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Re: How Can A Christian Handle Sexual Urge? by ares245(m): 3:42pm On Jan 11, 2015 |
MusaIbrahim1:lol |
Re: How Can A Christian Handle Sexual Urge? by Nobody: 3:43pm On Jan 11, 2015 |
duni04: Don't be deliberately obtuse. YOU know for everything, there are precautionary measures. The actual discipline lies in not over doing those things rather than not doing them at all for the fear of being burnt forever. Eating: Obesity Recreation: Hernia Fasting: Starvation, Mal-nutrition and death Emforced Celibacy: Secret paedophillia, rape -- and eventually, "God please forgive me!" Dude, have you heard the term "Drink responsibly"? It takes discipline to do that. So you see, you can "Eat" responsibly, self-service responsibly, Fast [whatever that means] responsibly, furck responsibly, e.t.c all na discipline. So as you said, it does pay to live a disciplined life, not an indoctrinated one. Cheers 2 Likes |
Re: How Can A Christian Handle Sexual Urge? by pussyphilia(m): 3:44pm On Jan 11, 2015 |
UchihaMadara:Your analogy is inconsequential.5pm to 7pm is just two hours apart and it's so much easier for the son to wait, besides there's a guarantee that he will eat the kpomo at 7pm and doesn't have to work his butt out before he could have the 'kpomo' and even continue working so hard to cater for the 'kpomo' even as the economy does not favor his struggle for the 'kpomo'. 1 Like |
Re: How Can A Christian Handle Sexual Urge? by Nobody: 3:45pm On Jan 11, 2015 |
We in a wicked generation, where sin is celebrated while d righteous is being victimized, its really a shame, I stand here to say and I repeat, dat pre-marital sex is bad, no remedy for it. Try bro to stay chaste, its not easy buh try and be calm. Read ya bible, avoid sex chats and avoid watching erotic films, by so doing ya end up not tinking abt ladies. So many ladies and men envy who ya re, buh pretends as if its no big deal. As for me its either shez a virgin till our wedding nite or no marriage, cos a frnd just shared a senerio wif me, dat dis particular grl said dat anytime she and her guy sees dey ve sex, even if dey see 9 times in a week. OMG, wad a sinful world, and a wicked generation, and na person weh innocent go marry dat kind woman. No sin wld go unpunished. 2 Likes |
Re: How Can A Christian Handle Sexual Urge? by VivaLaFrans: 3:45pm On Jan 11, 2015 |
Thugnificent:You might do it and crash. |
Re: How Can A Christian Handle Sexual Urge? by DNDROID(m): 3:47pm On Jan 11, 2015 |
fabokai:What will I do with that ? |
Re: How Can A Christian Handle Sexual Urge? by dprince33(m): 3:50pm On Jan 11, 2015 |
1st Corth 6:18 shld solve ur problem cos wen u understand d nature of fornication n its effect on our christian life den u will pray hard 2 flee frm it. Pray 2 God 4 help till ur married. God bless you |
Re: How Can A Christian Handle Sexual Urge? by Dez80(m): 3:51pm On Jan 11, 2015 |
LucemFerre: hahahahahahaahaha, u got me laughing real hard here 1 Like |
Re: How Can A Christian Handle Sexual Urge? by aleniboro(m): 3:51pm On Jan 11, 2015 |
Dont deceive yourself, this is nature in action. That is why we are instructed to marry by all religion's standard. Get yourself a wife! The oil needs to be offloaded regularly! 1 Like |
Re: How Can A Christian Handle Sexual Urge? by Rapture4real(m): 3:51pm On Jan 11, 2015 |
God is not wicked .if he knows we can't handle it, he won't say we shouldn't go there. Pray against it.accept that it is wrong and mean it.avoid sex triggers.go for deliverance if needed.read the bible and attend fellowships.keep company with godly friends.share your concerns with godly friends who will help pray with you.the evil of sexual immorality is more than the enjoyment.I'm married.I can tell you there is no big deal in sex.it is overrated by the perverts to lure people into it.keep your mind pure.you will overcome |
Re: How Can A Christian Handle Sexual Urge? by Nobody: 3:52pm On Jan 11, 2015 |
Hehe.... you guys think there's something you wrote here that the OP had never heard before coming on Nairaland? Read bible, pray, fast, this and that, OP said he was born and brought up in a core Christian family. This suggests that he does all these already! And the thing still dey do am . Prayer and fasting do no stop konji o! Nigerians and hypocrisy! God created nature and do not work against it. Konji is natural. So if you have any practical advice, give it and stop quoting the bible as if there's anywhere in it that says, "and I will stop your konji". 3 Likes |
Re: How Can A Christian Handle Sexual Urge? by Nobody: 3:52pm On Jan 11, 2015 |
critique101:U ryt... Been celibate for 2yrs +,dont av a girlfriend for me premarital sex comes with alot of drama,av been there,so am talking frm experience 1 Like |
Re: How Can A Christian Handle Sexual Urge? by teekay213(m): 3:52pm On Jan 11, 2015 |
pls n pls do whatever you can now to surpress the urge b4 the urge surpress u to what you don't want to do i.e defiling ur neighbour little girl or even incest (konji).all these holy holy i don't subcribe to it. 2 Likes |
Re: How Can A Christian Handle Sexual Urge? by Nobody: 3:53pm On Jan 11, 2015 |
bushdoc9919: Same as stated in this comment HERE and I hope you aren't oblivious of news making rounds about Pastors, Imams, Prophets, e.t.c caught on a daily basis doing one or two things to sexy females who are just too tempting to resist. What works for you, won't necessarily work for another. If you doubt me, ask Samson, he's a perfect example (Judges 16:1) and I'm sure he's chilling with Baba God in heaven even after this 1 Like |
Re: How Can A Christian Handle Sexual Urge? by duni04(m): 3:53pm On Jan 11, 2015 |
Reiyvinn:u no well o. No such thing as self-service responsibly. The fact that you're wanking in the first place means you've lost control So yea discipline does pay |
Re: How Can A Christian Handle Sexual Urge? by kalufelix(m): 3:53pm On Jan 11, 2015 |
Op dat thin wey adam chop don dey hungry you abi? Lol the religious,atheist,satanist,philosophers,jerks,commedian e.t.c comments are clear and very direct includin the initial post by d op ah think am enjoyin this thread |
Re: How Can A Christian Handle Sexual Urge? by Pokemon43(f): 3:54pm On Jan 11, 2015 |
Get your self busy most of d time so d devil does not put thoughts in ur heart cos an idle man is d devil's workshop.rememba ur body is God's temple so be careful what u do with his temple |
Re: How Can A Christian Handle Sexual Urge? by Nobody: 3:56pm On Jan 11, 2015 |
BornSad: No, God won't stop the konji....after all someone's got to be fruitful But,in a way, you gain a wonderful gift..(by holding on/waiting )..the gift of patience and forbearance, even when all systems go. And by extension....the gift of self sacrifice. All important for this life..... But it is not by force. Lady Venus is a lovely gal. Just know that you can benefit a lot more by not beating a path to her boudoir....when the urge strikes! |
Re: How Can A Christian Handle Sexual Urge? by Drmaverick: 3:56pm On Jan 11, 2015 |
1. Pray 2. Read Your Bible 3. FLEE(Not resist) from temptation 4. Know that the consequences on a medically, religious and spiritually level are bad that helps me a deterrent 5. Find something to keep your mind occupied 6. No one is perfect ,when u fall(i've fallen too) pick ur self up!!
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Re: How Can A Christian Handle Sexual Urge? by Remmyte: 3:56pm On Jan 11, 2015 |
He or she should engage in meaningful activities that will disengage his or her mind from immoral acts.He can also engage in fasting |
Re: How Can A Christian Handle Sexual Urge? by BraveAfrican(m): 3:58pm On Jan 11, 2015 |
Re: How Can A Christian Handle Sexual Urge? by Nobody: 3:59pm On Jan 11, 2015 |
BornSad: You antagonists are really funny though I must say, you are definitely keeping this thread upbeat. I don't think any Christian here is saying he/she is perfect, but the truth is some have done it, some are trying in that they want to do it but can't yet, while some are not trying at all. Lol @ "I will stop your konji", guy you are crazy! |
Re: How Can A Christian Handle Sexual Urge? by freecocoa(f): 4:01pm On Jan 11, 2015 |
See people saying he should pray,what is he going to be praying about exactly? Against the spirit of sexual urge that was given to him by God in the first place? Una funny sha . 2 Likes |
Re: How Can A Christian Handle Sexual Urge? by kalufelix(m): 4:02pm On Jan 11, 2015 |
teekay213:lol op u don hear am in other words cure ursef in a lil more legit way b4 u go mad |
Re: How Can A Christian Handle Sexual Urge? by ajufinz(m): 4:02pm On Jan 11, 2015 |
Sexual urge has neva killed anyone (male/female). if congie was real the male scrotum would have grown bigger than ur head. What you're struggling with is lust(an uncontrollable desire ). but since you said how can a Christian .... then we (Bornagain) all have the fruit of the Spirit, among which is "self control" . Master your appetite... self-service is an alternative ur desires find, but it soon loses its ability to satisfy you. garbage in garbage out... what have you been feeding your soul? 1 Like |
Re: How Can A Christian Handle Sexual Urge? by acadollar(m): 4:02pm On Jan 11, 2015 |
Download christian messages from renowned men of God, both in naija and abroad and be listening to them. focus on messages directed to youths and youthful lust. |
Re: How Can A Christian Handle Sexual Urge? by Nobody: 4:03pm On Jan 11, 2015 |
UchihaMadara: I'm sure your misusing words here, bro. By "antagonists", you mean? |
Re: How Can A Christian Handle Sexual Urge? by Nobody: 4:03pm On Jan 11, 2015 |
pussyphilia: The underlying principle in both our analogies is discipline, is it not? As people have already said, you can get married whenever you want. You really don't have to wait to fulfill all your goals before you do, if you know you can't wait. You could always get a like-minded spouse, that would share your goals. So for instance, if you say no kids, till you are secure at 35, then both of you should be in it together to achieve that and still have a cool marriage. |
Re: How Can A Christian Handle Sexual Urge? by freevo: 4:03pm On Jan 11, 2015 |
pray for sanctification and abstain from indecent scenes and thoughts. |
Re: How Can A Christian Handle Sexual Urge? by duni04(m): 4:03pm On Jan 11, 2015 |
freecocoa:Pray for the discipline to control it |
Re: How Can A Christian Handle Sexual Urge? by Nobody: 4:04pm On Jan 11, 2015 |
Reiyvinn: See this man....so you think I am some repressed monk , sitting down and grumbling about all the restraints placed on me by some old guy in the sky......who gave me some feelings,but won't let me use them? Of course...I get konji well,well well.....I even get am in high amounts. But what keeps me from acting on them...apart from the religion...is the consequences. No,you won't always remember to use protection. And them Rule 34 images can wreck any relationship. And self service can become more desirable than a relationship with a real woman. I don't expect it to work for all...I am a realist after all. But....it certainly is beneficial if a man's only s.....x experience is with the woman he is married to...not because of the fact that religion prescribes it...but because it is helpful in many other ways too. I guess you think religion proscribes s''''x. It does not.It rather regards it like fire...useful when controlled....a danger when out of control. 1 Like |
Re: How Can A Christian Handle Sexual Urge? by Nobody: 4:04pm On Jan 11, 2015 |
BornSad: "A person who actively opposes or is hostile to someone or something; an adversary." |
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