Why course the darkness when you can light the candle. Seek the services of a professional matchmaker. And pray. Attend programmes in church. You will be amazed at the result u will get.

macdon4all:
most times na we dey use our own hand cause problem for ourselves,tomorrow now we go dey cry no husband

lol am nt confessn anytin bt am just saying dat if i dnt get married b4 30,i wont kill my sef or deprive my sef of joy because its compulsory as a naija woman 2 marry

Lady Michael. Na agent u be? U go get dinner usual 10% when its done. Send a private mail of her pix and number to akagod666@yahoo.com

WildChild00:



You are right..
Marry Xmas to u!

merry xmas to u too.

haibe:
But u will be having se.x right? with who?

am nt answering dis

people are asking if she's pretty or of she's nice. the most important thing to ask is if she puts herself out there to be noticed. does she go out, does she mingle with friends , does she take good care of herself. there's no way people will "toast" her if she does not make herself available.

at least twice a week it is advisable that she goes out to places where the kind of person she feels she needs in her life might also frequent. you can't. help someone who has made no effort to help themselves

Debeloved87:
hello...I can befriend her if she likes and got the cash too ...she could even be my baby mama.its not compulsory to marry..08189567951

If the 87 in your username implies you were born in 1987, then its a shame...

temitemi1:
She should be prayerful, there is nothing GOD can't do...

instead of u to give a good advise u ar saying she shud pray and wait for another 35 years. because the person u ar telling her to pray to does nt exist..

contact me i will be willing to give in

ladymichael:
I really need advise from especially the men
My colleague is gonna be 35 in a few months and is not married or even have toasters. She has reached a point where she doesn't even think about it.
She says she sometimes asks herself on why she's still single and concludes that maybe she's not supposed to ever marry.
I really feel sorry for her but don't know how to advise her.
Please what could be the issue? Abd how to I advise her?

single men between the ages of 34 and 45 are very few oooo
and tend to be very selective especially if they have it all

Introductions could do the trick
just make sure she is not hooked up time wasters while at the same time ensuring that she doesnt com across as viciously desperate for marriage

...by the way, you shouldn't feel sorry for someone because of husband issue. Marriage is not everything

I can toast her. Hope she's a nice person tho.

ladymichael:


No dear, she's really nice and calm. Always keep to her self.

In the 2 years I have known her,have never had an issue with her

Doesnt mean she relates same with other people especially guys. Strange guys approaching her. #JustSayingThough.

ladymichael:
I really need advise from especially the men

My colleague is gonna be 35 in a few months and is not married or even have toasters. She has reached a point where she doesn't even think about it.
She says she sometimes asks herself on why she's still single and concludes that maybe she's not supposed to ever marry.

I really feel sorry for her but don't know how to advise her.

Please what could be the issue? Abd how to I advise her?

She got big yansh

ladymichael:
I really need advise from especially the men

My colleague is gonna be 35 in a few months and is not married or even have toasters. She has reached a point where she doesn't even think about it.
She says she sometimes asks herself on why she's still single and concludes that maybe she's not supposed to ever marry.

I really feel sorry for her but don't know how to advise her.

Please what could be the issue? Abd how to I advise her?

she has a church abi, she shud meet her pastors 4 prayers and also meet her marriage committee members 4 counselling, she shud also attend any singles program in her church or outside her church, she wil definitely find d will of God.

Rxpetite:

so you have met the lady in question? cos op never said anything about yanga

she doesnt nid to mention dah
I'm also a lady and i knw aw we do yanga

ladymichael:


No dear, she's really nice and calm. Always keep to her self.

In the 2 years I have known her,have never had an issue with her

u said 2years...dt means she was 33years den..she go don caim down by dt time
had it been u knew her durin her 20's,I 4 gree..anyways,if she's a muslim,tell her to join any societal grp..b it Mss,tmc,nasfat,anyone....and she shld dress well,neatly and also b punctual/involve hersef in progs she attends
One day..One broda will hook her up 4 a Masinah(2nd wife),and if she's lucky she mite c a single broda though its rare cin such at dt Age

sawdust:


neighbour,pls slow down

lol.v heard u

tosag:
We should stop all these childish talk. Somebody is seeking for advice, if we dont have anything to contribute just chill, read and learn.

ok boss

Cheadiva:
she doesnt nid to mention dah
I'm also a lady and i knw aw we do yanga

so all unmarried people are single because they were doing 'yanga'?

ladymichael:
I really need advise from especially the men

My colleague is gonna be 35 in a few months and is not married or even have toasters. She has reached a point where she doesn't even think about it.
She says she sometimes asks herself on why she's still single and concludes that maybe she's not supposed to ever marry.

I really feel sorry for her but don't know how to advise her.

Please what could be the issue? Abd how to I advise her?

honestly,i would love to meet her..

KAYCEEJUNIOR:
insult you? hmmmmm, when next you raise a topic never raise the dust, we all marry based on choice and I believe you have yours, you brought up an issue and I felt we can solve it based on the choice of wife I can easily influence him with, you are here talking about tribalism, since she's your. collegue, you can refer her to your friends then if she worth it. Happy xmas

U need 2 take a chill pill bro, the OP's response 2 u wasnt in any way insulting,you read a wrong meaning to it. If you had taken d time 2 read her response you will understand.

Send her picture let seeSend her picture let seeSend her picture let see

My simpl advice 4 u is 2 seek d face of d lord almighty by fasting n praying. Just b sinsere wit urself, act Godly, bliev in God n ur answer is sure.
REMEMBER, God tym is d Best

Vry easy, encourage her to pray all the time,bt it wil b easy 2 convince her if u also pray vry well. Then snd her contacts and let guys start disturbin her,she may develop frndshp wit one.

KAYCEEJUNIOR:
insult you? hmmmmm, when next you raise a topic never raise the dust, we all marry based on choice and I believe you have yours, you brought up an issue and I felt we can solve it based on the choice of wife I can easily influence him with, you are here talking about tribalism, since she's your. collegue, you can refer her to your friends then if she worth it. Happy xmas

You are just being harsh and unreasonable... The op hasn't replied you wrongly to warrant all this your ranting... If only you can react harshly to this op that has done nothing wrong to you, then I suppose bad manners runs in your lineage and that's why your uncle isn't married at his age... Very funny...

justwise:
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No need for that, you haven't done or said anything wrong, you don't need to apologise to any backward thinking individual here

what is backward in what that guy said,you de find work,the owner of the work give una criteria to apply una de vex with am.you fit employ carpenter to do eye surgery for una?na wa o, simple 'call if she is ibo na in caause dis kin acrimony!

ladymichael:
I really need advise from especially the men

My colleague is gonna be 35 in a few months and is not married or even have toasters. She has reached a point where she doesn't even think about it.
She says she sometimes asks herself on why she's still single and concludes that maybe she's not supposed to ever marry.

I really feel sorry for her but don't know how to advise her.

Please what could be the issue? Abd how to I advise her?

if she really mean it and we are compatible medically I hope we need to hook for real deal

most of this girls don paint the town red before ..them don use husbands do boyfriend ...do yanga dey form fine girl forgetting say time dey go..when them come old finish them go come dey say people no dey toast em ...why will a guy toast 35 year old chick when there are younger blood out there .

justwise:
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No need for that, you haven't done or said anything wrong, you don't need to apologise to any backward thinking individual here

what is backward in what that guy said,you de find work,the owner of the work give una criteria to apply una de vex with am.you fit employ carpenter to do eye surgery for una?na wa o, simple 'call if she is ibo na in caause dis kin acrimony!is it you that will determine whate his uncle wants in a woman,no wonder she is single,when she wont give guys what they want,

Henrychris:
contact me i will be willing to give in

lol... You never see person for face you don dey put pic make dem contact you...

ROZZAYY:
U or ur colleague? Make we know b4 we talk.

rozzay dis is unlike u.even if she is d 1 jst drop ur advice nd make a fellow sister happy

ladymichael:



Was it? My apologies. Am deeply sorry.was just too surprised that at that age and in this era. one is still insisting on a certain tribe to marry.
My fiancee is calabar and am from a totally different tribe yet he has all that I want in a man so it puzzles me when I see people being tribalistic on marriage

Once again,my apologies

Ok.