BornSad:
Hehe.... you guys think there's something you wrote here that the OP had never heard before coming on Nairaland? Read bible, pray, fast, this and that, OP said he was born and brought up in a core Christian family. This suggests that he does all these already! And the thing still dey do am .

Prayer and fasting do no stop konji o! Nigerians and hypocrisy! God created nature and do not work against it. Konji is natural. So if you have any practical advice, give it and stop quoting the bible as if there's anywhere in it that says, "and I will stop your konji".

Alexk2:
bros., the heart of the matter is a matter of the heart....you are been lead, moved by what you occupied your heart with.; that is it with every human. our actions are product of the heart's deliberatn/dicussn, so stop occupying ur heart frm those things that are leading you into sinful thinking...philipians 4:8 says 'finally, brethren, whatsoever things are true, whatsoever things are honest, whatsoever things are pure, whatsoever things are lovely, whatsoever things are of good report; if there be any virtue, and if there be any praise, think on these things"....these are what we should occupy our mind with and not indecent things.

prov. 4:23 also says.."..above all else, guard your heart, for it is the wellspring of life"..

finally, i need to ask you if you've really knw the person of Jesus...this is different frm been born into a christian home or been religious or holding teneciously to ur doctrine. your striving, struggling, prayer and fasting cant help you @ d long run because the finished work of Christ dont need 'helping' by any1...only trust in that finished work and letting Him will do.
so, check your relationshp with Him first....shalom!

Truckpusher:
He doesn't need it for later as long as he has a tongue and a finger.

Alexk2:
bros., the heart of the matter is a matter of the heart....you are been lead, moved by what you occupied your heart with.; that is it with every human. our actions are product of the heart's deliberatn/dicussn, so stop occupying ur heart frm those things that are leading you into sinful thinking...philipians 4:8 says 'finally, brethren, whatsoever things are true, whatsoever things are honest, whatsoever things are pure, whatsoever things are lovely, whatsoever things are of good report; if there be any virtue, and if there be any praise, think on these things"....these are what we should occupy our mind with and not indecent things.

prov. 4:23 also says.."..above all else, guard your heart, for it is the wellspring of life"..

finally, i need to ask you if you've really knw the person of Jesus...this is different frm been born into a christian home or been religious or holding teneciously to ur doctrine. your striving, struggling, prayer and fasting cant help you @ d long run because the finished work of Christ dont need 'helping' by any1...only trust in that finished work and letting Him will do.
so, check your relationshp with Him first....shalom!

LucemFerre:
Buy 1 carton of dudu-osun for prevention against germs and bags of pure water don't use well water prevention against tape worm, download better mojo... Bros and Service yourself all you want... Fasting and prayers no dey cure konji... If not the next time you sneeze na sperm go comot some time later if you dey cry, your tears go thick (water+sperm)... Next you go just start to dey smell yam water from no where (catarrh + sperm).

Help yourself o... If God no want make you do soapy him for no allow konji torment you.

duni04:

u no well o. No such thing as self-service responsibly. The fact that you're wanking in the first place means you've lost control
So yea discipline does pay

Reiyvinn:


1.) Surpressing an urge and Controlling an urge are two entirely different things. In fact, wanking is a form of controlling an urge, which is why once done, the issue of sex is completely rubbed off the mind and such a person can concentrate on other things. And this leads us to ->

2.) Wanking can be seen as pseudo-sex where you tell the body "Hey body, I'm having sex so don't trouble me again, ok?" and once you're done, you move on. However, wanking for like 10 hours straight after perhaps 15 releases can lead to Heart attack. It's even insane and self-torture to try such. So it all boils down to use & mis-use and yes, you can self-service responsibly. Everything is done responsibly.

It's not "loss of control," it's control itself. Cheers

MusaIbrahim1:
If your abuna go lead you into sin... Cut it off..

UchihaMadara:


"A person who actively opposes or is hostile to someone or something; an adversary."

Lachimex:
Bros last time I checked Conji Operation don increase to 580k, perhaps Doctor dat will carry d operation will be giving u a big slap every 2-minutes 4u to allow dat to occur while there are so many way u can help urself out...Am sure u won't be able 2 go tru all dis processes..so beta be warned now"" I rest my case!!!

duni04:

Pray for the discipline to control it

checkdate:

+SEEK IN PRAYERS FOR STRENGTH AND POWER TO OVERCOME THIS NEGETIVE INFLUENCE
+IF YOU CAN AVOID STAYING ALONE AT HOME DO GO OUT,
+IF YOU CAN START KNOWING & ATTENDING YOUR CHURCH PROGRAMMS/MEETINGS AND ALSO START FORMING THE HABIT OF GOING TO RECREATION PARKS/SPORTS CENTRES, IT WILL HELP.
+IF YOU CAN START LEARNING A NEW VOCATION(HAND WORK eg laptop repairs-software-hardware ), IT WILL HELP

Thugnificent:
I grew up in a strong Christian family were I was indoctrinated to believe that fornication and masturbation is a sin. Now i'm in my early 20s and the urge to fornicate grows stronger and the only solution is masturbation which is also a "sin". So how do I relieve my self of the urge without comitting any sin?

critique101:


Dont mention God's name in such stupiid comments. you have insulted GOd. THink before you talk/write

UchihaMadara:


The underlying principle in both our analogies is discipline, is it not?

As people have already said, you can get married whenever you want. You really don't have to wait to fulfill all your goals before you do, if you know you can't wait.

You could always get a like-minded spouse, that would share your goals. So for instance, if you say no kids, till you are secure at 35, then both of you should be in it together to achieve that and still have a cool marriage.

freecocoa:
Why is it there in the first place if it will lead one to sin? Which kind punishment be that one?

focus7:

From ur submission u are what u are courtesy of ur upbringing, meaning u are trying to remain what ur parent has made u think should be right not that u have personal encounter that bring u to the point of personal conviction, your holding on may not last. I will suggest u do the following: 1.give ur life to Jesus. 2.initiate an intimacy with God by spending quality time with on a daily bases to know I'm one on one. 3.begin a descipleship program by; a.having a mentor to guide u who u can report ur life progress in Christ to, b.join the descipleship program in ur church if they have such, c.in that ur daily devotion endeavour to take lesson from every bible passage u read daily and apply them to ur life, learn to listen to the inner voice in u both in prayer and outside prayer, take instruction from inside, christianity is an IN thing not outward. 4.read gospel materials, I will recommend Gbile Akanni, Watchmanni. Mater(ialsI will recommend more to u if u contact me). 5.get to learn about the cross and the resurrection of Jesus (by the time u learn about the cross and the resurrection that demon of sexual urge will fly away). Contact me on mail if my post is of benefit to u.

9jatatafo:
Try to hold on to what you believe and pursue spirituality. Also do you have wet dreams? The body helps in relieving conji by wet dream.

mustang44:

Try