chiggiee:
my name is gozie, i am female and i am from Anambra state. I have been in Lagos almost all my life; schooled in lagos, served in lagos and currently working in Lagos.
meeting a decent igbo guy in Lagos has been a herculean's task since my university days, i have mostly had guys from other tribes flock around me and i am really not looking to settle down with a non-igbo guy(and please it has nothing to do with being tribalistic because the ratio of my non-igbo friends to the igbo ones is like 80:20).
so i would really like to know why it is difficult, cos i know Lagos is more populated with igbo people. so is it my location? or maybe i don't go out often? or maybe it is not the right time?

please feel free to drop your comments.

p.S. should in case a decent igbo guy(residing in Lagos) stumbles upon this post, i am just a mail away: chigiee@yahoo.com

moststylish:
show your face pls

moststylish:
show your face pls

moststylish:
show your face pls

Rapmoney:
Op, there are so many nice and decent Igbo guys in Lagos! Who told u there are none? Or is it that u are the indecent one? Repping Igbo guys to the core!!!

eyeview:
That's because you've been hanging out at the wrong places

Rapmoney:
Op, there are so many nice and decent Igbo guys in Lagos! Who told u there are none? Or is it that u are the indecent one? Repping Igbo guys to the core!!!

So you be nwa afor sef

I thought you are from Warri

KAYCEEJUNIOR:
its all depends on what you mean by being decent, if it is decent in Character....then you have to meet me before you jump into the conclusion but in the other way round, if your own definition of decency is in monetary terms......o girl, you no carry any igbo boy come Lagos, guys dey hustle for their prospective wife not for a random chick

chiggiee:
my name is gozie, i am female and i am from Anambra state. I have been in Lagos almost all my life; schooled in lagos, served in lagos and currently working in Lagos.
meeting a decent igbo guy in Lagos has been a herculean's task since my university days, i have mostly had guys from other tribes flock around me and i am really not looking to settle down with a non-igbo guy(and please it has nothing to do with being tribalistic because the ratio of my non-igbo friends to the igbo ones is like 80:20).
so i would really like to know why it is difficult, cos i know Lagos is more populated with igbo people. so is it my location? or maybe i don't go out often? or maybe it is not the right time?

please feel free to drop your comments.

p.S. should in case a decent igbo guy(residing in Lagos) stumbles upon this post, i am just a mail away: chigiee@yahoo.com

3cycle:
You are not searching in the right places. Checkout the spareparts and building material shops at Alaba, them many there.

3cycle:
You are not searching in the right places. Checkout the spareparts and building material shops at Alaba, them many there.

OGeeKush:
Coz they niggaz r tryin to make a living.. Be patient, when they r done they'll come for ya

Richard6:

U are wrong, am not saying that am a decent person but there are many decent guys in lagos. I reside in lagos and I know what am saying, so search well

Tinubu:
hmmmmm


Another ritualist on the prowl







You want us to meet you so that you can use our amu for rituals abi?

Anyway



If you can't find your type of man in the whole of Lagos, then you have to check yourself. ... maybe you aren't worth having those types of men

chiggiee:


oh so, was the "prospective wife" never a "random chick" at a particular point in time? did you think this your post through? and since when did the word "decent" come to mean "money"? please enlighten me, i am willing to learn

KAYCEEJUNIOR:
Ok young lady, let me enlighten you abit, its absurd for an igbo girl in her mid 20's to rant online that their are no decent Igbo boys in lagos, except obviously if she meant money wise decency which my igbo brothers are not willing to spend on and random chick, I mean RANDOM CHICK!!! looking for a pocket to feast on.

chiggiee:


ok, so my question would be "where are the right places?"

chiggiee:


lwkmd.. unfortunately nothing ever takes me to that part of Lagos. i am sure some still stay on the mainland so ama keep hoping

chiggiee:


noted

eyeview:


Am sure you are looking at a guy you can happily settle down with,not just for fun. If right,then you have to note the following:
1,Reappraise where you having been hoping to meet such guys. You can't be hanging out at clubs at night and expect to meet an igbo guy that is decent. Hardly will you come to such places and expect a guy that is willing to take you home to parents. Most guys coming there are coming with a mindset-quickfun.
2,Reappraise yourself and ask if you 'form',living a life that projects you as a high class chic,projecting an expensive class. You gotta understand that while that can be a turn-on for yoruba boys,its a complete put-off for an igbo guy. They just easily see you as unreal. This is as a result of their traditional values upbringing. So you might have to check yourself and see whether you'll have to come down to earth a bit.
3,Because a majority of the decent igbo guys moved to Lagos at one time or the other,they still have ties with their homes and won't flow well with any girl that has become too 'lagosnised'. For eg,a hardworking igbo boy will choose a girl that will encourage that they save and build a house in d village first over that one that want him to pay millions as rent in the 'highest brow' of Lagos,drive the costliest car but with no bucket to their name in their village. The latter might work for a yoruba guy(a typical example is D'banj living expensively in a rented house in lekki1 while P'square stayed at Omole and built their own house). And they look out for these things in their conversations with you.
Since you were born and bred in Lagos,you might have taken time to note these things.
I wish you the best.

KAYCEEJUNIOR:
Good girl, but you can give me a trial and you will be convienced

3cycle:
You are not searching in the right places. Checkout the spareparts and building material shops at Alaba, them many there.

KAYCEEJUNIOR:
Ok young lady, let me enlighten you abit, its absurd for an igbo girl in her mid 20's to rant online that their are no decent Igbo boys in lagos, except obviously if she meant money wise decency which my igbo brothers are not willing to spend on and random chick, I mean RANDOM CHICK!!! looking for a pocket to feast on.

3cycle:

Just say you're looking for the educated ones.
Visit any fidelity or diamond bank closeby most customers and bankers are "decent" igbo guys.
Where is lagatusglaber? He will help find igbo guys for you.

eyeon:
I told them I wanted to go to Lagos and they refused, now see opportunity just passing by...
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Gozie don't worry okay, though I'm not there, I'm not the only decent Igbo guy. You'll either meet him or meet me in another anonymous state.