend by YourCoffin: 9:28am On Dec 25, 2014 |
aameyah: Both are broken and both are not connecting with each other emotionally. The fact that the man can have an erection suggests no physical health complications but a deep rooted psychological one that in a large extent can reduce his sperm's fertility rate. The wife at the moment is too preoccupied with her own fertility issue not to have any accomodation for his, hence his resentment of her. The resentment even hightens whenever she mechanically pressures him for sex because by doing that she is only reminding him of his problem. Trust me, if he's been having sex with numerous girls as he claims and doesn't want her anymore, he wouldn't even be attempting to have sex with her. What's the point in doing that? I don't normally advice married women because I can't claim to full empathize with them. But I'll suggest your friend attempts to connect emotionally with her husband or find someone who can. This's someone who asked you for her number and went further marry her ten years later while visiting her in the hospital before that. No man would that if he doesn't have good intentions towards the woman. |
Re: Sad Marital Tales From My Friend by Nobody: 1:38pm On Dec 25, 2014 |
smartigo: Even men aren't innocent of the fish brain thing, they compete quite favorably with women in that department. God bless you and compliments of the season . |
Re: Sad Marital Tales From My Friend by smartigo: 1:55pm On Dec 25, 2014 |
byvan: I like your sense of humour. Thanks and amen. Compliments too. 1 Like |
Re: Sad Marital Tales From My Friend by bily(m): 7:23am On Oct 19, 2015 |
This thread is quite old, nevertheless it was interesting going through the comments. Just wondering why it never occurred to anyone that the husband may be a closet gay. I have come across this type of scenario before. The signs are quite glaring. He won't allow the wife touch him, he finds it difficult to get an erection except he watches porn and even at that he goes limb once he is inside are. Hmm. These signs seems obvious to me. Anyways wish your friend the best. 3 Likes |
Re: Sad Marital Tales From My Friend by Nobody: 8:11pm On Oct 19, 2015 |
aameyah i see you viewing, how did it end? |
Re: Sad Marital Tales From My Friend by aameyah(f): 9:02pm On Oct 19, 2015 |
MrsOJ They are still together. She hasn't told me a lot recently. But when she talks about the period that inspired this mail, she refers to it as "that time when they were having issues". I take that to mean things have improved...but she is still TTC. |
Re: Sad Marital Tales From My Friend by Nobody: 6:25am On Oct 20, 2015 |
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Re: Sad Marital Tales From My Friend by Nobody: 6:26am On Oct 20, 2015 |
aameyah: Good news then, wishing her marital bliss. |
Re: Sad Marital Tales From My Friend by micxwell(m): 4:22pm On Aug 29, 2021 |
aameyah:How is this your friend doing now? Hope she's fine and with kids too? Life and it's challenges! It is well. |
Re: Sad Marital Tales From My Friend by MufasaLion: 7:03pm On Aug 29, 2021 |
micxwell: Marriage is just a scary shit. |
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