Being able to tell when a man is emotionally attracted and interested in you is an important skill to have if you want to save yourself the trouble of heartbreak and embarrassment of trying to go after men who simply wants you to go away and leave them alone.

Women are happier in long term, committed relationships. If you are presently looking for a man who you are unsure about his commitment to you, you are sitting on a time bomb waiting to explode! If a man keeps saying that he doesn't want anything serious, or he says that your relationship is casual, then at least you know. But if he doesn't explicitly tell you, and flirts with you, he's playing with your heart.

Women everywhere are increasingly frustrated by the lack of fundamental communication with men. It's common when women waited longer, the more men put off the talk about becoming official. And when she tried to talk about it, he always said that they were still getting to know each other, and that he wasn't ready. But in reality, some men stay around to toy with your feelings, have sex and disappear breaking your heart. Those are bad men. And they are the reason you have been previously struggling with making a man fall in love so desperately that he will have no other choice but to commit to you. Bad men can never be good. Once you discover this you will realize that if your man is bad he may secretly be a cheater who tells people he is still on the market even while you are dating him, sleeping with him and even living with him.

If he is that kind of man, it's time to end the relationship pronto. He's certainly not the kind of man you want. He will ruin you if you are not careful! The fact he's inconsistent is most disturbing to me because he appears to be a rather sneaky and dishonest character. It's about emotional attraction. If your man is not honest with you and he does things behind your back, his covert activities could lead to something more dangerous. Unfortunately, if you stay with this one, it's going to remain a situation of shouting, tears and significant sadness.

If a man really has feelings for you, he would want something more exclusive, and he'll commit fast usually within the first three or four months. If he's a good man who can provide, there wouldn't be any difficulties, he would just pop you the question about being together. It really is about emotional attraction.

A shallow relationship can be a very difficult experience to get over. But try to learn something about it. Next time when you meet a guy doesn't really respect you and takes you for granted, leave him first before he leaves you. Those people are not worth your time. If you were in a real relationship with a good man, you wouldn't ever be forced to have slog and sort through such trivial problems in the first place. And think about it, if there's so many problems already in the first few months, how would you ever be able to make it to a long term relationship of a few years, let alone be committed to a life time?

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Guys this is a nice piece, many ladies fall into shallow relationships with guys who are uninterested in something serious.. And they keep putting off making it official until u have opened ur heart to them, thereby making it more difficult to deal with the pain of their rejection.