MY lady friend brought a guy to my house and says that the guy she wanna marry,.......the issue is this my lady friend is something else....she confessed to me some time back that she has had 6 abortions and once told me that she likes men with huge dikcs....the type of dikc that touches her belly when inside......she has had gang sex before in onitsha.....she tells me a loy of things......IVE NEVER SLEPT WITH HER COS SHE DAMN TOO WILD...SHE even told me she married one guy that abandoned her and ran to europe

NOW i asked her where she met the guy she claim she wanna marry....she said in ONE NEW CHURCH SHE ATTENDS.....they met two months ago and wanna marry next month....

i just feel pity because obviously the guy is ignorant of her lifestyle

the bible says TO HIM WHO KNOWETH WHATS GOOD AND DOES IT NOT ITS SIN

If i keep shut then am protecting her interest
If i advice him then am protecting his interest

my annoyance is she brought to guy to me to PAINT A PICTURE TO THE GUY THAT SHE HAS RESPONSIBLE FIRNEDS etc me and the guys elder brother are friends

WHAT THE BEST LINE OF ACTION

Too long to read

Lemme book space first,wil read later

rattlesnake:
MY lady friend brought a guy to my house and says that the guy she wanna marry,.......the issue is this my lady friend is something else....she confessed to me some time back that she has had 6 abortions and once told me that she likes men with huge dikcs....the type of dikc that touches her belly when inside......she has had gang sex before in onitsha.....she tells me a loy of things......IVE NEVER SLEPT WITH HER COS SHE DAMN TOO WILD...SHE even told me she married one guy that abandoned her and ran to europe

NOW i asked her where she met the guy she claim she wanna marry....she said in ONE NEW CHURCH SHE ATTENDS.....they met two months ago and wanna marry next month....

i just feel pity because obviously the guy is ignorant of her lifestyle

the bible says TO HIM WHO KNOWETH WHATS GOOD AND DOES IT NOT ITS SIN

If i keep shut then am protecting her interest
If i advice him then am protecting his interest

my annoyance is she brought to guy to me to PAINT A PICTURE TO THE GUY THAT SHE HAS RESPONSIBLE FIRNEDS etc me and the guys elder brother are friends

WHAT THE BEST LINE OF ACTION

Just one question for you op:
If you are in the guy's shoe, will you want to be told?
Advice: Let your answer be your guide.

@OP, How do you know that the person that she wants to get married to is better than her? Brother, pls just keep your mouth shut. Let God be the judge.

samuelson06:
@OP, How do you know that the person that she wants to get married to is better than her? Brother, pls just keep your mouth shut. Let God be the judge.

hmmmmmm

Bros,you wan put sand for their garri abi??

Now this is a tough one.
If she's really serious with the church thingy (she met the guy in church, right?), and is really really changed, then I'd advice you let the past remain hidden. But if not, then man, I don't what else you should do. Telling would severe your friendship with the girl as well as ruin her relationship. Not telling leaves you battling with your consience. It's your call, bro.

E don red

U don't need to

MzPreshie:
Now this is a tough one.
If she's really serious with the church thingy (she met the guy in church, right?), and is really really changed, then I'd advice you let the past remain hidden. But if not, then man, I don't what else you should do. Telling would severe your friendship with the girl as well as ruin her relationship. Not telling leaves you battling with your conscience. It's your call, bro.

hmmmmm na waooooo

Pls what sort of man will meet a lady and in two months time, he is set to wed her? Biko, who does that?


Btw, op has it ever occured to you that either this your lady friend has changed or this guy knows about her rotten past? Why else, do you think she would have the audacity to bring the guy to you knowing all that you know about her?


My thoughts tho

Mprex:
Pls what sort of man will meet a lady and in two months time, he is set to wed her? Biko, who does that?


Btw, op has it ever occured to you that either this your lady friend has changed or this guy knows about her rotten past? Why else, do you think she would have the audacity to bring the guy to you knowing all that you know about her?


My thoughts tho

he dosent know anything.....i chatted him on whatsapp now hes beenn laughing like a donkey so excited about the relationship with his godsent or god forsaken

i just hate this issue of decieption

fück!! it's your fücking call;

the bible says TO HIM WHO KNOWETH WHATS GOOD AND DOES IT NOT ITS SIN

New Living Translation

And you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free."

OP you fücking know the truth; tell this guy so that he will be set free

fücking disclaimer; you are soley responsible for any action you take

juianne95:
Too long to read

Lemme book space first,wil read later

what is 2 long to read

op what if the girl finds out that you told the guy yo back off. Am not telling you not to tell the guy but pls be careful so that it won't bounce back at you.

so all d trolls are back

Mess....ok let's do it dis way d devil and the deep blue sea which ll rather choose, d devil? or d deep blue sea?? [color=#000099][/color], any way sha, tell d man....if d lady hasn't changed but if she has dont, but if she hasn't my dear it's so wrong not to tell d boy d truth! so wrong

Why not allow her be op? Me think say na only women involve in gossiping.Never new some guys liek OP does the same thing.

Why not allow her and the guy be for God's sake. What is your fvcking problem if she wants to marry the guy? Both of them met and accepted to marry. Some guys love that sort of lady and would wanna do anything to be with them.

So, take your hands off their relationship and allow them enjoy their life.

andyanders:
Why not allow her be op? Me think say na only women involve in gossiping.Never new some guys liek OP does the same thing.

Why not allow her and the guy be for God's sake. What is your fvcking problem if she wants to marry the guy? Both of them met and accepted to marry. Some guys love that sort of lady and would wanna do anything to be with them.

So, take your hands off their relationship and allow them enjoy their life.

u are irresponsible sir

very very

passive
inert
docile
unresponsive
unreliable
unrecpetive
unperceptive
flaacid
lack inspiration,passion,empathy and lifeless selfish undependable dude

WHEN YOU SEE A PROBLEM AND ARE NOT CONCERN THE PROBLEM WILL FIND ITS WAY TO YOUR HOUSE.......Hian!!!!!!!!!!!!!

andyanders:
Why not allow her be op? Me think say na only women involve in gossiping.Never new some guys liek OP does the same thing.

Why not allow her and the guy be for God's sake. What is your fvcking problem if she wants to marry the guy? Both of them met and accepted to marry. Some guys love that sort of lady and would wanna do anything to be with them.

So, take your hands off their relationship and allow them enjoy their life.

READ THIS STORY

A rat looked through a crack in the wall to see the farmer and his wife opening a package. What food might it contain? He was aghast to discover that it was a rat trap. Retreating to the barnyard the rat proclaimed the warning; “There’s a rat trap in the house, a rat trap in the house!”

The chicken clucked and scratched, raised her head and said, “Excuse me, Mr. Rat, I can tell this is a grave concern to you, but it is of no consequence to me. I cannot be bothered by it.”

The rat turned to the pig and told him, “There’s a rat trap in the house, a rat trap in the house!” “I am so very sorry Mr. Rat,” sympathized the pig, “but there is nothing I can do about it but pray. Be assured that you are in my prayers.”

The rat turned to the cow. She said, “Like wow, Mr. Rat. a rat trap. I am in grave danger. Duh?” So the rat returned to the house, head down and dejected, to face the farmer’s rat trap alone.

That very night a sound was heard throughout the house, like the sound of a rat trap catching its prey. The farmer’s wife rushed to see what was caught. In the darkness, she did not see that it was a venomous snake whose tail the trap had caught. The snake bit the farmer’s wife. The farmer rushed her to the hospital. She returned home with a fever.

Now everyone knows you treat a fever with fresh chicken soup, so the farmer took his hatchet to the barnyard for the soup’s main ingredient.

His wife’s sickness continued so that friends and neighbors came to sit with her around the clock. To feed them the farmer butchered the pig.

The farmer’s wife did not get well. She died, and so many people came for her funeral that the farmer had the cow slaughtered to provide meat for all of them to eat.

So the next time you hear that someone is facing a problem and think that it does not concern you, remember that when there is a rat trap in the house, the whole barnyard’s at risk.


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wetin concern you?Is it because you know a lot about her

I have read your narration and I think what you should do is advice your lady friend to open up about her life to the guy. Let her understand that if she does not then sooner or later he find out the truth. As for you do not interfere in the marriage plans.

OP, check up there, that fellow has said all I wanna say.



I repeat " DO NOT INTERFERE "

I dont see any problem here except that she has married before. What if the guy comes back?

Most girls like huge stuff... They usually just do like they dont care. Even if they cant take it in, they just like the sight.

Most girls have done abortion one time or the other. Most.

I take it she is a bit matured and most girls of her age say between 25 and 27 has slept with an average of five guys so whats her sin? and it probably happened in the kitchen, bathroom or some strange place. No one is a saint.

Just try and talk to her to come clean with regards to her former husband. Afterall must she marry again? She could just date and if she insists on going ahead just stay clear of their lives. You could just tell the guys elder brothers to do a thorough research or keep shut.

But what if they get to know later and they realized you knew all along?. The ball is in your court.