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Re: It Is Proper To Have Sex During Fasting Period? by peteruuu(m): 10:41am On Jan 07, 2015 |
loomer: ALL IZZ WELL 1 Like |
Re: It Is Proper To Have Sex During Fasting Period? by Bibol(f): 10:43am On Jan 07, 2015 |
ireneony: Yea I know all about that and I avoid that section. I still believe we are the light in this world, so we should show better examples. After all we won't take nairaland to heaven. You get my drift now? |
Re: It Is Proper To Have Sex During Fasting Period? by JoeCutie(m): 10:45am On Jan 07, 2015 |
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Re: It Is Proper To Have Sex During Fasting Period? by Bibol(f): 10:46am On Jan 07, 2015 |
Mrken113: And sex with your spouse renders you very unholy and unclean when relating to God? 1 Like |
Re: It Is Proper To Have Sex During Fasting Period? by Ozymog: 10:46am On Jan 07, 2015 |
OK read first few and last five...... Now my opinion I now there is some where in the new testament that when a spouse is embarking on a long fast he/she must let the other know so as not to deprive the other sexually. I am single, I see sex as intimate and spiritual. I once told some friends I want to have my wedding where my house is so I can have my first night on my bed not a hotel bed. Reason, mariagge is honourable with d bed undefiled. The matrimonial bed I see it as an altar for the married to dominate in d spirit, d two becoming one. I think the couple can have sex not for pleasure but stir the realm of the spirit for (better) double reward for thier effort;since both of them fasting, with an understanding... A theory am still trying to put my hand on ...... Like I said am single what do I know. Experience is the best teacher but U don't have to go thru the experience Itself U learn from others. hala me for more explanation if U care 08032877671 or maybe I will start a thread to get other peoples opinion. Sowi for the long talk |
Re: It Is Proper To Have Sex During Fasting Period? by JoeCutie(m): 10:46am On Jan 07, 2015 |
tunapius:Eeyah. 2 Likes |
Re: It Is Proper To Have Sex During Fasting Period? by lomprico(m): 10:46am On Jan 07, 2015 |
kristina1:Dem no dey break d fast again? When u break u can den do. |
Re: It Is Proper To Have Sex During Fasting Period? by Vyntra(m): 10:49am On Jan 07, 2015 |
what if they are fasting become of childlessness? |
Re: It Is Proper To Have Sex During Fasting Period? by bosun11(m): 10:49am On Jan 07, 2015 |
kristina1: even when they are married..HUH |
Re: It Is Proper To Have Sex During Fasting Period? by bosun11(m): 10:52am On Jan 07, 2015 |
I still dont understand the replies am seeing ere neither do i have an answer to the question the OP brought but for crying out loud, you mean married couples are not supposed t have sex with their wives for about 40 days because they are fastinghuh mehn that would be difficult!!!..After breaking the fast each day, cant they have sex? or whats d big deal there?? |
Re: It Is Proper To Have Sex During Fasting Period? by chiogoezubem(f): 10:55am On Jan 07, 2015 |
robosky02: Go and read 1Corinthians Chapter 7, from verse 1 to verse 6. Read with understanding, I must say. Enjoy your fast. |
Re: It Is Proper To Have Sex During Fasting Period? by ellechrystal(f): 10:56am On Jan 07, 2015 |
elantraceey:There is my dear 1st Corinthians 7:5 |
Re: It Is Proper To Have Sex During Fasting Period? by adeolu17(m): 10:57am On Jan 07, 2015 |
dacoolvik:You can have have sex after the breaking of the fasting.Our daddy Adeboye even said newly couples are exemption from the fasting. |
Re: It Is Proper To Have Sex During Fasting Period? by musaffyan(m): 10:58am On Jan 07, 2015 |
robosky02: I m not sure wat scripture is dat but ur rite, non of d spouses should deny each other of sex dats d reason marriages were created in first place, Cus am sure we all cant be Christ or saint without no sins of d flesh (Dats can't b true) |
Re: It Is Proper To Have Sex During Fasting Period? by ireneony(f): 10:58am On Jan 07, 2015 |
Bibol:sorry to say, I don't concord.... They're allowed to comment in every section, while the christians and non-christians are not allow to comment in their section.. I call that kind of a act barbaric. We are not living in the 1900, this is the 21st century. Where is the freedom of association, last time I checked, this is a social network where everyone is supposed to socialize not restrict others just because they don't share the same view with them. How is someone saying the truth is equivalent to hate or being harsh. Good day! 1 Like |
Re: It Is Proper To Have Sex During Fasting Period? by Bibol(f): 11:00am On Jan 07, 2015 |
ireneony: I think Seun should be the one you should direct that to. Obviously he doesn't share the same sentiments so let's just cope. Good day to you too |
Re: It Is Proper To Have Sex During Fasting Period? by elantraceey(f): 11:02am On Jan 07, 2015 |
ellechrystal: Wow , thanks , just saw that but he added in the next verse that he didn't give it as a comandment , that should mean it's not compulsory. 1 Like |
Re: It Is Proper To Have Sex During Fasting Period? by musaffyan(m): 11:06am On Jan 07, 2015 |
bukatyne: Sin or no sin d man is just preserving energy Don't u get it (haaba) Yule tide just past every body become pastors |
Re: It Is Proper To Have Sex During Fasting Period? by searay(m): 11:07am On Jan 07, 2015 |
ireneony:thank you sweetheart, thank you again. For giving me the first mention this year. I love you. Kissessssssssssss Modified: Woman why are you so arrogant? Pride will take so many things from you, so work on yourself and learn to interprete beyond the literal. |
Re: It Is Proper To Have Sex During Fasting Period? by luluosas(m): 11:10am On Jan 07, 2015 |
1 Corinthians 7:3-5. Bible In Basic English (BBE) 3 Let the husband give to the wife what is right; and let the wife do the same to the husband. 4 The wife has not power over her body, but the husband; and in the same way the husband has not power over his body, but the wife. 5 Do not keep back from one another what is right, but only for a short time, and by agreement, so that you may give yourselves to prayer, and come together again; so that Satan may not get the better of you through your loss of self-control." My own contribution to this post is that yes, the Bible says sex should be avoided for a short time between married couples only, and never between married people and a church. Therefore, a couple is free to undergo at most 3 days dry fasting if that is what they agreed on without any form of sexual relationship in the process. There is no problem here at all. However, embarking on a church organized fasting and prayers for either 10, 20, 40, 70 or 100 days, does NOT apply in this regard. This is because you are NOT married to the church but to your husband. And moreover, the church's fasting and prayer period is broken daily which after then you are free to have sex with your wife and husband. Hope this short piece help. GOD bless you all. 2 Likes |
Re: It Is Proper To Have Sex During Fasting Period? by teekay213(m): 11:18am On Jan 07, 2015 |
yes,1corinthians7,3:5 said it all. |
Re: It Is Proper To Have Sex During Fasting Period? by Ozymog: 11:19am On Jan 07, 2015 |
@chiogoezubem U are a darling I knew there was a scripture like that not sure d verse @robosky2 it all boils down to Ur understanding to apply it if d couple can't fit hold body after a while they can come together. Maybe try reading that scripture in other translations for better understanding. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: It Is Proper To Have Sex During Fasting Period? by samplegirl(f): 11:21am On Jan 07, 2015 |
faithfulwife: Tell me you are confused! |
Re: It Is Proper To Have Sex During Fasting Period? by Ozymog: 11:27am On Jan 07, 2015 |
@samplegirl, faithfulwife is not confuse. I agree with kunlap. Like food we restrict sex. |
Re: It Is Proper To Have Sex During Fasting Period? by kunlap: 11:27am On Jan 07, 2015 |
I support the idea of faithful wife.sex is restricted to some extent during fasting or could be in the evening after you have broken the fast except its a dry fast then it wont be advisable cos u use up strength which wont be replenish cos you are not going to eat. |
Re: It Is Proper To Have Sex During Fasting Period? by Muzikluva(m): 11:31am On Jan 07, 2015 |
kristina1:Very true_the flesh must be denied pleasures while fasting.By the way @Op,edit your topic _"it is" should be "is it" and your abstinence is spelt wrongly! |
Re: It Is Proper To Have Sex During Fasting Period? by musaffyan(m): 11:31am On Jan 07, 2015 |
Hey what's all dis? Wet or dry fasting if any couple are Hot its allowed in religious way for dem to hmm hmm, Den y unification of marriages? If sex is denied at any time without agreement afterall marriage is also another way of worshipping d creator |
Re: It Is Proper To Have Sex During Fasting Period? by InZA: 11:37am On Jan 07, 2015 |
Where would the energy even come from? |
Re: It Is Proper To Have Sex During Fasting Period? by PrinceBYC: 11:37am On Jan 07, 2015 |
As a couple, you don't have to abstain from sex for the whole duration of the fasting period..e.g 3 ,7, 21,40, 100days etc. More often than not, we break the fast in the evening. So after you have broken the fast, 'the work of God' can continue up till 11:59pm . Its a different case if you are going without food throughout the duration though ( a case of dry fasting). |
Re: It Is Proper To Have Sex During Fasting Period? by jenie10(f): 11:37am On Jan 07, 2015 |
Think abt dis; on a normal day, u eat and enjoy urself and it is not a sin, wen u fast, u are depriving ur self of earthly pleasure 4 a while. So u need to deprive urself of sex wit ur husband too. If u no u can't control ur sexual desire, dnt join d prayers, say ur normal prayer. For u to get sumtin, u must sacrifice sumtn |
Re: It Is Proper To Have Sex During Fasting Period? by femi4: 11:38am On Jan 07, 2015 |
robosky02:Yes, you can have se.x, its not dry fasting. A lot of people do take water while fasting |
Re: It Is Proper To Have Sex During Fasting Period? by Kruzilano(m): 11:45am On Jan 07, 2015 |
Where will he/she get the strength from? |
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