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Does Being Married Makes A Man Responsible? by EReloaded(m): 2:07pm On Jan 10, 2015
I am presently at the wedding reception of a neighbour. And typical of most 'Chairman' of wedding receptions, this particular one started with a sermon that extols the virtues of Holy Matrimony and concluded that the new hubby is now a responsible man.

Last time I checked, neighbour is one of the most responsible men I know. Hard working, courteous and generous, this guy despite living alone as a bachelor for a long time is very decent and not a womaniser.

Now my question is this, what suddenly makes neighbour a 'responsible' man? If it is because he just got newly married, does that make other married folks who keep numerous lovers and engage in indecent living irresponsible?
Re: Does Being Married Makes A Man Responsible? by MissSlimbody(f): 2:12pm On Jan 10, 2015
No. I have seen lots of irresponsible married men.

A man is not responsible because he is married, but because he chooses to be responsible.
Re: Does Being Married Makes A Man Responsible? by Nobody: 2:15pm On Jan 10, 2015
Nope! Being married gives a man responsibilities bt it doesnt make him responsible.
Re: Does Being Married Makes A Man Responsible? by lanicky(f): 2:16pm On Jan 10, 2015
No it doesn't... undecided

Cos 2 married men are currently begging me to date them.

Although some men (40%) are responsible nd faithful to their spouse but d remaining 60% of em are not responsible.

I'm talking from my experience with them.

If u like throw stone @me...ion care.
Re: Does Being Married Makes A Man Responsible? by tosyne2much(m): 2:17pm On Jan 10, 2015
I think a man is automatically presumed as being responsible the moment he gets married but ironically, some ppl are no where beside being responsible

In some corporate organizations, some sensitive posts demand married men. That shows marriage is sometimes a yardstick to measure ones responsibility

To each his own opinion
Re: Does Being Married Makes A Man Responsible? by passionate88: 2:19pm On Jan 10, 2015
lanicky:
No it doesn't... undecided

Cos 2 married men are currently begging me to date them.

Although some men (40%) are responsible nd faithful to their spouse but d remaining 60% of em are not responsible.

I'm talking from my experience with them.

If u like throw stone @me...ion care.
Nice story... @op No it doesn't
Re: Does Being Married Makes A Man Responsible? by Nobody: 2:20pm On Jan 10, 2015
Being married doesnt tie a man from chasing after other women..its an individual trait..Some men try to hide that side of them when married but for others, it jxt aint possible..@Lanicky

Being Responsible is a personal choice.. Marriage isnt a complete reason to certify a man,Responsible..

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Re: Does Being Married Makes A Man Responsible? by DeeBoiyy: 2:21pm On Jan 10, 2015
@topic sometimes
Re: Does Being Married Makes A Man Responsible? by uwa1(m): 2:26pm On Jan 10, 2015
Marriage usher in responsibilities. Its accepting dis responsibilities dat makes him responsible.

Also in d single world. Dere are responsibilities. Its accepting dis responsibilities dat makes him or her a responsible guy or lady.
Re: Does Being Married Makes A Man Responsible? by lanicky(f): 2:29pm On Jan 10, 2015
SuperMartins:
Being married doesnt tie a man from chasing after other women..its an individual trait..Some men try to hide that side of them when married but for others, it jxt aint possible..@Lanicky

Being Responsible is a personal choice.. Marriage isnt a complete reason to certify a man,Responsible..


What's not possible?
Re: Does Being Married Makes A Man Responsible? by Mutuwa(m): 2:33pm On Jan 10, 2015
EReloaded:
I am presently at the wedding reception of a neighbour. And typical of most 'Chairman' of wedding receptions, this particular one started with a sermon that extols the virtues of Holy Matrimony and concluded that the new hubby is now a responsible man.

Last time I checked, neighbour is one of the most responsible men I know. Hard working, courteous and generous, this guy despite living alone as a bachelor for a long is very decent and not a womaniser.

Now my question is this, what suddenly makes neighbour a 'responsible' man? If it because he just got newly married, does that make other married folks who keep numerous lovers and engage in indecent living irresponsible?

Not that an act of the almighty cannot change a Man for good.But to be sincere old habits rarely fade.If his mind is keen on changing,and becoming responsible,with or without matrimony he will and so it is vice versa. The only diff btwn responsible and Irresponsible is the prefix "ir" grin
Between the almighty and the devil..there is the human mind which is very discreational in nature.so choose ur destiny.
Re: Does Being Married Makes A Man Responsible? by Shedysworld(m): 4:27pm On Jan 10, 2015
Not really, but marriage sometimes make some men refocus and start being responsible.
Re: Does Being Married Makes A Man Responsible? by lilmax(m): 5:11pm On Jan 10, 2015
lanicky:
No it doesn't... undecided

Cos 2 married men are currently begging me to date them.

Although some men (40%) are responsible nd faithful to their spouse but d remaining 60% of em are not responsible.

I'm talking from my experience with them.

If u like throw stone @me...ion care.
okay undecided

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