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Re: How Can A Christian Handle Sexual Urge? by donmalcolm21(m): 2:45pm On Jan 11, 2015
According to Pastor Chris "self service cos its not a sin" but I can tell you that if you don't allow your mind to wander and always think of positive things and ask yoursel WWJD
Re: How Can A Christian Handle Sexual Urge? by Nobody: 2:45pm On Jan 11, 2015
Wan.k off wink simple

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Re: How Can A Christian Handle Sexual Urge? by Simitrendy: 2:45pm On Jan 11, 2015
Self Control And Take Everthing To God In Prayers
Re: How Can A Christian Handle Sexual Urge? by BonaVIta(m): 2:45pm On Jan 11, 2015
Spank the joystick or flat board with rubber band ...

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Re: How Can A Christian Handle Sexual Urge? by justscorch: 2:45pm On Jan 11, 2015
Na to find joy soap na N80 lasan

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Re: How Can A Christian Handle Sexual Urge? by cold(m): 2:47pm On Jan 11, 2015
critique101:


Dont mention God's name in such stupiid comments. you have insulted GOd. THink before you talk/write
Insulted god in what way? Same people who claim god created the genitals would still frown when god and sex are mentioned in the same sentence. Hypocrites!

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Re: How Can A Christian Handle Sexual Urge? by Nobody: 2:47pm On Jan 11, 2015
PRAY ABOUT IT.

Re: How Can A Christian Handle Sexual Urge? by Hamatrony(m): 2:48pm On Jan 11, 2015
MusaIbrahim1:
If your abuna go lead you into sin... Cut it off..

Lolzzzz, see! ds guy, u wicked ooO , just am opinion sha grin
Re: How Can A Christian Handle Sexual Urge? by AreaFada2: 2:48pm On Jan 11, 2015
elantraceey:
My dear it all boils down to your thoughts.

OM gee!

I can't believe you just said that.

So you mean all those hot half-clad asanwa parading about campus na just for him imagination, bah? cheesy grin

Yowa.

Ella how bodi na?

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Re: How Can A Christian Handle Sexual Urge? by Coolguy89(m): 2:48pm On Jan 11, 2015
critique101:
buy our daily manner. use it to pray daily. avoid watching porn. don't keep any girlfriend till you are working and ready to marry. this helps
nice one but I don't think we can avoid watching porn cos its every were dis days

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Re: How Can A Christian Handle Sexual Urge? by Misogynist2014(m): 2:48pm On Jan 11, 2015
Face your career.
Re: How Can A Christian Handle Sexual Urge? by xcesswag(m): 2:48pm On Jan 11, 2015
go to xvideos.com and masturbate d Bleep out

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Re: How Can A Christian Handle Sexual Urge? by duni04(m): 2:49pm On Jan 11, 2015
Nutase:
Bros, thank God say konji dey worry you. It shows you are normal. Some people dey pray for konji but their hormones no gree initiate the process.
Back to your question you cant fight nature but can only put it in check. Apostle paul speaking said 'I beat my body under subjection.......' Its a process which requires loads of discipline. Like the athlethe who requires loads of discipline to keep to his/her training schedule so as to keep fit and win competitions, so does a christian require discipline to win the race of life.
Discipline can come by fasting and prayer, studying d word of God etc. Once your spirit can take charge konji will still rear its face cos its natural but u will overcome it by the SOG.
I agree with you but its easier said than done. Its almost impossible in fact. Its like fighting ones own nature.

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Re: How Can A Christian Handle Sexual Urge? by Lennylinconlee(m): 2:50pm On Jan 11, 2015
What did u mean by self service.... Is it Masturbation or what?.....some 1 dat understand what he meant can also answer....

Den u need to get closert to God ...all unrightiouness is a sin
Re: How Can A Christian Handle Sexual Urge? by Jaymsen(m): 2:50pm On Jan 11, 2015
Its beta u leav a stone at d top of d moutain rather dan letin it down n u won't b able 2 take it bck 2 d top of d moutain[color=#770077][/color]
Re: How Can A Christian Handle Sexual Urge? by Nobody: 2:51pm On Jan 11, 2015
I'm not in a position to give such advice because I have a girlfriend. But when I travel far away from her, I control the urge to get a temporal gf by constant thinking of the things that matter in life and finding my hand something to do

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Re: How Can A Christian Handle Sexual Urge? by samuelmag: 2:52pm On Jan 11, 2015
Blessed r dos wu have not tasted cos dey dnt even knw it taste.startin is easy but stopin is hard man.ask d holy spirit to help U by prayn For help when U are tempted.God will see U tru!

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Re: How Can A Christian Handle Sexual Urge? by Nobody: 2:52pm On Jan 11, 2015
FOCUS YOUR MIND ON THESE THINGS;

Philippians 4:8 Finally, brethren, whatsoever things are true, whatsoever things are honest, whatsoever things are just, whatsoever things are pure, whatsoever things are lovely, whatsoever things are of good report; if there be any virtue, and if there be any praise, think on these things.
Re: How Can A Christian Handle Sexual Urge? by drlogg: 2:53pm On Jan 11, 2015
Nutase:
Bros, thank God say konji dey worry you. It shows you are normal. Some people dey pray for konji but their hormones no gree initiate the process.
Back to your question you cant fight nature but can only put it in check. Apostle paul speaking said 'I beat my body under subjection.......' Its a process which requires loads of discipline. Like the athlethe who requires loads of discipline to keep to his/her training schedule so as to keep fit and win competitions, so does a christian require discipline to win the race of life.
Discipline can come by fasting and prayer, studying d word of God etc. Once your spirit can take charge konji will still rear its face cos its natural but u will overcome it by the SOG.

Best comment so far. I like this
Re: How Can A Christian Handle Sexual Urge? by justynneke(f): 2:54pm On Jan 11, 2015
May b ur discussions, environment or activities lately r drawin ur attention to it.
Just try n figure it out, exempt urself frm it n engage ur self seriously in God's words/activities n sumtin else dat can earn Ʊ money until Ʊ r ready fr marriage.
I hope dis helps sha
Re: How Can A Christian Handle Sexual Urge? by Nobody: 2:54pm On Jan 11, 2015
MusaIbrahim1:
If your abuna go lead you into sin... Cut it off..

Lol, freaking hilarious!

On a serious note though @OP, we all have crosses, that's why it's said to carry your cross and follow.

You don't often have to suffer physically, like be blind or lame, but this sacrifice of yours could be your suffering.

"Now if we are children, then we are heirs--heirs of God and co-heirs with Christ, [size=15pt]if indeed we share in his sufferings[/size] in order that we may also share in his glory."


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Re: How Can A Christian Handle Sexual Urge? by kepal99(m): 2:55pm On Jan 11, 2015
Ma guy its not easy o. Self discipline matters a lot. Its not a thing of religion. And moreover, if you have sex today its not just because of the urge but because deep down inside you, you wanted to have sex.

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Re: How Can A Christian Handle Sexual Urge? by duni04(m): 2:55pm On Jan 11, 2015
okoyemike:
I'm not in a position to give such advice because I have a girlfriend. But when I travel far away from her, I control the urge to get a temporal gf by constant thinking of the things that matter in life and finding my hand something to do
Aren't you committing fornication with your girlfriend?

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Re: How Can A Christian Handle Sexual Urge? by Larow(m): 2:56pm On Jan 11, 2015
critique101:
buy our daily manner. use it to pray daily. avoid watching porn. don't keep any girlfriend till you are working and ready to marry. this helps
na lie! It does not work! We are talking of the URGE here remember?
Re: How Can A Christian Handle Sexual Urge? by Nobody: 2:56pm On Jan 11, 2015
Thugnificent:
I grew up in a strong Christian family were I was indoctrinated to believe that fornication and masturbation is a sin. Now i'm in my early 20s and the urge to fornicate grows stronger and the only solution is masturbation which is also a "sin". So how do I relieve my self of the urge without comitting any sin?

in my opinion:
The plan of God didn't include that by mid twenties humans will still be looking for jobs or whom to marry and that is why you are having those urges which just says biologically its time to start expressing that urge unfortunately the Economy dictates that you should wait till u can care for you and yours before marriage which then allows you to express your sexual urges within the sanctity of marriage.
Sexual energy is a very powerful force that can be transmutated into other things concentrate it on something else like exercising ,meditating,Creative writing,photography or anything else that grabs your attention positively

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Re: How Can A Christian Handle Sexual Urge? by mikeczay: 2:56pm On Jan 11, 2015
dmjinc:
(Flee from sexual immorality. All other sins a person commits are outside the body, but whoever sins sexually, sins against their own body)
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Re: How Can A Christian Handle Sexual Urge? by Nobody: 2:57pm On Jan 11, 2015
@OP

I do keep mine at home whenever I am going out, you do same.

Don't ask me how.
Re: How Can A Christian Handle Sexual Urge? by Emmzalon: 2:57pm On Jan 11, 2015
The holy spirit of God is our guidance. Nothing of such can happen with him in you. Note this: Sex before marriage is a pleasure and sin against our God who loves us. Sin is of the world and the love of d world is like fetching into a basket,d world can never love us back but God does, He over-does. Do HIS will!
Re: How Can A Christian Handle Sexual Urge? by ndcide(m): 2:57pm On Jan 11, 2015
@Op,

Do the following;

1, Be genuinely born again.

2, make the Holy spirit your friend: So I say, walk by the Spirit, and you will not
gratify the desires of the flesh. Gal at 5: 16

3, Work for God: Delight thyself also in the LORD; and he
shall give thee the desires of thine heart. PSL 37: 4

4, seek to grow in the way of God: But grow in grace, and in the knowledge of
our Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ. To him
be glory both now and for ever. 2peter 3: 18

this will help

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Re: How Can A Christian Handle Sexual Urge? by iampartyboy(m): 2:58pm On Jan 11, 2015
LucemFerre:
Buy 1 carton of dudu-osun for prevention against germs and bags of pure water don't use well water prevention against tape worm, download better mojo... Bros and Service yourself all you want... Fasting and prayers no dey cure konji... If not the next time you sneeze na sperm go comot some time later if you dey cry, your tears go thick (water+sperm)... Next you go just start to dey smell yam water from no where (catarrh + sperm).

Help yourself o... If God no want make you do soapy him for no allow konji torment you.
grin
Re: How Can A Christian Handle Sexual Urge? by Kingmakerrr: 2:59pm On Jan 11, 2015
LucemFerre:
Buy 1 carton of dudu-osun for prevention against germs and bags of pure water don't use well water prevention against tape worm, download better mojo... Bros and Service yourself all you want... Fasting and prayers no dey cure konji... If not the next time you sneeze na sperm go comot some time later if you dey cry, your tears go thick (water+sperm)... Next you go just start to dey smell yam water from no where (catarrh + sperm).

Help yourself o... If God no want make you do soapy him for no allow konji torment you.

Wow.

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