iice:

No. Once the friendship is dead, it is over for me. The person is relegated to non-existent.

davidylan:

Yes i would. We can still be friends.

topup:

Imagine: you're a guy who had a pretty cool relationship with your ex (who is a sweetheart), you enjoyed the relationship whilst it lasted, but for some reason you broke it off, and it ended badly, you both didn't speak for several weeks, you contacted her, but it was only several days afterwards did she reply, then you ignored her reply, but she tried contacting you afterwards, at least 3 more times and once to congratulate you on your new job, you replied but soon afterwards you started ignoring her again. So she stops messaging and you don't speak for 3 months, and recently you're missing her and you sent her a text message a month ago asking her what's up and hoping she was ok but she did not respond to it, and now in a few days it's going to be her birthday.

Would you wish her happy birthday or?

Give reasons
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touchmeder:

all these up and down movement me i nor come understand am oh ''i contact, she ignore, she contact aftawards, u ignore again, send text, she nor respond''. is that not all time consuming not to talk of frustrating? if one is seriously involved with someone else would u still have all that time? i got nothing with being on speaking terms with an ex if things aint so bad, but in this case it would appear not to b d case. So what is d need. move on jare

topup:

If we are not talking, I still would, I am not someone who holds any grudge and I believe a Birthday is a way of celebrating that person being alive today and I don't wish anybody dead. I am happy they are alive, even the ones that hurt me, I am happier with them alive than dead (though they don't really contribute to my life eitherway). It just would be weird if they were dead.

It's not about keeping a grudge
Am very good friends with my ex's. We still hang out, if they have problems they call me. But once the friendship is done, the person ceases to exist. The time spent 'wondering' if he's fine or 'what will he say if i contact him?' or whatever - is best spent for me doing other things. The person should please move on and stop bothering the other.

skolars:

don't say that
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