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A Perplexed Virgin.what Could Be His Problem? by virginboy1(m): 8:29pm On Jan 19, 2015 |
Disclaimer:I am not rating or hyping Virginity.Thanks Am in my middle twenties,like any sane male my age,I have a libido that can far too much for me handle. During cold weather like harmattan period,the urge usually escalates to a paramount peak to an extent of me loosing focus at night. Waking up feeling depressed due to the urge and whenever I find it difficult to bare,I end up doing press-up or any exercise(which is an advantage physically). I always feel awkward and wimpy when some friends and colleagues expressed their sex tales(the heavenly feelings,the elated mood it gives them)"chaiiii". Infact,I used to be mocked by guys and ridiculed by some ladies concerning my no sex status. If I have waist pain and seek for solutions,i get negative advice like"it is because you dont sex,your akamu don full,etc) I was adviced to pray and fast that it is spiritual,I tried,but the libido is still overwhelming. Often times during sermon i loose concentration and focus in mind due to this "konji or wateva" feelings.SMH Lastly the idea of marriage popped up,which leaves me with the problem of how long will i wait to get married,when I don't have the luxury and still have a carrier to acheive."All Izz Well" Viewers discretion,advice,assertioms and opinion is needed.Virgins and Secondary Virgins how do you all cope?pls share. Virgin bashers please take it easy on me. Cc:Jmoore,Samewell247,Onila,SeverusShape,Eraddray,peteruuu,MilesLamar,Shawnfamous,Chison89,Cutehector4u,Laslasticlala 1 Like |
Re: A Perplexed Virgin.what Could Be His Problem? by cirmuell(m): 8:36pm On Jan 19, 2015 |
Hian. Consult Nairaland association of vaseline users na. 3 Likes |
Re: A Perplexed Virgin.what Could Be His Problem? by Dotwillis1(m): 8:39pm On Jan 19, 2015 |
Ermm.. |
Re: A Perplexed Virgin.what Could Be His Problem? by thiefnubu(m): 8:41pm On Jan 19, 2015 |
Ok |
Re: A Perplexed Virgin.what Could Be His Problem? by Nobody: 10:39pm On Jan 19, 2015 |
cirmuell:...you need to give him your business card nna... |
Re: A Perplexed Virgin.what Could Be His Problem? by cirmuell(m): 11:02pm On Jan 19, 2015 |
soe:Hw was ur day bro? |
Re: A Perplexed Virgin.what Could Be His Problem? by AfricanApple(f): 11:03pm On Jan 19, 2015 |
you are one of the reasons Vaseline is difficult to get in the market |
Re: A Perplexed Virgin.what Could Be His Problem? by DonX001: 11:06pm On Jan 19, 2015 |
cirmuell:Seconded!!! You can add NL Association of Soap Users, NL Association of Toothpaste Users , and even NL Association of Chinese Balm Users PS: You can find their Presidents on all the Virginity threads littering the forum. The loudest proponents are usually the president, or at least in the exco, of one of these associations. |
Re: A Perplexed Virgin.what Could Be His Problem? by Enegod(m): 11:06pm On Jan 19, 2015 |
AfricanApple: cirmuell: 1 Like |
Re: A Perplexed Virgin.what Could Be His Problem? by cirmuell(m): 11:07pm On Jan 19, 2015 |
AfricanApple: |
Re: A Perplexed Virgin.what Could Be His Problem? by cirmuell(m): 11:09pm On Jan 19, 2015 |
DonX001: |
Re: A Perplexed Virgin.what Could Be His Problem? by mirexxx(f): 11:13pm On Jan 19, 2015 |
my opinion o...seems u dont wanna av premarital sex so if u have a girlfnd u love, tell her abt it n ask her 2 marry u if she accepts then go 2 a nearby church meet d priest and ask him 2 join u b4 God. u don't need money 4 wedding or anyfin. its not a sin at least u'd b relieved |
Re: A Perplexed Virgin.what Could Be His Problem? by AfricanApple(f): 11:21pm On Jan 19, 2015 |
Enegod:na this kain night u dey laugh like this? I no won get nightmares 1 Like |
Re: A Perplexed Virgin.what Could Be His Problem? by Enegod(m): 11:25pm On Jan 19, 2015 |
AfricanApple:am sure this will prevent it...
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Re: A Perplexed Virgin.what Could Be His Problem? by Nobody: 10:10am On Jan 20, 2015 |
cirmuell:...we are derailing bro...lol..fine n urs? |
Re: A Perplexed Virgin.what Could Be His Problem? by nawtikid(m): 12:04pm On Jan 20, 2015 |
Hehehe...niqqa, u jst dey giv urxef undeserved frustrations....go n fvck jo |
Re: A Perplexed Virgin.what Could Be His Problem? by mentorandfriend(m): 2:16pm On Jan 20, 2015 |
The feelings you're having is natural. I have them too. It can really be frustrating. I've never had sex before, so I identify with your feelings. My advice is not for you to go out looking for cheap sex. Get a girl who really loves you. If both of you are really into each other, then little things as calls, text, pings, exchange of gifts, hugging, deep french kissing, and holding of hands can show you how much you're really loved. It eases the tension. That's what I did. 3 Likes |
Re: A Perplexed Virgin.what Could Be His Problem? by jigxy(m): 4:23pm On Jan 20, 2015 |
mirexxx: what if him or the girl neva finish school? |
Re: A Perplexed Virgin.what Could Be His Problem? by mirexxx(f): 4:34pm On Jan 20, 2015 |
jigxy:lol dts d only way i know o since he doesn't wanna fornicate thanks,bye |
Re: A Perplexed Virgin.what Could Be His Problem? by cirmuell(m): 4:40pm On Jan 20, 2015 |
1 Like |
Re: A Perplexed Virgin.what Could Be His Problem? by SMREXY(m): 5:47pm On Jan 20, 2015 |
mirexxx:Nyc post dear! |
Re: A Perplexed Virgin.what Could Be His Problem? by mirexxx(f): 5:48pm On Jan 20, 2015 |
SMREXY:seriously?? thanks a bunch |
Re: A Perplexed Virgin.what Could Be His Problem? by Maamin(m): 6:01pm On Jan 20, 2015 |
Bros @op, looks like your dogoyaro is trying to put you into palava. But dont worry, here is my two cent You need to put that your third leggy under serious probation and mind over matter plus watch plenty of cartoons *unwraps boli and takes a bite* |
Re: A Perplexed Virgin.what Could Be His Problem? by AfricanApple(f): 7:17pm On Jan 20, 2015 |
Enegod:it looks like wrapped cocaine |
Re: A Perplexed Virgin.what Could Be His Problem? by virginboy1(m): 7:23pm On Jan 20, 2015 |
mentorandfriend:Getting a girl isnt a problem,I think I will opt to the romance kissing stuff without going into the mutual sex aspect. But,with the way ladies of this days dash out their virginity/body for so called love,money,food and other trival and luxurous things.To see a lady with same V staus as me,will be a problem. *Sighs* |
Re: A Perplexed Virgin.what Could Be His Problem? by virginboy1(m): 7:32pm On Jan 20, 2015 |
mirexxx: |
Re: A Perplexed Virgin.what Could Be His Problem? by Enegod(m): 7:37pm On Jan 20, 2015 |
AfricanApple:nah...its cuban weed |
Re: A Perplexed Virgin.what Could Be His Problem? by Enegod(m): 7:37pm On Jan 20, 2015 |
Re: A Perplexed Virgin.what Could Be His Problem? by AfricanApple(f): 7:42pm On Jan 20, 2015 |
Enegod:no wonder!!! |
Re: A Perplexed Virgin.what Could Be His Problem? by AfricanApple(f): 7:43pm On Jan 20, 2015 |
virginboy1:you want to kiss without having sex? one chance for you 2 Likes |
Re: A Perplexed Virgin.what Could Be His Problem? by jmoore(m): 8:00pm On Jan 20, 2015 |
I have given you my reply in the first thread. Why create another duplicate na? |
Re: A Perplexed Virgin.what Could Be His Problem? by Enegod(m): 8:08pm On Jan 20, 2015 |
AfricanApple:u like it? |
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