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I Need Advice......please by mismore(f): 5:48pm On Dec 30, 2014 |
I have a brother, in his early twenties. He's in love with a girl and they are so much into each other but both parents(his & d girl's) are against their relationship because the girl is a xtian nd we are muslims. My parents believe it can't work and d girl's parents believe d same too. Its so hard for them to let go but moving on is hard. I love my brother so much and i hate to know he is unhappy but i just don't know what to do. The issue is really affecting him.... NLers, i need ur advice please.... should they let go? or is there any possible solution? Thanks in anticipation |
Re: I Need Advice......please by Bamz(m): 5:55pm On Dec 30, 2014 |
They should split. No sentiments when religion is involved. Christianity spurns it. 1 Like |
Re: I Need Advice......please by REB3L(m): 5:57pm On Dec 30, 2014 |
If they are so in love with each other, why can't one join the other's religion. |
Re: I Need Advice......please by Ploy(m): 5:57pm On Dec 30, 2014 |
He should let go. You can have a bad spouse but bad in-laws is lethal. They should let go patapata, love is blind but marriage na eye opener. |
Re: I Need Advice......please by Nobody: 5:58pm On Dec 30, 2014 |
FĂșck Religion. It's only been keeping ya on moral track since ages nothing more. 1 Like |
Re: I Need Advice......please by mismore(f): 5:59pm On Dec 30, 2014 |
Bamz: That's true but its hard...... he believes she's d one for him |
Re: I Need Advice......please by mismore(f): 6:01pm On Dec 30, 2014 |
REB3L: my parents are against it, same with hers |
Re: I Need Advice......please by mismore(f): 6:03pm On Dec 30, 2014 |
Ploy: True talk....thanks |
Re: I Need Advice......please by REB3L(m): 6:04pm On Dec 30, 2014 |
mismore:The only advisable thing to do,is for them to breakup,though it'll be hard,but its the best thing. There are 160 million + people in Nigeria,60% are females,he would surely find a soul mate. Or why don't they elope |
Re: I Need Advice......please by mismore(f): 6:06pm On Dec 30, 2014 |
TrollMan: Am happy with watever he decides but he' my only bro, i can't stand seeing him hurt... He loves her nd she also loves him... |
Re: I Need Advice......please by mismore(f): 6:08pm On Dec 30, 2014 |
REB3L: Hmmm...Elope u say? so u can be my new bro abi? |
Re: I Need Advice......please by major466(m): 6:09pm On Dec 30, 2014 |
Both should respect the wishes of their parents. |
Re: I Need Advice......please by REB3L(m): 6:10pm On Dec 30, 2014 |
mismore:Checks profile picture.....sure |
Re: I Need Advice......please by mismore(f): 6:10pm On Dec 30, 2014 |
Thanks for the comment so far |
Re: I Need Advice......please by mismore(f): 6:12pm On Dec 30, 2014 |
Re: I Need Advice......please by Bamz(m): 6:14pm On Dec 30, 2014 |
mismore: Like I said, I won't compromise someone's religion all in the name of love, unless I'm planning to convert them. |
Re: I Need Advice......please by MrPearce(m): 6:17pm On Dec 30, 2014 |
if they get married who will convert who to him or her own religion. it's better they split |
Re: I Need Advice......please by mismore(f): 6:20pm On Dec 30, 2014 |
Bamz: The parents won't let them. Thanks for d advice |
Re: I Need Advice......please by mismore(f): 6:21pm On Dec 30, 2014 |
MrPearce: We are muslims, d girl is a xtian |
Re: I Need Advice......please by Newkidoo(m): 6:27pm On Dec 30, 2014 |
Since both parents know what is happening.. There is a way u can act as the intermediary... Don't u watch India movies.. Sith both parents down and talk to them.. Make them understand why these two should be together.. Thank me later.. Btw, how old is your brother |
Re: I Need Advice......please by mismore(f): 6:31pm On Dec 30, 2014 |
Newkidoo: I can only talk to my parents cos i hardly see d girl in question but i like her....i wil try d intermediary thing. He's 22 nd would be graduating next yr |
Re: I Need Advice......please by Newkidoo(m): 6:34pm On Dec 30, 2014 |
mismore:Good.. That age is man enough.. Just do wat I said.. I believe you can change their hearts.. |
Re: I Need Advice......please by Chizzy20(f): 6:39pm On Dec 30, 2014 |
If both parents re nt ready to compromise i think its beta dey split cos dey nid d blessings of dier parents, nd if dey decide to elope which i dont advice it wont solve d issue unless d lady is ready to convert to d man's religion so it wont cause prob in d future. |
Re: I Need Advice......please by REB3L(m): 7:00pm On Dec 30, 2014 |
mismore:Yeah |
Re: I Need Advice......please by mismore(f): 7:16pm On Dec 30, 2014 |
Thank you all |
Re: I Need Advice......please by jerrymej(m): 11:44pm On Feb 16, 2015 |
Been happy with your spouse and at the same time not happy with your parents (in-laws) doesn't sounds good! I mean it's hard for both parents to compromise with this act! Life is too short, they earlier the decide to let go the better for them! Don't blame the parents though, because if am in the shoe of any (their parents) I wouldn't 've allowed it as well. |
Re: I Need Advice......please by Cutehector(m): 7:11am On Feb 17, 2015 |
All dis muslims and thr religious racism mindset. Well I support dr split up, d girl should knw dat d bible says be ye not equally yoked wit an unbeliever. |
Re: I Need Advice......please by RiffRaff: 7:25am On Feb 17, 2015 |
All lot of Nigerians are myopic and blinded by religion. How old is ur brother? For how long will he let ur parent control his life? Please tell him to stand his ground. He shouldnt leave a girl he loves so much just becuz sum piple are uncomfortable with it. The both of them have different religious background, they love each other & have been perfect together. Now some 3rd party are uncomfortable with it. Please its time ur brother and his Girlfriend stick togeda. Tell their parents it is who He/She wants or nobody else. People will come here and quote crap based on their selfish reasons but i will tell u this. Your parent have lived their own life, made their own choices as they deem fit. Its now ur brothers turn to live his. I grew up in a multi-religious home. Dad's a deep muslim, Alhaji for that matter. My Mum is also a christian. They have a wonderful marriage. Nigeria is such a retrogressive country, parents try to control d lives of grown ups & it is because of things like this that people end up leaving the one they love for somebody they will regret being with for the rest of their lives. |
Re: I Need Advice......please by mismore(f): 9:32am On Feb 17, 2015 |
Cutehector: why was it only the muslims you culd counter? christains nko? maybe u shld read my post one more time |
Re: I Need Advice......please by mismore(f): 9:35am On Feb 17, 2015 |
RiffRaff: I really appreciate your comment. Thanks! |
Re: I Need Advice......please by Nobody: 5:15pm On May 21, 2018 |
mismore:So wata d current situation? 1 Like |
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