hello all nairalander,, Some days back i took my time to study the young girls in my area i discovered that girls prefered dating married men than single guy. why is it so. your contribution please, thanks.

The answer is simple.
Emotional insecurity, wickedness, greed and above all, love of money.

meexteriox:

The answer is simple.
Emotional insecurity, wickedness, greed and above all, love of money.

Girls know if a man is able to provide for his family then he must be able throw the occasional tit-bits around at on-lookers. . . Unfortunately though, the down-side to getting involved with a married man is you present the risk of breaking up this once happy family. . . And if the laws of karma really do exist, then u can expect similar treatment if not worse.

Rogo:

hello all nairalander,, Some days back i took my time to study the young girls in my area i discovered that girls prefered dating married men than single guy. why is it so. your contribution please, thanks.

I have a number of reasons for you:

1.Security: Guys are becoming too disappointing these days. Most guys actually act like they are doing you a favour by dating you. But if you are dating a married man, he knows you can walk out on him anytime you want, so he treats you like a queen and doesn’t mess around.

2.Lack of romance: C’mon lets face it; the word ‘romance’ has lost its value. It’s used for deceit and cheating these days. If you are dating a married man, any romance in it will be an illusion cos you know he’s not yours. So you don’t love him with all your heart and you save yourself a lot of heartache when the r/ship crumbles.

3.Money: This is a very high motivator. Everyone wants a good provider around her. I was just reading a thread where the girl says her guy loves her but doesn’t buy her gifts. Well, that wouldn’t happen if he was married.

4.Wickedness: some girls actually do it to spite their fellow ladies. To tell them that they can have what they have. I have a friend who’s dating her friend’s husband. And the idiot man even tells her that she’s better in bed than her friend. And when she tells her story, she tells it with such joy. I think her friend did something to her in the past and this is just payback for her. But she doesn’t know she’s hurting herself more, cos the man’s just using her.

5.Love: Believe it or not, people fall in love with married men, and their happiness depends on that relationship.

You know, I still dont understand why a married man would date someone else. I mean, he made his choice and married her . . Why cheat on her? Most of them even claim to love their wives . . . So why would they cheat

Financial benefits,Connection

COS most young guys behave stupidly and immatured. they cant handle most situations.
they always want to end it. gown up men, not necessarily married take there time and to put things righ maybe cos of lots of experience

It happens in some part of Naija

The reason is purely based on greed as well as breaking another woman's home.

concupiscence of the flesh and ardour of wordly desires!

Ujujoan:

1.Security: Guys are becoming too disappointing these days. Most guys actually act like they are doing you a favour by dating you. But if you are dating a married man, he knows you can walk out on him anytime you want, so he treats you like a queen and doesn’t mess around.

Girls are equally disappointing. Tell me how secured you are in a relationship u know is definitely going to hit the rocks. And mind u, most married men will treat you nice cos of what they stand to gain. They spoil you silly just to get in between your legs. How secured are you in a relationship where the man is always hiding you from the public?

Ujujoan:

2.Lack of romance: C’mon lets face it; the word ‘romance’ has lost its value. It’s used for deceit and cheating these days. If you are dating a married man, any romance in it will be an illusion because you know he’s not yours. So you don’t love him with all your heart and you save yourself a lot of heartache when the r/ship crumbles.

You dont love him with all you heart, yet you allow him make love to you?

Ujujoan:


3.Money: This is a very high motivator. Everyone wants a good provider around her. I was just reading a thread where the girl says her guy loves her but doesn’t buy her gifts. Well, that wouldn’t happen if he was married.

We have countless young and rich men available.
Why then pitch your tent with a married man who has no intentions of ever marrying you.
The best you can be is a mistress.

Ujujoan:

4.Wickedness: some girls actually do it to spite their fellow ladies. To tell them that they can have what they have. I have a friend who’s dating her friend’s husband. And the idiot man even tells her that she’s better in bed than her friend. And when she tells her story, she tells it with such joy. I think her friend did something to her in the past and this is just payback for her. But she doesn’t know she’s hurting herself more, because the man’s just using her.

Ever heard of the law of Karma?
What goes round surely comes around

Ujujoan:

5.Love: Believe it or not, people fall in love with married men, and their happiness depends on that relationship.

Yeah, people fall in luv with married men but that should be if you are unaware of his marital status. when u are aware, then u should try to undo whatever feelings u have for him. He is married and will probably stay married, you or no you.

Ujujoan:

You know, I still don't understand why a married man would date someone else. I mean, he made his choice and married her . . Why cheat on her? Most of them even claim to love their wives . . . So why would they cheat

I still don't understand why girls will throw themselves at married men knowing fully well that he's married. Why try to break his family? Yeah, most of them love their wives and don't joke with them, they just see those girls out there as playthings.

Girls do it for several reasons.But the most common reasons are for financial support or to have a relationship with no commitment.Most ladies are afraid of giving their heart to a relationship because they fear they may never be able to recover if the relationship goes sour.That sort of cautious living never satisfies anybody.If you want love you've got to risk being hurt.There are no short cuts.

I think its for various reasons like wanting a father figure, someone there can respect. secondly, money and connections

some are seriously looking for connections, why others are not.

Yeah. . .senseless young gurls that is!!

this is not rocket science.

when a married man is cheating on his wife, he can't spend as much time with the girl so he spends money to keep the relationships. so young girls date these married men for money, however, it's not just the money.

when a married man is cheating, he treats the girl better than his wife, so these girls get treated really good.

when a man is married, he has to go home to his wife/kids, so he doesn't spend too much time with the girl, so the girl is out and free to do as she wishes.

so these young girls want a man to treat them really good, spend money on them and not bother them 24/7.

Simply put MONEY!!!!!!

its just like give me wot u hav n i'll give u wot i hav.d gurl gives her body n d guy gives her money back in return.no strings attached

love me

90% of the reason is for financial aid and security. the remaining 10% is just shared between going out with mature men and the desire to break up a happy home. shikena!!!