1
Don't try to attract every woman, try to
attract her. Stop dressing and acting like
you're hot stuff. You know the guy: the one
that looks like he just stepped out from
doing his test shots with a cheesy modeling
agency, the one who gives The Look to
every hot girl that walks by. Don't be that
guy. Yes, women are initially attracted to
this. But eventually they think that you're
more interested in attracting women in
general, instead of attracting them .
Don't dress overly flashy and try to
focus on wearing things that you know
she likes, rather than trying to think
about looking how you think women
like.
You should similarly save the flirting
and close conversations for her and not
use them with other women.
2
Take care of your body. Taking care of
yourself shows her that you can also take
care of her, if she ever wants to be taken
care of. Practice good hygiene and exercise.
You don't need to worry about losing
weight, but you should feel healthy and in
shape. Similarly, eat a healthy diet!
3
Dress like you mean business. Dressing
poorly by wearing clothes that don't fit or
have stains or holes show a woman that
you don't respect yourself (which doesn't
work in your favor!). Dressing in clothes
that are out of date (too old fashioned),
usually shows that you are mentally stuck
in that time and cannot move forward. In
order to show a woman that her heart is
safe with you, dress in modern clothes that
look good on your body, fit, and are clean.
4
Smell great. Women love someone who
smells great. Shower regularly, use
deodorant, brush your teeth, and you might
even want to consider using a cologne or
body spray. Citrus scents usually make for
a clean scent that isn't overpowering, so
they are a good place to start if you're not
sure.
5
Be confident. Confidence is sexy to
everyone! Show her how confident you are
by taking initiative, never talking poorly of
yourself, and speaking up for yourself (with
other people too, not just around her).
6. Be yourself. Remember: you are at your
best when you are yourself. If a woman
truly loves you, she will love you for who
you are. When we act like someone we are
not, sooner or later we're not able to keep
it up. Even if she would have loved you for
who you really are, if she finds out you were
faking she will feel lied to and may not love
you anymore.
Being yourself also helps you maintain
your own happiness!

7. Respect her and everyone else. You
probably know that you should respect her
in order to win her heart (if you didn't, now
you know!), but remember that it's also
important to respect other people too.
She'll always worry, if she sees you treating
others poorly, if you'll treat her just as bad
if she does something that makes you
unhappy or does something else "wrong".
Respect her and others by allowing
them to speak and be heard,
acknowledging their opinions, never
belittling them or treating them as
anything other than your equal, never
lie to them, and never saying cruel
things about or to them. Basically, be
nice and polite!

8. Be passionate. You should be passionate in
your relationship but you should also be
passionate in your life. Being around
someone passionate helps us to be more
passionate and engaged in our own life, so
we are naturally drawn to people like this
and want them in our life more. Be
passionate in your life by exploring and
celebrating the things that make you happy
and unique, without worrying about what
others think.

9. Bring the fun! Similarly to how we look for
passionate people in our lives, we also like
being with someone who makes our life
more fun. If you can bring the fun into her
life by finding great things to do and new
avenues to explore, then she'll be
completely in love.

10. Prioritize like a pro. Women have it a bit
harder in life than guys. Most social
systems put women at a disadvantage
(they make less money than men, for
example), and so they need a life partner
that can help them in life, not make things
even harder. If you want to win her heart,
show her you're not going to be a burden.
Have a strong work ethic, help her out
when you can, and show her that you value
her over other women.
One good way to show her that she is
your number one priority is to not be
bashful about letting people know that
she's with you and that you love her!
Another way to show her that she is
your priority is to make sure that you
actually spend time with her! Don't
make her feel guilty about taking up
your time and show her how much fun
you're having while you're with her.
Be financially stable and maintain a
job. It doesn't have to be a good one.
Women will overlook a bad paycheck if
they know they can rely on you and
don't have to worry about what you do
with that paycheck.
11. Give unexpected, targeted gifts. Yes, gifts
are a good way to win a woman's heart,
but not just any gift will do. Gifts should
show that you care and that you specifically
care for her. You don't want to give a gift
that could be just as nice for your ex-
girlfriend or your sister. Give a gift that is
significant to her.
Try giving her something in her favorite
color, something she said she wanted or
needed, or (best of all) something that
reminds you of significant moments
that you've had together or inside jokes
that you share.

12. Ask her for advice and take it. Women, like
anyone, want to feel useful. They want to
feel like they serve a purpose, especially to
people that they care about. Let her be and
feel useful by asking her for advice about
problems that you have in your life.
Importantly, you should take her advice and
let her see that you've taken her advice.

13. Really know her. Know her for who she
really is, not just who you want her to be or
the face that she puts on for everyday life.
Talk to her about things that matter and
find ways to show her that you get her. For
example, buy tickets to a play that you
don't care about but that you know she
really wants to see.

PART 2[b]PART 2[/b]PART 2

1
Become a great person to talk to. Women
love someone that they can really talk to in
a significant way. Someone they can talk to
and have it feel natural and not awkward.
Be that person and her heart is yours.
2
Be a fun date. You want to be someone
that's fun to date. Don't just sit around,
complain the whole time, or make her make
all the decisions. Be active in the things
you do together and help her to have a
great time.
3
Master making out . Good kissing skills,
while not the most important, are certainly
important enough that you'll want to
consider working on your skills. Remember,
practice makes perfect!
4
Learn how to turn her on . Be good at
knowing how to stoke her fires. This shows
her how much you care about her own
pleasure, not just your own! Pay attention
to what makes her feel good and spend
more time focusing on her.
5
Cultivate your sense of humor . Everyone
loves to laugh, so show her that you can
bring laughter and joy to her life by
learning how to make her laugh better and
more often. Avoid the cheap shots at others
expense in favor of clever comments, as this
type of humor tends to appeal to women
more.

@Irguru wah exactly r u doin? lolz

lrguru:
please ı need your help
.
am cooking SPAGHETTI right now i have put
-sugar,
-palm oil
-TOP MILK
-okro
- bitter leaf and egg ....
.
What should I add again...?

sorry sir I don't know how to cook ur food, I can only cook ELEPHANT GRASS WITH ENGINE OIL.

if a gal doesn't lyk u, she doesn't lyk u noni yen. 4get all this gibberish list that r circulating.

I don't see anything i didn't already know in most of the lists you guys keep bringing up.

Make una reinvent na

Make una dey waste una youthful years dey attract ladies o...

lrguru:
please ı need your help
.
am cooking SPAGHETTI right now i have put
-sugar,
-palm oil
-TOP MILK
-okro
- bitter leaf and egg ....
.
What should I add again...?

Oya cut small yam. Strong abuja yam o.

Tymax:

Oya cut small yam. Strong abuja yam o.

ok, what else?

Afrok:
sorry sir I don't know how to cook ur food, I can only cook ELEPHANT GRASS WITH ENGINE OIL.

u are not a good chef, I need someone who can cook

lrguru:
please ı need your help
.
am cooking SPAGHETTI right now i have put
-sugar,
-palm oil
-TOP MILK
-okro
- bitter leaf and egg ....
.
What should I add again...?

add salad cream, corn flakes, golden morn and farrow's.

Princecalm:
add salad cream, corn flakes, golden morn and farrow's.

someone advised I added beans, but I thought I would be a bad idea. Thanks bro, u too sabi

Nigerian Ladies are excluded if Money is not included. Period!!

#yawn# abeg summary

lrguru:
please ı need your help
.
am cooking SPAGHETTI right now i have put
-sugar,
-palm oil
-TOP MILK
-okro
- bitter leaf and egg ....
.
What should I add again...?

Add codeine n weed

smackimorn:


Add codeine n weed

bros, like ur first name na BADmus

Forget This Gibberish... How To Win A Lady's Heart 101~BE YOURSELF.. In Spain we say Ser Uno Mismo

Rodriquez:
Forget This Gibberish... How To Win A Lady's Heart 101~BE YOURSELF.. In Spain we say Ser Uno Mismo

u look like a criminal tormenting My area... no joke....

benedictjohn:
u look like a criminal tormenting Mr ibu....

Excuse me sir, You Seem Confused

Rodriquez:
Excuse me sir, You Seem Confused

are u employed? PM me if u aint gat any... u need to take alot of milk...

All this long stories just to win a lady's heart?

Just be yourself jare .

benedictjohn:
are u employed? PM me if u aint gat any... u need to take alot of milk...

I don't exchange words with Incompetent People.. What's the basis of your Insults.. Grow Up and Stop Throwing Insults With No Reason.. Mtcheww..

Rodriquez:
I don't exchange words with Incompetent People.. What's the basis of your Insults.. Grow Up and Stop Throwing Insults With No Reason.. Mtcheww..

dont tk it personal... jst giving u a formal welcoming as a nairalander....

benedictjohn:
dont tk it personal... jst giving u a formal welcoming as a nairalander....

si.. graças amigo.. I totally understand.. But I'm not new on nairaland. This moniker is...

Rodriquez:
si.. graças amigo.. I totally understand.. But I'm not new on nairaland. This moniker is...

aiit cool

Who got chicken sauce here.?