hi house,my girl friend is in year one n i am out of the uni. now, some how m confortable,but my fear is i wld be shearing her financial responsibility as she is in school, by the time she must have graduated and she fines another person what is my fate, my simple question is this she rely heavily on me for financial assitance and am trying to live up to xpectation should i still go out with her or look 4 a working class girl like myself,thank you

watever happend to her parents?

@poster
U have been watching way too much nollywood movies
There is nothing wrong in helping you gf out, so what if it doesnt work out
In life u win some, u lose some

u've 4gotten dat most nollywood movies are true life stories, only d end no dey true sha

hehe. . .

tytylayor:

u've 4gotten that most nollywood movies are true life stories, only d end no dey true sha

Lol
Abegi, Most of them are fiction

how long will u keep running away from responsibility,

if u run away u will keep running, and besides it is not bad

to assist someone u claim to like financially,expecially

when it bothers on education,even if u dnt like her,dnt

think of the gain at the end,it is good to do good.

@moyo

whats funny, and what happend

didnt see your break light again

smooooooth:

how long will u keep running away from responsibility,

if u run away u will keep running, and besides it is bad

to assist someone u claim to like financially,expecially

when it bothers on education,even if u dnt like her,dnt

think of the gain at the end,it is good to do good.

@moyo

whats funny, and what happend

didnt see your break light again

oh no shes not his responsibility,they as far as i am concerned r not married,for all we care she mite also be dating smbody else

ever_green:

@poster
U have been watching way too much nollywood movies
There is nothing wrong in helping you girlfriend out, so what if it doesnt work out
In life u win some, u lose some

there is nothing wrong inn helping a girlfriend,but wat is wrong is d girl relying heavily on him for her financial need

How are we sure that the poster himself is not exaggerating
Persin wey spell sharing as shearing

smooooooth:

@moyo

whats funny, and what happend

didnt see your break light again

itz tytylayor. . .  

n wt break light?

ever_green:

How are we sure that the poster himself is not exaggerating
Persin wey spell sharing as shearing

hehe. . . c whuz talkin you dhat spelt fiction as friction nko

ever_green:

How are we sure that the poster himself is not exaggerating
Persin wey spell sharing as shearing

hes innocent until proven guilty


that is why i don't really support girls asking men for money,esp men that r not theirs legally,then they still have their stand,if a man wants to give u money or gifts,accept it,but don't be d "asker" always,men r not fools,for every character of a woman is recorded by men,and will be reviewed when he wants to finally settle down,because this men will surely use it against them,now take a look at d poster,if d girl in qstion should see this I'm very sure she will be very mad at him

@ poster

Don't date her

Moyola:

hehe. . . c whuz talkin you dhat spelt fiction as friction nko

huhuhuhuhuhu, i nor noe say u sef see am o

I am tired of all these ITK people here,i once had a serious quarrel over this spelling and grammar issue here on NL with someone who claimed to know all.

As for the post, please let her know you can't be fully responsible for her financial up keep.The feelings you have now is quite natural, cos i have seen it happen.Please thread softly and be wise

man dont date her

Does she not have parents? Poster, you can contribute a little bit, but you should not be her sole provider. You all are not married. Let her carry her own weight.

Just do what you need to do to help her and don't wait for her to pay back, cause everybody have to pay back whatever we do

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