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Re: It Is Proper To Have Sex During Fasting Period? by robosky02(m): 5:11pm On Jan 06, 2015 |
faithfulwife: hmmmmmmmmmmmmm urs faithfully ok |
Re: It Is Proper To Have Sex During Fasting Period? by lilmax(m): 5:41pm On Jan 06, 2015 |
You guys are giving yourselves unnecessary stress |
Re: It Is Proper To Have Sex During Fasting Period? by Nobody: 6:10pm On Jan 06, 2015 |
thorpido: Please clearly state that this is your personal views and the views of your church probably and not what the bible states. The bible is crystal clear, it states clearly that only by mutual consent do you deny each other of se-x and it shouldn't be for too long. The churches should not ruin marriages with their own doctrines. If you both decide to fast and pray it must be by mutual consent and not one partners decision. Don't make overzealous wives start binding and casting Hot husbands as na we sabi do pass when it comes to religion. You want to do 100 days fasting if the man or the wife no gree better give them oh, dont deny your spouse ponmo for 3 months except both of you agree 1st Corinthians 7 Now concerning the things whereof ye wrote unto me: It is good for a man not to touch a woman. 2 Nevertheless, to avoid fornication, let every man have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband. 3 Let the husband render unto the wife due benevolence: and likewise also the wife unto the husband. 4 The wife hath not power of her own body, but the husband: and likewise also the husband hath not power of his own body, but the wife. 5 Defraud ye not one the other, except it be with consent for a time, that ye may give yourselves to fasting and prayer; and come together again, that Satan tempt you not for your incontinency. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: It Is Proper To Have Sex During Fasting Period? by Nobody: 6:17pm On Jan 06, 2015 |
Too many hypcrites on this thread. Hypocrites and liars that given the same situation and circumstances, they will have sex. I hate hypocrites. To me I dont think its wrong once you have broken the fast for the day. 1 Like |
Re: It Is Proper To Have Sex During Fasting Period? by thorpido(m): 6:47pm On Jan 06, 2015 |
aisha2:Sister Aisha,perhaps you were in a rush before quoting me. There is nowhere in my post that i said it's a decision one person takes in a marriage.I believe couples should be of one mind concerning spiritual matters.It is expected that the fasting should be by mutual consent. I never stated otherwise in my post. |
Re: It Is Proper To Have Sex During Fasting Period? by Nobody: 6:50pm On Jan 06, 2015 |
thorpido: Then state it clearly all you said was it was wrong to have Se-x during fasting which was not true. Its not wrong especially for fasting long like the ones in redeemed you mentioned. 100 days is too long the bible said only for a short while. If both of them agree its good if one gets held by conji he or she shouldn't be seen as less spiritual 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: It Is Proper To Have Sex During Fasting Period? by thorpido(m): 6:55pm On Jan 06, 2015 |
aisha2:if a couple is fasting,they obviously wouldn't be having sex at that time.The choice of how long-how many days is subject to other factors,like mutual agreement,spiritual leadership and instruction they both follow e.t.c. Couples will have intercourse when they break their fast.Those who mutually decide to prolong it can do so.I believe when you break fast to eat,you can also 'replenish' the body. 1 Like |
Re: It Is Proper To Have Sex During Fasting Period? by bukatyne(f): 7:04pm On Jan 06, 2015 |
thorpido: I think the mix up is What is classified as the duration of the fast: Taking the last year fast as an example, the duration can be the 100days or 6 - 6pm they fast daily. |
Re: It Is Proper To Have Sex During Fasting Period? by Nobody: 7:14pm On Jan 06, 2015 |
thorpido: Spiritual instructions from who? Abeg that has been subjected to abuse too much. Christains should take instructions from the bible and the bible is clear on this 2 Likes |
Re: It Is Proper To Have Sex During Fasting Period? by thorpido(m): 7:15pm On Jan 06, 2015 |
bukatyne:If they fast 6-6pm,then they can make love in the night.if the fasting is a 100days,I don't expect them not to touch each other at all throughout except dem be G.O. If however they decide on a 3day fast or even one week of total abstinence,then they are welcome(by mutual consent). |
Re: It Is Proper To Have Sex During Fasting Period? by bukatyne(f): 7:17pm On Jan 06, 2015 |
thorpido: True 1 Like |
Re: It Is Proper To Have Sex During Fasting Period? by thorpido(m): 7:23pm On Jan 06, 2015 |
aisha2:There is always someone who is the spiritual head.It could be the husband(or the wife),a pastor,a fellowship leader etc.It depends on who you choose to make your spiritual leader but someone takes responsibility for spiritual direction/mentorship in an individual's life or couple.I know we have the Holy Spirit but the bible also says we should not forsake the assembly of the brethren. I understand many people(I guess you inclusive),have a lot of issues with pastors(especially Nigerian pastors).The truth remains that spiritual mentorship cannot be discarded. 1 Like |
Re: It Is Proper To Have Sex During Fasting Period? by BABE3: 7:27pm On Jan 06, 2015 |
aisha2: Fasting isn't focused of foods alone, is it? Fasting involves depriving yourself of pleasure (foods, chatty friends, gossip, Facebook, Nairaland, etc), to have a deeper contection with God and hear from him. Those things I mentioned aren't bad, but they are forms of pleasure/distraction, and so is sèx. Having sèx duing the period of fasting itself (eg, 6am to 6pm), is counterproductive. Coz I don't think it's possible to hear from God when you're under the sheets. Little or no sèx isn't an option (for a couple that's serious about fasting). It's a requirement. 2 Likes |
Re: It Is Proper To Have Sex During Fasting Period? by Nobody: 7:33pm On Jan 06, 2015 |
thorpido: When its abused it MUST be discarded the only instructions to follow are from the bible as it is no dilution. BABE3: Lets speak strictly from the bible abeg and not to pull out things from places. If you feel this way its your choice dont pass it on as Christain law when it isn't 3 Likes |
Re: It Is Proper To Have Sex During Fasting Period? by thorpido(m): 7:37pm On Jan 06, 2015 |
aisha2:You said abuse.Abuse means something is useful but it is taking to the extreme. So you at least agree that it is useful. |
Re: It Is Proper To Have Sex During Fasting Period? by Nobody: 7:40pm On Jan 06, 2015 |
thorpido: The bible is clear, its simple and concise no need to twist and turn it. I won't even go into back and forth with you on the abuse issue. Pass your personal views as personal one not as Christain views when thats not what the bible says |
Re: It Is Proper To Have Sex During Fasting Period? by BABE3: 7:40pm On Jan 06, 2015 |
aisha2: if we were to always go strictly by the bible, you know it's Christian sin for women to speak in churches or for them to be leaders... ....and I can list many other "sins" that you and I will consider barbaric. What does fasting mean ? aisha2: Now that's a huge lie. |
Re: It Is Proper To Have Sex During Fasting Period? by Nobody: 7:41pm On Jan 06, 2015 |
BABE3: Again and lastly when a question is asked either state its your personal view or quote directly from the bible without twisting. Too many follow Christains being decieved twist it anyhow but don't pass your views as biblical views 1 Like |
Re: It Is Proper To Have Sex During Fasting Period? by BABE3: 7:45pm On Jan 06, 2015 |
aisha2: no one is twisting anything. Fasting involves self denial. Fasting is depriving yourself pleasure for a greater good. Is sèx pleasurable or not?? |
Re: It Is Proper To Have Sex During Fasting Period? by bukatyne(f): 7:50pm On Jan 06, 2015 |
BABE3: No sex is not a requirement for the duration of the sex. It depends on mutual agreement. Pastor Babe, 2015 is a good year |
Re: It Is Proper To Have Sex During Fasting Period? by BABE3: 7:58pm On Jan 06, 2015 |
bukatyne: pastor ke? that's why I said "little or no sèx". The point of fasting is harnessing all of your energy and putting it on God by cancelling out noises (food, sèx etc). I mean, is the couple gonna die without sèx for 40 days? |
Re: It Is Proper To Have Sex During Fasting Period? by bukatyne(f): 8:08pm On Jan 06, 2015 |
BABE3: Considering that you and C are the champions of sex, sex and more sex in marriage, I find your views strange. But again, when we have a bias against a poster, we read What we want to read and not What the person actually posted. 40 days is a lot for couples who are not sick. That's 1/9th of a year. Throw in periods and not in tbe mood and that's a whole lot. Happy new year 1 Like |
Re: It Is Proper To Have Sex During Fasting Period? by thorpido(m): 8:08pm On Jan 06, 2015 |
aisha2:Aisha2.There's nothing you have said and I have said that is not within the confines of scripture. 'Remember your leaders,who spoke the word of God to you,consider the outcome of their way of life and imitate their faith(Hebrews 13:7)'.The bible speaks of leaders in Church. It's not my personal view,it's scripture. |
Re: It Is Proper To Have Sex During Fasting Period? by MamaDDD: 8:51pm On Jan 06, 2015 |
During the 70 days of MFM fasting, my husband and i can make love after he d breaking of his fast till 11:59pm but once it is 12am no show again till he breaks his fast again. 2 Likes |
Re: It Is Proper To Have Sex During Fasting Period? by thorpido(m): 9:00pm On Jan 06, 2015 |
MamaDDD:This is the practical fasting among married couples I speak about. 3 Likes |
Re: It Is Proper To Have Sex During Fasting Period? by oyebodeibukun(f): 7:33am On Jan 07, 2015 |
Well what ihave to say is in RCCG newly wedded are exempted from the fasting cos they willl need time to enjoy each other cooking make love and so many other things.but I'm not rily in support of fasting and having sex.cos fasting is depriving urself fromeverything that give the flesh pleasure. |
Re: It Is Proper To Have Sex During Fasting Period? by robosky02(m): 8:55am On Jan 07, 2015 |
this is getting seriouse oh MOD pls move this to the front page so justice can be done. thanks |
Re: It Is Proper To Have Sex During Fasting Period? by robosky02(m): 9:25am On Jan 07, 2015 |
faithfulwife: 1 Like |
Re: It Is Proper To Have Sex During Fasting Period? by dollarlander: 9:27am On Jan 07, 2015 |
robosky02: In the 100days RCCG fasting and prayers 2014, newly married couples were exempted. |
Re: It Is Proper To Have Sex During Fasting Period? by GlorifiedTunde(m): 9:27am On Jan 07, 2015 |
Re: It Is Proper To Have Sex During Fasting Period? by ireneony(f): 9:27am On Jan 07, 2015 |
robosky02:are you the one on your dp |
Re: It Is Proper To Have Sex During Fasting Period? by watchindelta(m): 9:28am On Jan 07, 2015 |
u be witch? sex nah food! |
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