donpeey22:
Babe but u f.uucked up sha. When I first read and replied your comment yesterday, I didn't look at your profile pic. I concluded that that must be a pretty lady talking. But I was so disappointed to open your profile only to be greeted by that sorry sight

Chizzy20:
nyc post, jst dat only few ladies re willin to help a guy build his future.

Blebleswag:

WHATEVER. Go get d paperz, dats wat matters.......nonsense

Akaewu:


hop dats not u on ur dp ??

Blebleswag:

WHATEVER. Go get d paperz, dats wat matters.......nonsense

Blebleswag:

WHATEVER. Go get d paperz, dats wat matters.......nonsense

Montaque:
I was shocked the day my colleague told me that she will prefer to marry a man that will be rich for 10years into the marriage even if they become poor after than to marry a starter whose future is undetermined. I had a rethink since then. Some girls are materialistic.

Zeezy99:
What's this husband scarcity thing? I've been seeing this articles for months now? Designed to make girls feel as if they are going to die single if they don't hold on to the next broke and unambitious guy that comes their way?

100Cents:
What pains me most is the kind of SHAKARA ladies do when you tell them you want to MARRY them, but if I were to be toasting her for GIRLFRIEND-NISM, you see the same girl smiling from ear to ear till she falls on the bed..
The same girls will still come out and say there is no husband. This brings me to this conclusion. An average Nigerian lady views a suitor as her mugu or office. She wants a man with that player instincts they refer to as being romantic who will first deceive her and sleep with her, then she will be at the mercy of his feelings whether to continue with her or dump her..
I'm sorry, I can't really help how girls reason..

Blebleswag:
Ermm.....
@op, dat na ur own u dey yan so, as I dey here so,
I dnt wnt 2 hear too much preach/sermon, go get d paperz, in any which way u can, buh dnt share human blood. Enough of all dis bla bla bla sermons.

Blebleswag:

Eiya! So sorry 4 d disappointment. Buh my boifrnd lik am like dat.

iamrealdeji:

And the funniest thing is that girls that are always looking for all those stuffs are average looking or unattractive girls that one would feel like "out of all these gorgeous young girls around how would a guy pick you are you going to use charm on a guy?" fine girl's are even too much in this 21st century that's why we men are supposed to be very picky

lefulefu:

true word
And when the husband no come and dem come dey old na so u go see dem dey troop go shiloh dey beg pastor make im give dem husband

iamrealdeji:

Abi o,by that time,they go come manage any man they see,as long as he's a male

frankmoney:
HUSBAND SCARCITY...a must read
This may not be the best time for me to write on
this because of misinterpretations, but I can no
longer resist the push. "Husband Scarcity" has
become one of the challenges faced by many
women today. If
you go to prayer houses,
majority of the intentions are prayer for a life
partner. And this calls for concern. Casting our
minds back to the time of our mothers and
grandmothers, was there really much of a
"Husband Scarcity" problem? Or, maybe there
were more men than women then, or there was
an adequate corresponding numbers of both
genders. I don't think so. Maybe then, the
women
had values and were prepared to build a home
and not park into a built home. Then, once a
young man comes of age and can at least feed
himself and his wife, he goes out in search of a
wife and the woman really appreciates him and
helps him to build a future.
What am I really trying to insinuate? We created
what we now see as
"Husband Scarcity"
for ourselves. Today, the reverse is the case. Ask
an average girl to define her dream husband;
you
get things like "he has to be tall, handsome, fair,
and rich, own a house at least, and be
presentable" and then she adds "God fearing" in
order not to sound so worldly. Then, check the
number of girls around you and the number of
men that meet that standard, and you will see
the problem.
You would be hearing girls say, "I cannot suffer
in my father's
house and then go and start suffering with a
man." What a
wonderful dream! What if from the beginning, you
have
everything you want and there is no suffering,
and later in the
marriage, the table turns around, then comes
suffering? Will
you run away? No one prays for suffering, but it
is good to start
small and end big, than start big and end small.
The problem is
that the description majority of ladies give of
their ideal man is
virtually the same. When 50 ladies want the
same kind of man
and the man that fits what they want is just 1
man, and the
man can only pick one. Then, what becomes of
49 others?
They simply start
lamenting of "Husband Scarcity".
Another irony of our time is that it is hard, due
to the face of
our economy to find a man who is of marriage
age who
possesses all those things
these ladies want, legally (except those involved
in Internet
fraud); even the number of those in Internet fraud
is not
enough to match all those searching for already
made
husbands. If you look around, majority of the
ladies of
substance, of good value and virtue, who are
ready to build a
home with a man who has prospects, are
married and not
complaining of
husband scarcity. The easiest way to find a
husband now, is to
change your view of who a husband is. A
husband is that man
God made and then saw that it may be hard for
man to really
actualize the purpose for making him, without a
help mate and
then made the woman and gave to him, and he
felt complete
and fulfilled. MARRIAGE IS NOT A POVERTY
ALLEVIATION
PROGRAM. It is a
mission of building the family that will serve God
here on
earth.
For those who see marriage as a way out of
poverty, it is a way
into bondage.
Women are
HOME BUILDERS, not HOME WARMERS... DON'T
CONFUSE A
MAN'S PATH WITH HIS DESTINY.
Where he is today, may only be a route to where
God has
destined him to be tomorrow. Another truth is
that YOU MAY
BE THE ONLY FAST MEANS TO THAT HIS
DESTINATION. Join in
alleviating "husband scarcity". PICK UP THE
RIGHT VALUES.
I am not saying that you should pick anyone that
comes your
way and talks of marriage, not all men are
husband materials.
What I am insinuating is that you should stop
setting your
standard on material acquisitions or physical
appearances.
Look metaphysical (beyond physical).
WHAT MAKES A MAN IS WHO HE IS, IS NOT
WHAT HE OWNS OR
HOW HE LOOKS, IT IS WHAT HE IS MADE UP OF.
And that
which he is made of is, most times, not seen
with the
physical eyes, only its effects can be seen.
Marriage is a permanent thing. Whatever is seen
is temporal
and that which is not seen is
permanent. Relax and go to God in prayer.
God did not just make Eve for making sake; He
made her for
Adam's need.

Zeezy99:
What's this husband scarcity thing? I've been seeing this articles for months now? Designed to make girls feel as if they are going to die single if they don't hold on to the next broke and unambitious guy that comes their way?

ifynairaland:
The name Blebleswag got me laughing. Its enough to show how ignorant you are. I'm sure your real name is Blessing. Go upgrade your IQ.

Blebleswag:

WHATEVER. Go get d paperz, dats wat matters.......nonsense

lrguru:


How many papers have u got?

Mcbussy:



Lolz....who dash her papers?

U no see her profile?....lowlife that's looking for ushering/waitress job

She come put modelling again...nah her type dey model?

Welrez:

Back to top: OP, the reason why this social concept is becoming more pronounced is partly due to monogamy. Our ancestors operated on polygamic times and never encountered it. There was no rampant prostitution too. It is a bitter truth that we have to admit.

lrguru:
don't mind the ugly girl. Even with her make-up enhanced face, she still look like a scare-crow. Men don suffer sha

Blebleswag:

WHATEVER. Go get d paperz, dats wat matters.......nonsense

aristocrazzy:
Hmmm! It means husband material are more scarce than wife material.
So girls no dey form anyhow.

smartg:

did is d exact answer I've waiting for

idu1:
I swear with amadioha. U don't ve a boyfriend.

Blebleswag:

Lol
It will kill u soon, cos u ve lied.
'U broke motherfucker'

Chizzy20:
its me any prob?