I was in ur same situation and i ended up fornicating. Now i have deep regret. I still suffered badly with lust afterwards but now i have learnt one thing that has fixed things. You need to praise God, pray, read the word and most importantly trust that God will change your mind. What will help is also humanizing women by realizing that sex is good yes but it has consequences and sex without love is not sweet at all. Don't see women as godesses and don't behold their glory for it is a form of idolatry. Read this - - > www.tasteheavennow.net/understanding_yourself/sexual_addictions_and_lust.htm

God be with you in Jesus name brother. Amen

Good evening,
The discussion here is how to avoid premarital sex
- watch your thought....as a man thinks in his heart, so he is.
- Give attention to God word.
- Watch what you see and hear
- Who are your friends
- Read books of danger of sex
- Take the advance decision not to
- the urges are chemistry and they will disappear after some time
- once you taste it now, the battle will become more serious
- it is a gift and pride to your future wife
- if you ignore this advice, you will regret after the 5minutes act
- the Bible said you should flee formication.... And the best way is to avoid the scene
- hold on to your believe
- I pray for grace and emotional strength and intelligence in Jesus name

BonaVIta:
Spank the joystick or flat board with rubber band ...

seconded!!!

Thugnificent:
I grew up in a strong Christian family were I was indoctrinated to believe that fornication and masturbation is a sin. Now i'm in my early 20s and the urge to fornicate grows stronger and the only solution is masturbation which is also a "sin". So how do I relieve my self of the urge without comitting any sin?

They usually turn up with too many torn boxers.

There is nothing anyone can do for them.

go nd buy a p*nis lock.....it exixts

The Holy Spirit will help u to overcome such unwanted urge. Just be close to him.

Thugnificent:
I grew up in a strong Christian family were I was indoctrinated to believe that fornication and masturbation is a sin. Now i'm in my early 20s and the urge to fornicate grows stronger and the only solution is masturbation which is also a "sin". So how do I relieve my self of the urge without comitting any sin?

bruv, first of all like to let you know that it wasn't indoctrination but things applicable to live an enjoyable life here on earth. And also the only known best way which also has been building my self control is by controlling things that go in and on in your mind and thouhgts. Make it positive. Thanks

Every sunday this kinda topic is on fp, na wetin abeg refer 2 previous similar topics 4 advice jor

everybody now forming advicer... I hail oooo

Thugnificent:
I grew up in a strong Christian family were I was indoctrinated to believe that fornication and masturbation is a sin. Now i'm in my early 20s and the urge to fornicate grows stronger and the only solution is masturbation which is also a "sin". So how do I relieve my self of the urge without comitting any sin?

You can't be given tea and expected not to drink it.

If God gave you that urge to always feel 'konji' whenever you wanna bang, and tells you not to bang, then God must be cruel for that.

Fortunately, that God doesn't exist.

Do whatever pleases you as long as you hurt nobody.

Live life, self-service, furck, drink, cure your madness; it's your life and not for a guy in the sky. Period!

LucemFerre:
Buy 1 carton of dudu-osun for prevention against germs and bags of pure water don't use well water prevention against tape worm, download better mojo... Bros and Service yourself all you want... Fasting and prayers no dey cure konji... If not the next time you sneeze na sperm go comot some time later if you dey cry, your tears go thick (water+sperm)... Next you go just start to dey smell yam water from no where (catarrh + sperm).

Help yourself o... If God no want make you do soapy him for no allow konji torment you.

And I keep wondering why you choose dudu-osunn for that matter .....thee son of man have got one hell of a thought. You got me speechless but please this advise of you is a crazy one kwa

duni04:

I agree with you but its easier said than done. Its almost impossible in fact. Its like fighting ones own nature.

Help me tell these unrealistic people. Before u know now, OP will be caught having sex with his 8 year old niece. God forbid sha, but u can only DAM a river for so long before it finds a less worthy outlet.

OP, I don't want to tell u to sin, so I won't give u any advise. But I will say one thing...Don't take advise from any female on this forum, they can never understand what u r going through.

critique101:
buy our daily manner. use it to pray daily. avoid watching porn. [s]don't keep any girlfriend till you are working and ready to marry. this helps[/s]

really? So people pray when they have sexual urges now? Tell me something sister! I was made to understand that these things happens to everyone and they're natural,it's just like asking him to pray because he breathes. If you don't have anything to say please keep quiet.

You should be advising the dude on how to control his sexual urges,not this.

thank God you know that reality is no fiction.we all have different physiology.has anybody ask, why are our younger girls maturing very early? 9 ,10, 11 are mensurating.

I dey come

MusaIbrahim1:
If your abuna go lead you into sin... Cut it off..

Lolzzzzz, will you give him yours later?

LucemFerre:
Buy 1 carton of dudu-osun for prevention against germs and bags of pure water don't use well water prevention against tape worm, download better mojo... Bros and Service yourself all you want... Fasting and prayers no dey cure konji... If not the next time you sneeze na sperm go comot some time later if you dey cry, your tears go thick (water+sperm)... Next you go just start to dey smell yam water from no where (catarrh + sperm).

Help yourself o... If God no want make you do soapy him for no allow konji torment you.

Damn! What a beautiful mind in a funny way. ....smh

Thugnificent:
I grew up in a strong Christian family were I was indoctrinated to believe that fornication and masturbation is a sin. Now i'm in my early 20s and the urge to fornicate grows stronger and the only solution is masturbation which is also a "sin". So how do I relieve my self of the urge without comitting any sin?

Oga u go just explode one day....omo u just dey waste ur time..'illing ur self...am sure u won't know how to satisfy a woman when u get married..n it's gonna be double wahala for u.....ol boy enter ashewo house go do test run...o even u can get street gals n wash dem but use a cd ooo lol konji no go kill u

Oduduwaboy:

Just cut of your dick na! ...since your god has failed to prevent you from having the urges!

FOOL!ppl like you shud go n die#senseless bein

LucemFerre:
Buy 1 carton of dudu-osun for prevention against germs and bags of pure water don't use well water prevention against tape worm, download better mojo... Bros and Service yourself all you want... Fasting and prayers no dey cure konji... If not the next time you sneeze na sperm go comot some time later if you dey cry, your tears go thick (water+sperm)... Next you go just start to dey smell yam water from no where (catarrh + sperm).

Help yourself o... If God no want make you do soapy him for no allow konji torment you.

you really should be ashamed of yourself dude!

UchihaMadara:


I don't think it works that way though, just saying!

I aint trying to act like am perfect or too holy..but I did deal with mine..Maybe its easier for babes than guys..maybe experience made me feel like its so easy...Just saying

Tell your parent to marry for you.....



That's the solution......

bisous:


in my opinion:
The plan of God didn't include that by mid twenties humans will still be looking for jobs or whom to marry and that is why you are having those urges which just says biologically its time to start expressing that urge unfortunately the Economy dictates that you should wait till u can care for you and yours before marriage which then allows you to express your sexual urges within the sanctity of marriage.
Sexual energy is a very powerful force that can be transmit acted into other things concentrate it on something else like exercising ,meditating,Creative writing,photography or anything else that grabs your attention positively

Word.

Idle hands are the devil's workshop

Thugnificent:
I grew up in a strong Christian family were I was indoctrinated to believe that fornication and masturbation is a sin. Now i'm in my early 20s and the urge to fornicate grows stronger and the only solution is masturbation which is also a "sin". So how do I relieve my self of the urge without comitting any sin?

ma broda konji na natural tin wit both sex.....bt since sey u na father pickin, i suggest marriage tinx 4u before ur konjitivity levls go explode

Hmmm Christians know how to deal with this issue perfectly.

LucemFerre:
Buy 1 carton of dudu-osun for prevention against germs and bags of pure water don't use well water prevention against tape worm, download better mojo... Bros and Service yourself all you want... Fasting and prayers no dey cure konji... If not the next time you sneeze na sperm go comot some time later if you dey cry, your tears go thick (water+sperm)... Next you go just start to dey smell yam water from no where (catarrh + sperm).

Help yourself o... If God no want make you do soapy him for no allow konji torment you.

Bros!! You sabi lie..

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Na to go marry sharparly! Odabo!

Thugnificent:
I grew up in a strong Christian family were I was indoctrinated to believe that fornication and masturbation is a sin. Now i'm in my early 20s and the urge to fornicate grows stronger and the only solution is masturbation which is also a "sin". So how do I relieve my self of the urge without comitting any sin?

Well, here are some ideas....

1.Pray about it.

2.Exercise. Burn off some of that excess ''konji'' on the playing field. Start with walking, then jogging.

3.Join a department in your church. They are looking for workers after all!

4.Make friends, and talk frequently.

5.Read some good books.....eg Every Man's battle by Stoeker and Arterburn is good (If you are living in Abuja...available at Lookay Christian bookstore....Wuse Zone 3 near Tantalizers Resturant, Abuja).Pictures of cover below.

6.Look at women as friends. Whenever you are talking to a woman...look at her face,not at her body.Ask God to help you look at women they way He sees them.

7.Don't regard your urges as evil. It is only if you use it in ways that God did not intend (outside marriage) that it becomes evil.

8. Fill yer mind with the clean stuff. Learn something new, something useful.

God will help you. And remember...it isn;t the temptation that is sinful, everyone is tempted. It is giving in to the temptation that is sinful.

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